Exclusive Update: Tamra Barney Of The Real Housewives Tells Us The Truth?



I am not sure what to believe???  If Simon is in bed with Jay that must mean Tamra is in bed with Gretchen which makes me want to throw up.

**I am getting intel that Simon Barney was never friends with Eddie Judge.  Looks like Tamra might be telling the truth on this one.

Also See: Real Housewife Of Orange County Tamra Barney And Her Ex Husband’s Buddy

**Update Email from Jay Photoglou (Gretchen’s “Secret” Lover)**

I am starting to think this Eddie guy is a pawn that TB is using to stab Simon’s heart in true DreamKiller fashion.


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  1. March 17, 2010 at 10:45 am

    anonymous says:

    Tamra, you are a loser in life. Enjoy your 15 minutes of fame for being nothing more than an entitled, plastic bimbo.

    Reply to anonymous
    • March 18, 2010 at 9:45 am

      DirtyGuynNB says:

      JAY, who fronted you the money to play the $3-$6 hold’em game? Did you get a $50 marker? On your credit? Come on bro…. Share with us how two LOW rollers like YOU and Simon Barney (who was forced to SHORT SALE his house and currently in divorce) can afford the gas money to fill up your Toyota Corolla. WHO PAID FOR THE GAS??? I know you don’t have a credit card and Barney’s Visa is MAXED and delinquent.. Where did you two clowns stay? Imperial Palace?? Down town??

      Reply to DirtyGuynNB
    • March 17, 2010 at 3:06 pm

      j. says:

      You’re an idiot. Getting a divorce makes someone a “loser in life?” If anyone is a “loser in life” on the show it’s Gretchen… she’s a complete fraud. Look at the archive on this site– the pics of her with Jay’s name tattooed on her finger within a month after Jeff died. And all the pics Jay took of her naked while she was “engaged” to Jeff. I admire Tamra for leaving Simon and she has kept quiet about Simon for the most part, while he has ran to any tabloid that will pay him and made up stories…

      Reply to j.
      • March 18, 2010 at 6:34 am

        Brittany says:

        Oh please all those tramps are losers in life they live for nothing but themselves and milking money they didn’t earn.

        Go to college, get a degree and make your own money you materialistic hoochies.

        Reply to Brittany
      • March 18, 2010 at 12:34 am

        Tamra's leathery skinned wrinkles says:

        Tamra is the most disgustingly vile piece of worthless trash I have ever seen. Why is she even alive? She has no education, no job, divorced twice(?), and looks like complete sh*t. Who is the dad to that drug addict convict son of hers? Was that a husband or a one night stand? What a piece of garbage.

        How can she possibly think she is hot? Look in the mirror. You are middle aged, leathery skinned, wrinkly crows feet and sunspotted skinned who*e who is the scum of society. I really feel sorry for those young kids that have to have such a piece of sh*t trailer park trash skan* as a mom. They are going to end up drug addicts and criminals like her unemployed son is.

        Why the hell did Simon marry that wretched beast anyway? I would say I feel sorry for him, but he probably has some fuc*ed up psychological issues too if he fell in love with that subhuman animal.

        Reply to Tamra's leathery skinned wrinkles
      • March 18, 2010 at 4:49 pm

        .:DTF APRiL:. says:

        I Think Tamera’s beautiful and awesome. People are just jealous..let them be.

        Reply to .:DTF APRiL:.
      • March 18, 2010 at 5:46 pm

        Brittany says:

        Jealous of? Please list. Very curious!!

        Reply to Brittany
  2. March 17, 2010 at 10:49 am

    DirtyGuynNB says:

    I saw Tamra at the Renaissance Gym a few weeks ago and she looked angry. Tamra, get your life together, focus on your kids. What the hell are youi doing going off to Panama and embarassing your kids? Stay home, get your finances right, and make sure your little ones don’t turn out to be like your son, RYAN. God knows we don’t need another loser in OC.

    Reply to DirtyGuynNB
  3. March 17, 2010 at 10:51 am

    kevd says:

    bros before hos and shes a big ole ho.

    Reply to kevd
  4. March 17, 2010 at 10:55 am

    SouthBostonProjects says:

    Who cares…more Leper please!

    Reply to SouthBostonProjects
  5. March 17, 2010 at 10:56 am

    Anonymous says:

    i love how “tv stars” have no choice but to talk to nik when on the inside it probably kills their soul alittle bit each time

    Reply to Anonymous
  6. March 17, 2010 at 10:58 am

    Mr. Armpit says:

    I guess bad taste and 4th grade spelling are the hallmarks of an O.C hoseabag.

