Michelle: Okay. I’m another mistress of John Jays. There was 1 before me, 1 during me, (plus how many ever I didn’t know about). Sorry to say, Nik Im not a reader of TheDirty as Im an older woman – but my daughters do; much to my discouragement. They saw your post about John Jay cheating and dived over themselves to inform me right away. Of course, a lot of their friends then saw it, and so on and so on. I’ve thought long and hard about whether I wanted to say anything. It’s embarrassing and painful; nevermind the fact that (sorry) it’s all sleazy & dark over here and Ive lived enough of that life! So I thought a lot about my motivation and can honestly say I want to be open to sharing details of my affair with johnjay, (which by the way…lasted over 3 years) for the sake of my own and my daughter’s and friends healing and accountability. Gag. I know. Also if it can help other people not make the same mistake I did, Ill just sleep easier. Ok so you want the deets Im sure. We met on myspace. Yup. My space. January 2008. My first message to him involved the raparte and witty banter johnjays so good about throwin out. Its his “thing”. I gotta admit his attention felt good; made me feel special. Light a candle, grab a drink. gag again. My very first message reply from johnjay – which was IMMEDIATE –First words off his “fingertips?” LETS HAVE AN AFFAIR. BE MY GIRLFRIEND. No $hit. Guy had balls. Figuratively speaking. (ps. I do have 2 coworkers who witnessed the email – so Angelica and Mark, if youre reading this; have at it) CUT TO: yah, johnjay says that 2 months later –and yes…we’d already done the deed quite a few times actually. 1st time was at the Pointe at South Mountain. Johnjay would reimburse me, I paid on my card. He’d always schedule our dates around events of his: mark grace bowling tournament, superbowl parties, etc. We’d always do hotels until after our first 6mos; after Blake took the kids away for the summer. Then he started coming to my condo in the gayberhood. Shout out to the gays!!!! Love you guys!!!! That whole first year was I suppose johnjays married, old man way of “courting me” schmoozing me with tickets, getting my kids into these meet and greets – and NOT that we didn’t appreciate it johnjay…we did – but they’re cheesy dude. I mean my 19 yr old is 3 times the size of pete wentz (who grabbed her butt by the way – while he was married to Ashley) and the whole johnjay and rich banner. It was kind of embarrassing. “Sex and the city premiere” yah, he got us into that. My youngest daughter won the Barney’s gift card. Thanks kiss104.7! I remember he made such a big deal about Phooson. You know the last one they had before they CANCELLED THEM?!!??$$$ Anyway, I was a smitten girl, being wooed by a married man – and we were openly sharing it in front of my daughters (who by the way are OVER 18) I was having a major crush. 2 of my daughters and a family friend went to the concert & we walked right up to the will call window and guess who is directly in front of us but, ‘mrs johnjay’. She was yelling kinda loud, “hes my husband!” – while johnjay is calling me on the phone to make sure I got in ok. I told him I was right behind his wife – and he thought it was funny. Weird, right? So he kept calling me the whole night, came out to talk to us, held up his phone in front of the crowd to show me that he was “texting me” (oh yah…remember all those times he was ON HIS PHONE?) Yah! Guilty. He then actually called me and informed me that he’d gotten better seats for me and my girls than he did for his own wife and mom. So you see – he kinda just disrespects ALL women with that. We all know that sh*tty feeling in the pit of our stomach. I know I should have just cut bait and run. I didn’t. I just got more involved; he was laying it on hardcore. We went to dinner with his best buddy. He was at my condo 3 or 4 times a week. Constantly on the phone, texting, bbm’ing. Thank God Twitter came out because he could finally have a convenient excuse to be on his blackberry all the time. Then he’d do mad weird $hit: He’d show up places without me knowing and jump out and surprise me. He gave my daughters and I a bag of vibrators he’d gotten at the station. He’d ask me to go out and meet him somewhere but pretend I was a stranger. Role playing. I’d webcam him in the morning while he was on air. You’re welcome. Also he was extremely jealous and possessive of me. CLASSIC PROJECTION. The married cheater thinks his mistress is cheating on him. All my guy friends know and feel free to say what you know is true- I was NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE GUY FRIENDS. TRUTH. I wasn’t even allowed to go to Mill Avenue on a Thursday night for dinner because there were young doods down there. Suddenly I was sitting at home, waiting on my married man’s call. Not hot. Nik, this is the only picture I have of him because he hacked into my computer and emails, its when we went on a family vacation to San Diego with my daughter, I have plenty of details if you want to know more.
