THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, so I’m having a huge issue in my life. A few months ago, my wife and I saw a movie with Natalie Portman and ever since then, I realized how hot and attracted to her I am. Ever since that night, every time my wife and I have sex (we have 4 kids, it’s really hard to find time) all I do is think about Natalie and how much I can’t stand to look at my wife naked. Lately I’ve started thinking about other woman, like my son’s teacher, my daughters cheerleading coach and the list goes on and on. Anyway I can stop this from happening? My greg doesn’t even get hard unless I concentrate on another woman.
Dude who cares. What you are doing is ok… it is not cheating. Trust me, your wife is doing the same exact thing.- nik