    Reply to Mr. Armpit
  7. March 17, 2010 at 11:05 am

    Realbee says:

    Simon met Eddie because Eddie was a friend of the realtor Tamra works/worked for. It would be accurate to say that Eddie “knew” Simon but to claim they were “friends” is deceptive on Simon’s part. Simon is the one who filed for divorce so he got what he asked for. Tamra is moving on with life and who cares if she is dating??? She is a free woman now and she can date whomever she chooses, get over it.

    Reply to Realbee
    • March 18, 2010 at 5:38 pm

      Brittany says:

      Or instead of ditching her kids, she can pack up a picnic lunch and spend some quality time with the little ones instead of latching on to the first guy who comes along with a pre paid Visa. Get a clue skank, you’re disgusting.

      Reply to Brittany
      • March 19, 2010 at 10:36 am

        Avrey says:

        So, let me get this straight. If a woman gets a divorce from a controlling ahole with a bad temper and a few months later decides to take a 3 day trip, she is “ditching her kids”? What about Simon “ditching his kids” and shipping them out to Tamra’s mom on “his weekend” so he could go galavant around Vegas?? STFU you idiot. And btw, Tamra spens more “quality” time with her kids than most moms do. They are always taking walks, biking, playing at the beach, etc so you need to shut your yap about things you have no clue about.

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    • March 17, 2010 at 11:59 am

      Anonymous says:

      Simon should have dropped that dead weight years ago. She is white trash! She will be working in a diner in a couple of years as soon as that show is done. Either that or she will be working at some truck stop go-go bar….

      Reply to Anonymous
    • March 17, 2010 at 11:23 am

      Anonymous says:

      I agree with Realbee. Simon filed, she has a right to move on. Simon was controlling and now he is jealous that she has moved on. Get over it Simon. You need to find someone who is willing to bow down and obey, you might find them on desperate.com or lowselfesteem.com but sorry Tamra was not the one.

      Reply to Anonymous
  8. March 17, 2010 at 11:14 am

    old hag says:

    this nasty ho is so old! act your age and get over yourself, hag! you are not cute and do something with your kids slut!

    Reply to old hag
    • March 17, 2010 at 11:42 am

      Realbee says:

      She is 42, how exactly is she suppose to “act”? She is dating and living life. I think YOU need to GET a life and not worry about Tamra.

      Reply to Realbee
      • March 17, 2010 at 12:52 pm

        Captain Obvious says:

        Realbee is Tamra. We get it,,, we get it…. Stop with the self posting it makes you look even worse. Both you and Simon are fuking White Trash that can’t afford to live in the O.C any longer. If this Eddie dude pays you any money or haves you move in with him,, well then he’s a fuking loser too.

        Reply to Captain Obvious
      • March 18, 2010 at 11:15 pm

        Realbee says:

        Well Captain”Not so Obvious”.
        I’m not Tamra. She and I have mutual friends and that’s how I know Simon is lying whe he says Eddie was his friend. It’s just not true. Have you notived that nobody else has backed up his claim? I didn’t think so

        Reply to Realbee
      • March 18, 2010 at 11:01 am

        just saying says:

        damn, if they are white trash, they why do you feel the need to bash them and get so angry, calm down your typing on a computer!

        Reply to just saying
  9. March 17, 2010 at 11:23 am

    anonymous says:

    Simon has always been so rude and mean to Tamra, acts like such a dick, now this just proves hes making up more lies or trying to “convince” people of this story.
    so who cares that shes moved on? Good for her, plus she is hot!!

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  10. March 17, 2010 at 11:33 am

    honest says:

    She is telling the truth I am friends with jay and simon and him ran into eachother in vegas and they have been talking ever since… Eddie was not friends with simon… Simon is a piece of shi* and just wants to talk shi* on tamara so his name stays in the spotlight… Since noone cares about him now….tamara is a gorgeous woman and deserves a guy that will be good to her and have a decent job… :)

    Reply to honest
    • March 17, 2010 at 9:14 pm

      honest(ly) you're very dumb says:

      Your educational system has failed you! Learn how to put together a proper sentence, jerk wad!

      You’re friends with Simon but you call him a piece of s@it? Some friend you are. Smart money is on you being a two-faced scum bag who sucks at life.

      Also… Tamra is by the far the biggest dumpster sl@t on the show & IMO by far the most fake. She acts like her sh@t don’t stink, but that 40 year old sc@nk does literally & figuratively.

      Reply to honest(ly) you're very dumb
  11. March 17, 2010 at 11:36 am

    nunh says:

    Two words – w * h * o c * a * r * e * s

    Reply to nunh
  12. March 17, 2010 at 11:46 am

    southcountydude says:

    Simon is a P.O.S.
    i know for a fact that she is NOT lying !