Thank you for your bravery Michelle. I truly hope other girls victimized by him feel the same strength to come forward. In my opinion Clear Channel should fire him indefinitely. Michelle, please feel free to tell us more… let my website be your blank canvas. Also, to JohnJay’s wife Blake and the very popular Biddulph family in Arizona, I am truly embarrassed for you.- nik
ALSO SEE:
Clear Channel’s John Jay Needs To Be Exposed For The Womanizer He Is
Clear Channel’s JohnJay VanEs’ Mistresses Are Starting To Come Forward
gunner says:
some hoe give him aids so he can go die now. tired of hearing him and about him.
to gunnerWow ... says:
Now, how did I end up under this post?????
Affirmations are continued ….
to Wow ...Anonymous says:
When the truth about this situation comes out, Nik is going to finally look like the idiot he is and you all are going to feel really stupid for believing this.
to AnonymousAnonymous says:
I don’t believe her story either and even if it was true in my book she is a whore. Because she knew the whole time John Jay was married but still fooling around with him. KARMA will get to her sooner or later.
to AnonymousQuestion says:
Boys are just toys?????
to QuestionBob says:
What a horrible looking woman, I don’t think he would !
to BobAnonymous says:
I am so glad that someone had busted this lame homo!! He’s the worst radio personality!!! Please get this fag off the air!
to AnonymousWhatever says:
While I don’t doubt that JohnJay is a cheating manwhore, something about this woman’s story is fishy. Why would she make an ass of herself by telling the entire world this story? Also, her Facebook and email were hacked? That screams bullsh*t. I personally think the story is a sham and the woman and her sleezy daughters want attention. I surely hope they weren’t looking for sympathy.
to WhateverGenius says:
This is all too great! I don’t even care if this is true or not it’s pure entertainment. I bet this drove their show ratings through the roof with everyone listening to see if he would even mention it. Being a fan of the show, I can tell you that he didn’t even waste a breath. Haha. Thank you Johnjay even if you made this all up for us to have a good laugh. But if it’s true, Michelle what’s yourbdating age range. Your a hottie mild lol and I would totally teach you the meaning of the word “dirty”. If you would like my number I can add you on facebook. I’ll get all up this your controversy! Lol.
to GeniusGenius says:
Oh yea btw… Where the he’ll is mistress 1 and 2 . All we hear from are #3 and her stripper babies. Bring em out bring em out!
to GeniusAnonymous says:
It’s funny this psycho and her daughters claim they were with this guy for 3 years and yet there’s no pictures of any of them together. Sounds like BS to me!
to Anonymousuhhh says:
Keep your head up Michelle! Proud of you for telling your story! Not many people have that much courage!
to uhhhwoot says:
Guess everyone is over this post lol
to wootxoxo says:
this kinda makes her look even worse then him. what a gold diggin whore.
to xoxoher daughters dont have a chance in hell.
xoxo says:
im from texas and im not even sure he’s on the radio here, but i hope thats true about him having a restraining order. reading through the comments she sounds like one of those crazy bitches thats going to end up hurting him but claiming self defense. i think her story of the “death threats” regarding his uncle is her way of setting it up nicely.
to xoxothats scary as f*ck.
Jen says:
All too often, we get so completely blindsided by our hatred of the recently discovered other woman that we forget to give just dues to the fellas who are at the whole root and source of the situations.
They get to scuttle around unscathed — and in their simple little twisted minds, sometimes convince themselves that women are fighting over them — while our female bravado flares up, acts out, and puts all of our good, God-given common sense in a choke-hold.
While we’re stalking, threatening, and following the side chicks (and don’t think I don’t know that you’re doing it. Calling her boss, calling her names. Blaming the mistress. Shame on you!)
The dudes are relishing in their adventures and have become the #1 storytellers down at the barbershop because we fail to throw the whole blame and responsibility at them, instead of the fool broads they slept with.
to JenAnonymous says:
Not sure I believe all this but if this is true he is another Tiger Woods!!!
to AnonymousCheaters Caught Online says:
One of the mistresses is going on air this week and is taking a polygraph live.
to Cheaters Caught OnlineWhat a joke says:
Hairplugs must be in the dog house. His twitter reads “need to take wife on romantic getaway”. Quick Nik, recommend anywhere that doesn’t have the dirty?
to What a jokeDA Strong says:
Oh man!!! When I look at the thumbnail on the right in Dirty’s biggest posts I see that pic of asshat vanass that looks like a balding red headed troll with two buck teeth.