    Reply to southcountydude
  13. March 17, 2010 at 11:54 am

    Don Drapper says:

    what is a “mural” friend? I guess spelling is not important on the west coast

    Reply to Don Drapper
    • March 17, 2010 at 8:35 pm

      hotchickens says:

      Hey Don, “Draper” is spelled with one P….so why dont you worry about your own spelling errors before you make an ass of yourself. Thanks…..

      Reply to hotchickens
    • March 17, 2010 at 4:12 pm

      LOL says:

      You really commented over a spelling mistake? Good one champ.

      Reply to LOL
  14. March 17, 2010 at 11:55 am

    Banger says:

    This skank just needs to shut up and spread her legs and open her mouth for all the guys that need to make a deposit. I love newly divorced/separated women; they think that guys are really attracted them and forget most men would bang just about anything.

    Reply to Banger
  15. March 17, 2010 at 11:56 am

    OBV says:

    I think its obvious that Tamra’s cronies have started posting comments……

    Reply to OBV
    • March 17, 2010 at 12:57 pm

      Captain Obvious says:

      Yep. I agree. Tamra’s crazy white trash a$$ and loser son are probably up in there cramped apartment posting away.. Simon’s probably on here too. They are both trying to hang on to that 15 minutes of z list “Fame”

      Reply to Captain Obvious
  16. March 17, 2010 at 11:57 am

    JulyMiss says:

    Why the hate on Tamra? She is a hott 42 yrold woman living her life just like any other single woman would do. How does this make her a stut? All women with bf’s who have kids are sluts? I don’t think so.

    Reply to JulyMiss
  17. March 17, 2010 at 11:57 am

    Not Simon says:

    What are “mural friends?” This bitch is dumber than a box of rocks!

    Reply to Not Simon
  18. March 17, 2010 at 11:59 am

    Crisstal says:

    Simon was never a friend of eddie judge. They met a few times becuz Tamra’s real estate boss was his friend so Simon is totally lying. He lost Tamra and he cant get over it.

    Reply to Crisstal
  19. March 17, 2010 at 12:04 pm

    jenn says:

    Team Tamra! Simon is a lier and an @zzh0le!

    Reply to jenn
  20. March 17, 2010 at 12:06 pm

    The Dude says:

    Seriously? Who the f*ck cares about this sh*t?

    Reply to The Dude
  21. March 17, 2010 at 12:22 pm

    . says:

    All of you guys that are haters are idiots!!! Have you ever misspelled something… Nope guess you are perfect… She is gorgeous leave her alon she is just trying to live her life and be happy

    Reply to .
  22. March 17, 2010 at 12:35 pm

    bet says:

    ok Tamara we’ll leave you “alon”…no more old lady drama Nik, this is boring.

    Reply to bet
  23. March 17, 2010 at 12:55 pm

    Ilovetheshow says:

    I love how everyone that has defended Tamra, cannot spell worth a sh*t. Wow, amazing how dumb some so-cal hoes really are.

    Reply to Ilovetheshow
  24. March 17, 2010 at 1:03 pm

    Captain Obvious says:

    Oh and let’s be real. Tamara loved this dude tell the money ran out. “Big Mystery” Solved! This other dude is just Dollar signs. All this chicks are the same from this show. Sorry Nik,, but its kind of like the same thing your GF’s mom’s did,,,, You know george $$$$$$$ hahahaha,, True love OC style.. Barf

    Reply to Captain Obvious
  25. March 17, 2010 at 1:05 pm

    Judge Mental says:

    only young, hot chicks should be featured. this old lot lizard w beef jerky skin, FOUR kids, no education, no profession & the personality of a shoe needs to get a job, take care of her kids & replace the batteries on her gaydar bc that Eddie guy is 100% forgy! she looks like janice from the muppets

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  26. March 17, 2010 at 1:08 pm

    Nitpicking says:

    alone and mutual…..everyone out there in SpellingPoliceLand happy now?!

    Simon’s kinda hot (??) BUT seemed like a control freak grouch on the show, ya.

    Reply to Nitpicking
  27. March 17, 2010 at 1:17 pm

    Everybody's got problems says:

    They both deserve to find happiness and I think Simon was over bearing and annoyingly controlling. They both need to move on and worry about their kids.