F*^%$g HILARE!
Keep it up Nik, this story has more skid marks than the guys shorts
to DA StrongAnonymous says:
this is truly disgusting… The man is a pig! and I always knew their show was phony, it was too stupid to be real.
John Jay Van Es??? WHO? creeper. Come to terms with reality and face up to what you’ve done! Karma is a B**** and it will come around in a full circle. Look what you’re putting your kids through man! and your wife… poor things.
to AnonymousYOU ARE GROSS. And you suck at doing your job.
Rich too! you guys make radio personality’s look like crap.
veronica says:
Noooo not johnjay! I loved him! Aww
to veronicaB says:
“Fire him indefinitely”?…lol.fag.
to BAnonymous says:
My mom got in a car accident in January of 2010 and Johnjay called me and my sisters and told us what had happened. He even drove us to the hospital in his beamer. We were a big part of his life for three years. As was he a big part in our lives. I really looked up to this guy. For what reason you might ask? that’s a really good question… I have no idea. pitiful, just pitiful.
to AnonymousTeam Blake! says:
Blame your mother for that.
She’s the skank that says she had sex with him (a complete stranger) after he sent her ONE Myspace message. Who does that?!?!
A creepy, desperate whore, that’s who.
to Team Blake!Blake has says:
a mangina
to Blake hashaha says:
looks like no one cares anymore
to hahaLydia says:
Johnjay you should be ashamed of yourself! I will never talk to you again. You owe all of us who thought you were a nice guy an apollogy. You owe all the women you’ve hurt a heartfelt Im sorry. Everyone of these women you lied to and led on is disgusting. And then you tried to tell me that it was just some crazy stalker. Im ashamed of you. You’ve lost my respect.
You deserve whatever you get from this.
to LydiaLydia says:
Another thing, what all you people (and Im sure alot of it is just Johnjay trying to get people over here to cover for him – I know. He lied to me too. I cant imagine what he’s telling everyone about me) You guys aren’t nice. This woman and her kids were trying to just tell the truth and you all have been so cruel.
I saw her story on the Cheaters site you can tell it’s the truth and shes too classy for over here. You all suck.
to LydiaTeam Blake says:
Classy women don’t sleep with married men.
to Team BlakeAnonymous says:
AMEN!!!!
to AnonymousAnd Blake says:
has no team. except her fellow clydesdales that pull kegs through the alps.
to And Blakewhatsreallycreepy says:
JohnJay is so consumed with himself and being famous that I would not be surprised if he had all these affairs to also get caught and cause a huge scandal. He seems to want to be famous at any cost. He is a huge name dropper. I won’t listen to him anymore. Incidentally I was commenting about a broadcast of his at work and how weird I thought he was, and several people said they don’t listen to him anymore because he is so completely weird. This was days before all his dirt came out. I mean I thought I was the only one who could see what a disturbed individual he is. Uhm I’m switching to Elvis Duran..or Lady LA..who is way, way NATURALLY prettier than Kyle. LA is a cooler chick too!
to whatsreallycreepyJohnjay says:
Bro they drop my name, but thanks for associating me with a series of famous people. Frankly you all know I’m famous. Its fun to be me, make fun of me and most importantly listen and hang out with my actually interesting live, uncensored, charmingly family friendly morning show / radio program, brought to you on this blog by Healthy Trim.
Are there sponsors for the Frank Show? I don’t know maybe its “Frank the fool, brought to you four people listening this morning from Al’s hot car lot and Big Ben’s Smoke Shop, two for one packs of Menthol’s, tell’em Frank the fool sent ya!” Is that about right?
BTW thanks for this titillating tandem of a classy woman out to wrong every man’s discretion’s by innocently go on air with a talentless hack.
Many famous people go to the same party’s that I go to, the kind Michelle and Frank never attend cause they are dweebs. You deserve the heartburned and talentless Frank the fool with that his special radio abilities and perennially hungover sounding sad sack voice. What a pussy and a b!tch! How can one station spend big chunks of its day lauding how much cooler, more famous and interesting the life, times, trials and really cool adventures that = my life. Thanks.
Frank please send me your press, have you had an article? Ever? Do you sleep at your Mom’s still? Just wondering?
Here’s a news flash Franky boy: GET SOME TALENT, find something clever to say about YOU, YOUR SHOW…? NO?