    Reply to Everybody's got problems
    • March 18, 2010 at 5:43 pm

      Brittany says:

      You think this because… you watched the show? Did you notice that everyone on that show is a bimbo? Plastic parts don’t make you hot when your face looks like frozen wrinkled plastic. I bet Simon was just pissed off about how much money that thing wastes on her “looks”

      Reply to Brittany
    • March 17, 2010 at 3:16 pm

      haha says:

      Thanks Dr. Phil! You frakking foney!

      Reply to haha
  28. March 17, 2010 at 2:14 pm

    painesville is tha reason im cold says:

    who gives a f*ck about these lames

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  29. March 17, 2010 at 2:19 pm

    Anon E Mouse says:

    Who gives a crap about some fake bleached blond over tanned middle aged white people that pretend they have money when they are really broke and still trying to dress like they are 17?

    Reply to Anon E Mouse
  30. March 17, 2010 at 2:24 pm

    KC Esq says:

    Biggest loser? The entire OC crew, or those who create massive posts about them? You decide…

    Reply to KC Esq
  31. March 17, 2010 at 3:28 pm

    zrollin... says:

    Can someone please tell these forty year old retards that proper spelling and punctuation in emails isn’t just for looks, but rather so other people can understand what the f*ck you are saying.
    These people make more money in one episode of their sh*tty TV show doing nothing but drinking champagne in limos, than I make in a year busting my ass, and they can’t even write a complete sentence in English correctly.

    These are people that make cold blooded, pre-meditated rape and murder sound completely justifiable.

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    • March 18, 2010 at 11:02 pm

      Cheripie says:

      mm, who are the 40 years olds and so what if they are? You sound very dangerous and scary. It’s men like you who give men a bad name you big loser. I’ll bet you’re fat too.

      Reply to Cheripie
    • March 18, 2010 at 7:57 pm

      Crisstal says:

      Yea, they should all look to you because you are so eloquent and classy, right? You have a filthy mouth and sound like poor, uneducated, white trash. You talk about rape and murder yet critique a random person’s spelling? I hope you aren’t let off your leash at night and I would bet my monthly salary (which I’m sure is 10X what you make in a year) that you haven’t had a date in years. Get a life and a job you loser.

      Reply to Crisstal
    • March 17, 2010 at 4:03 pm

      This is true says:

      America has gone to sh#t.

      Reply to This is true
  32. March 17, 2010 at 3:53 pm

    mark says:

    Tamra “the coug” has about a year before she looks like grandma.

    Reply to mark
  33. March 17, 2010 at 4:05 pm

    Rich Brutha from Compton says:

    Give the young bruthas a chance Tam. With your fine cougar self.

    Reply to Rich Brutha from Compton
    • March 20, 2010 at 8:01 am

      Dick soplenty says:

      You think she would lower herself to touch a purple crayon, well she is old and white trash I think you may have a chance.

      Reply to Dick soplenty
  34. March 17, 2010 at 4:10 pm

    d says:

    These pathetic low-lifes just highlight how most 40+ idiots in orange county are. What kind of s*itty parent acts like a 25yo bottle rat vegas hood and talks sh*t like a college sorority chick. Lay off the botox and assliction and start raising your kids.

    Both of these idiots will be broke and bankrupt once again soon, much like every other OC wannabe.

    Reply to d
  35. March 17, 2010 at 4:18 pm

    Anonymous in LA says:

    thru all comments… where’s the dood who always jacks Vicki… luv that guy!

    Reply to Anonymous in LA
  36. March 17, 2010 at 4:30 pm

    WTF says:

    Who care’s, Vicki’s still a FAT WH@RE !!!

    Reply to WTF
  37. March 17, 2010 at 4:42 pm

    poopooo says:

    WORST SHOW IN THE WORLD, NIk didnt your girlfriend use to be on there and your best friend shane ke*gh? but tamera IS SO F*CKING HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply to poopooo
  38. March 17, 2010 at 5:10 pm

    Jayson Bu*ch says:

    My sources tell me Nik is banging Tamara! Just sayin

    Reply to Jayson Bu*ch
  39. March 17, 2010 at 6:04 pm

    Rich Brutha from Compton says:

    Vicki got back. Don can’t handle that. I wanna bend Vicki over and hit it Muppet style.

    Reply to Rich Brutha from Compton
  40. March 17, 2010 at 6:10 pm

    ARealHousewife says:

    I have never been a fan of Tamra, so my comment should not be misconstrued as such. I was so disgusted by her and Vicky’s behavior during the 4th season that I didn’t watch this season. I did, however, watch the reunion show and really felt bad for Tamra. She got thrown under the bus more than once. I think it’s possible that Simon is, indeed, trying to make Tamra look bad for sympathy.

    Oh, and Vicky, if you’re reading this, quit running your mouth about how much you work. No one cares and you have no reason to sound high and mighty all the time. I’m wondering when she’ll be commenting about the kid she was photographed making out with in Mexico last month. So pathetic.

    All these women need to grow up and quit acting like out of control sorority sl*ts. You’re all middle aged women and you need to start acting like it. Get your damned face outta the tabloids and off the gossip blogs. It’s disgusting.

    Reply to ARealHousewife
    • March 18, 2010 at 3:23 pm

      notanocwife says:

      It’s not about Tamara and Simon. It’s about their children and Tamara trying to be a celebrity. The children, to me, must come first. Tamara doesn’t understand this, and I feel is trying to live her life over. Meanwhile, Simon might try and take her kids from her. Her vocabulary is vulgar and so are her actions. A friend should tell her this.

      Reply to notanocwife
  41. March 17, 2010 at 6:14 pm

    Now kids.. says:

    Simon is a controlling, misogynist with a serious case of short man syndrome and tamra is an aging wh0re. they both deserve(d) each other.

    Reply to Now kids..
  42. March 17, 2010 at 9:23 pm

    miss480 says:

    Tamara is such an effin low life.

    Reply to miss480
  43. March 18, 2010 at 1:48 am

    IC OC says:

    I HATE TAMARA BECAUSE SHE IS A OLD HOE BAG. SHE IS PAST HER PRIME. ITS SO ANNOYING HOW SHE ALWAYS SAYS “I’M THE HOTTEST HOUSEWIFE IN THE O.C” NEWSFLASH, GRETCHEN IS WAYYYYY HOTTER THAN YOU!!!!!!!!

    Reply to IC OC
  44. March 18, 2010 at 3:56 am

    no standards here says:

    all these hoe’s need to just make a porno with lexington steel, smoke meth, and endanger their children. That would be a better claim to fame. I’d love to stick it in Tamra’s ass, make her squirm and then get Gretchen involved in some ATM action.

    Reply to no standards here
  45. March 18, 2010 at 6:27 am

    Dick soplenty says:

    She is a sl*t!!!! She banged my friend in Mexico when Simon was down stairs!!! Tamara just admit your a sl*t !!!!!!

    Reply to Dick soplenty
  46. March 18, 2010 at 6:34 am

    nunh says:

    All of these people are trash with no self respect. Next.

    Reply to nunh
  47. March 18, 2010 at 7:12 am

    Big Julio says:

    Tamara is just pretty white trash… That Simon swooped out of the Trailer Park. How is TB even on the show??? Doesnt she live in Costa Mesa???? Sorry but that isnt exclusive. They need to revamp the whole OC show…. All should be gone except Vicki & Alexis… Gretchen can stay….. But TB and Lynne are Poor…. Maybe TB and Lynne can get a show called… Keeping up with the Jones and living beyond your means

    Reply to Big Julio
    • March 18, 2010 at 9:55 am

      DirtyGuynNB says:

      100% right. Lynn and Tamra are BROOOKE. So is Gretchen.. why are they on the show? There are plenty of broke people but why follow these women around? One received an eviction notice, husband is being sued for massive amounts of money, daugthers are train wrecks… the other is going through a divorce with 3 little kids, a son who is a TOTAL douche bag (former bartender, CHP officer, marketing rep, aspiring firtness trainer), forced to short sale, broke…. Lynn said “We’re drinking Champagne on a beer budget”.. That should be the NAME of the new show Big J..

      Reply to DirtyGuynNB
  48. March 18, 2010 at 7:52 am

    Ryan says:

    everyone stop talking sh*t on my mom, PLEASE! she is a wonderful woman. Also can someone please give me some money for some rogaine, propecia, something, all the yae-yo made me lose my hair at an unusually young age!

    Reply to Ryan
  49. March 18, 2010 at 8:49 am

    MyDickHasAMassiveSoreOnTheTipThanksTamara says:

    This guy is a used car salesman, the skank is a real estate assistant and their house is in foreclosure, what a couple of DBs.

    Reply to MyDickHasAMassiveSoreOnTheTipThanksTamara
  50. March 18, 2010 at 1:31 pm

    Joe says:

    Trailer trash Tamra has been caught lying AGAIN. First she said she wasn’t not dating that gross greasemonkey and then Radaronline called her out on her lie.

    She has been trashing her kids dad and he has not said a word and has taken the high road.

    I think Simon is the better person and the better parent. Tamra is a low life who only thinks of herself and does nothing for her kids.

    On the show they always showed Simon getting up with the kids and taking care of them while her drunken hungover *ss was still in bed. She is scum.

    Hope Simon gets custody of the kids so they have a chance at a normal life.

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