Here is a flash forward 5 years: We see Frank flipping burgers soon while Johnjay is nationally syndicatred surpassing the great Howard Stern. Thanks for trying Frank but please get off my coattails you no talent hack.
to Johnjaymichael says:
i love it john jay eerything you said is true and it was great keep up the good work and i love your morning show
to michaelold dirty bastard says:
I would sue them. it’s better than getting yourself arrested by punching him in the head or something
to old dirty bastardWow ... says:
FYI Nik, you are lucky that I am actually busy. YEAH, SHOCKER. I have to go talk to all the imaginary people in my life.
Also, FYI … I was talking to one my imaginary friends over the weekend in regards to this website. You know what she said, or rather, what she did: she LAUGHED.
Maybe people like my personality? SCARY EH
to Wow ...Dedicated says:
To all that don’t have a voice. BECAUSE I SURE DO. No way in HELL am I STOPPING.
to DedicatedFlamboyant 4 Life says:
“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.” – Albert Einstein
I don’t think Nik can understand this quote, right Nik.
to Flamboyant 4 LifeFlamboyant 4 Life says:
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do. – Confucius
to Flamboyant 4 LifeDicTac says:
Maybe Frank should shear a patch of his ginger backfur to give to Hairplugs. HARHARHARHARHARHARHARHARHAR
to DicTacDicTac says:
i WOULD TOTALLY MOUTHBANG THIS OLD HUSSY
to DicTacLaLa says:
How perfect is that? He hacked into her computer deleted all her pics, except of course, the one of him by himself and the one where you cannot see him at all.
to LaLaAnd what a mother Michelle is. Teaching her daughters to either be dirty home-wrecking whores or to be lying skanks.
maca says:
i heard he tried to get up on a gust of wind
to macaAnonymous says:
I work at Clear Channel and it’s no secret that Johnjay cheats. It’s not against company policy and you can’t get fired for cheating. It is however really hurtful to his wife and kids but it’s not against the law or anything.
What is grounds for termination is fraud. IF he was “fixing” prize giveaways that are sponsored by advertisers that are meant to be given to the general public, and he’s hand picking his mistresses to win, then advertisers might care about that, and all of the angry people who registered for something and didn’t win, but it’s unlikely anyone would come forward to prove that. Other than that, nobody cares and he will continue doing what he wants. The only thing that will get him off the air is if everyone stops listening and ratings go down. But you all are reading this, so ratings are probably doing alright.
The sad thing is, his wife married him when he was a fat guy and accepted him as he was. Now, all of a sudden he’s lost weight and has a popular show so he craps all over her. That’s just wrong. Maybe he does have an addiction. It takes a sickness to hurt someone like that over and over, including his own children. Addiction does that. I would just like to tell him to get some help and change. It’s never too late to change, and ask your wife for forgivness -and mean it.
Oh and by the way, most of those war of the roses and confessionals and all that are totally fake.
to AnonymousAnonymous says:
I feel bad for his wife and kids. If I was here I would take him for everything he owns. She must be a sweetheart to put up with all his crap. By the way I changed radio stations a few months ago. I’m not interested on listening to nonsense crap. My Fav was war of the roses but I noticed something was not genuine. I just found out what it was.”FAKE” Thanks!
to AnonymousLawyer says says:
When his lies about me get back to me, My lawyer recommends I warn people they may have to testify about where they heard that information.
to Lawyer sayshmmm says:
I wonder who John jay spent his time with when his wife was in pinetop all of those times
to hmmmplease says:
do us all a favor Johnjay and get a tummy tuck and a face lift and rogaine it up, man
to pleaseJohnjay is a sociopath says:
Sadly, some ignorant people believe the abuser’s lies that the mistresses are at fault
and without proof of any kind, will, defend the abuser by harassing his target.
The abuser has orchestrated this knowing these people may commit illegal acts while the abuser himself is protected. (Richard Drake / Stephen Holzman / Joia Friedrich / Rich)
They believe him and see him as the injured party, pitiful and in need of help.
The abuser is now thoroughtly enjoying all the resultant chaos and attention he has created.
to Johnjay is a sociopathjohngay & fake says:
can die and spend eternity in hell with that mexican whore mother of his
bleeping wastes of space
to johngay & fakemichael says:
you see i really think Frank is full of crap. Frank couldnt even hold down a radio show on 92.1 Kfma. Frank you are always into your self and frankly you have ruined mornings on 96.1 KLPX. You have always been a leech and jelious of john jay and rich , they have always been better than you more entertaining than you ans so on. when someone states thier disagreement , you act like a kid and hang up on them , at least john jay and rich listen to their listeners, Honestly Frank you will never get the ratings or ever have the star power that John Jay and Rich have
to michaelI believe you!!! says:
I believe this story because I have known Johnjay for 20 years now. I knew him before he was Johnjay or even famous or married. But the story that Michelle tells is of the truth. For one, the ticket scam thing is something that he has always done since he’s been in radio. Hello, he uses his radio and connections to get him LAID. Which ladies let me tell you Johnjay suffers from having an erection and has a penile dysfunction. So sad that he has cheated on his wife but he has cheated on all of us even the ones that meant something to him and I am not even sure what I meant to him now after reading this. What a disgrace to his family and to the ones that have believed and have loved him. It really just sends the message that I and Michelle were not important at all and that there was no significance in anything. Michelle, thank you for sharing your story.
to I believe you!!!We know its true says:
I believe you,
You KNOW IT. All the people that stand up for johnjay DONT KNOW THE REAL HIM. They believe what the hear from him and mindlessly dont question it.
The REAL PEOPLE, THAT REALLY KNOW HIM, AND KNOW HOW SOCIOPATHOLOGICAL IS…KNOW THE REAL JOHNJAY THAT NOBODY ON A SITE, CAN DISPUTE because they dont know him. THE ONLY OTHER PEOPLE THAT WOULD STICK UP FOR HIM, is HIMSELF. That’s why WE KNOW, that most of the comments trying to just make Michelle, Jessica, Maddi etc look bad….are from JOHNJAY. He has NO REAL DEFENSE cuz it’s the truth and HE AND ALOT OF OTHER WOMEN AND COWORKERS, RICH, ETC. KNOW IT IS.
Johnjay is DELUSIONAL. He’s a pathetic, insecure, obsessive, controlling abusive ego maniac. THATS THE REAL JOHNJAY. He USES WOMEN, DOESNT RESPECT HIS WIFE, CANT KEEP HIS D*CK IN HIS PANTS, Drools all over every chick who pays him the time of day, and the ONLY THING he thinks he’s worth…is throwing around a “who he knows” comment and some lousy concert tickets. PERIOD. He’ll get his. We think it’s FUNNY that blake stays. she’s just as used up as he is. Go spend all your money van es’ family….go to your “celeb” outtings where your husband isn’t honored for being a decent guy…instead for being a big, fake bag of air.
The kids will suffer here, having these two MORONS as parents.
But as long as by coming out and being honest about this nearly balled, very small endowed, rectile Dysfunctional HAIRPLUGS, stops ABUSING Women….we’ll be satisfied.
Team Freedom!
to We know its trueC. Deville says:
Team Freedom
to C. DevilleI am not here to bash anyone, especially his wife whom I think is a victim as well as all of us. Unfortunately, after reading his stupid interview online and realizing that we had been together during the time that he was dating Blake and probably when they were engaged as well, pisses the hell out of me, not to mention the fact that he called me 6 months prior to him moving to Cincinnati to supposedly take me out to dinner. What a F**cking loser!! I knew that Michelles story was true because the whole “role playing” in a resturant trying not to be seen was kind of creepy to me and I really didn’t put 2 and 2 together until a few days or weeks after seeing him which he was sooo gross when I saw him, I mean take a freakin’ shower dude before you come and pick me up. After reading all these comments and knowing what I already knew about him solidified everything.
You tell em says:
mama!!!!
The truly FORTUNATE who’ve ever had the “john” van es experience are THE ONES WHO GOT AWAY.
I applaud your freedom and relish my own!
TEAM FREEDOM FOR ETERNITY!
to You tell emcurrent says:
I’m his current, and I had no idea about this. Thanks.
to currentCurrent #2 says:
Im another. Has been woo’ing me at yoga. Not anymore.
to Current #2Serious Consideration says:
Note to current and current 2 – This best thing to realize in this situation is that even though someone may be charming, successful and comes off as being a somewhat compassionate person in society does not always mean that they are that person. There are a lot of people that need psychological help, I would consider that Johnjay is such a person. Continually wanting to score?? Really, just to get laid? For what? WHAT IS IN HIS LIFE THAT IS REALLY MISSING?? Love? True Love? A Soul Mate? A spiritual connection?? What & Why, maybe he missed the boat a long time ago or he has not found it yet. But nonetheless he needs to stop demoralizing woman and making them feel like a piece of ass. Give woman the power that they deserve and stop making them feel less than that. Its about RESPECT! Consider the seriousness that he IS a deviant weirdo and always has been.
to Serious Consideration