New Angle On An Old Debate
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, alright, so we all saw the post about the white girl knocking black guys and the way they approach women, but has anyone ever considered discussing how white women that are into black men approach them? I am a black man and almost every white girl I have dated or hooked up with has been obviously disappointing in the fact that I am mature and intelligent. Now I’m not saying all black men are immature or dumb, unfortunately that is stereotype we live with, we are all products of our environment and how people perceive and treat us based on how we look, but I’m tall, athletic, and dark skinned and most people think white girls that date me are open minded, yet from my experience, they are extremely ignorant. Associating their attraction to immature males with the black race and they try to undermine my heritage because I don’t fit the profile of what they want in a boy toy. Basically, for all you white girls that ‘love’ black guys would you date Myron Rolle? Former FSU/Tennessee Titan defensive back and Rhodes Scholar? probably not.
It is true that fat White Women are super aggressive towards dark meat.- nik
Funny i’m a fat white girl and i wouldn’t touch dark meat even if it was deep friend and dipped in chocolate!
come on man, how many ignorant black guys actually realize they’re ignorant? that pretty much negates the definition of being ignorant.
maybe you’re not as mature as you think you are if you have to resort to blasting white women who WILL date you for this and that.
suck it up.
so i should be happy with white women wanting to date me while at the same time having no respect for me? u missed the entire message of the post.
actually no I got the message, which is entirely more crying and whining.
what kind of “mature, intelligent” man has to resort blasting white women who date black men (and actually blasting other black men for being stupid?)
you think they reject you because you’re not hard or gansta enough but they probably reject you because you’re a whiny little bitch, and that’s a turn off regardless of whether you’re black, white, brown, yellow or pink.
and according to non-biased studies African American men are in fact stupider to the tune of 10 IQ points than white men, who are in turn 10 points stupider than Asians. Africans are 5-10 points stupider than African Americans. so grats if you’re one of the “smart ones” or even “less stupid ones” but as an American I’d prefer the dumb ones who at least are real, and aren’t full of themselves than to one that’s marginally smarter but has a terrible personality
grow up.
If you don’t know why, watch “Mandingo.”
I has to agree wit the man here i am’s a very intellygent black male I has a degree from Harvard and I is righting a book. This stereo-type of black mens being stupid needs to be fixed many of us be well edjucated and a cridit to are race. a black mens such as myseff is moving up the korporate ladder and wit Affirmative Action I could even bee the prezident someday. Stop Raceism We is almost human too ya know.
Whoever wrote this, you’re a moron.
I happen to know Myron Rolle very well since we had classes together at FSU. I would have dated him in a heartbeat. He is an insanely intelligent guy, extremely funny and very kind. I dated a black man during the time I was at FSU (no he was not an athlete) who was extremely intelligent and successful as well. My attraction to him had nothing to do with “overpowering” him or any of that BS. I simply got along with him very well, we had a lot in common and to this day we remain friends. I felt an attraction because he didn’t speak in ebonics or dress like a thug. He was a well mannered, well spoken and well dressed man.
Sounds like you date a bunch of mud sharks who are the lowest of low in society. Don’t group all white girls who date black guys into the same group, we get enough grief already!
1. never attacked myron rolle, celebrated him
2. kinda sucks getting lumped into a general definition of your race and gender doesnt it?
that was the whole point of the post, people dont look at black men as individuals, they lump them together all under the same stereotype and if you dont fit that profile entirely then you arent black. sucks doesnt it?
how many white guys have stayed in a relationship with you once they found out had no self-respect?
Big man hiding behind your computer screen! I’ve only dated one black man, so no “homie” hoping here and I’m in a successful relationship. In the real world, compassion knows no color. Way to be a bigot, no self respect? Why because I dated a guy who was black? That’s just ridiculous.
This is exactly the type of black man I appreciate.
WHY do you appricate them?
Is it because they are the only ones who will slip their gregs down your throat?
I must be honest though in looking at this beasts arms I truly wished I owned him.
Creatures like this can pick more cotton on my plantation in one day than a pack of my black mammies.
All the white slores that are posted on here and will at some point be posted as a “would you Nik” would hit that for a chance for some change in their pocket.
another Nik self post…yawn….this site is really going to the dawgs
im not nik richie.
99% of white girls that date a black guy either: 1. came from divorced families (WITH AN ABSENT OR DISTANT FATHER) 2. were overweight/ugly from an early age 3.Or grew up an area where they were the minority. The majority however all came from broken homes. In some weird way I think they are just acting out from years of an unfulfilled home/familial experience.
Because of their skewed perception on family and absentee fathers… marriage and commitment is arbitrary in their opinion, and therefore so is dating. They don’t see the issues with dating a black guy. Honestly why should they? Easy come easy go is the way they were raised. I know the females in my immediate family would not date a black guy because it would be too difficult on the family nucleus. Too much of a cultural difference. Everything from what songs to play at the wedding, to how will our possible future kids be treated at school? Just two corny examples, but the list could be never ending. You think your 91 year old grandfather would want to hear his granddaughter’s first married dance be a song by D’Anglelo? This image alone would probably put him in the hospital. Caveat for jersey chasing mud sharks: Your possible white dating partners in the future often have this perspective, “once you go black, white guys don’t take you back”. It’s not because we are racist, it’s often because you are not wanted due to the reasons listed above. Definition “cause and effect” in the end. Once the cycle has begun, and the “I only date black guys” syndrome sets in, it is very hard to come back. In a white guy’s opinion, it should be called, “No other race will have you” syndrome. Luckily this has not substantially hit the midwest yet, but I have heard about it from friends on the Coasts.
With Myron Rolle, he is a good guy and class act. I mean a rhodes scholar! Extremely impressive. He is a role model for white and black kids alike. Kind of ironic a black man would take an honor named after, and put in place by Cecil Rhodes who had extremely controversial African policies though? Nonetheless, that is impressive. but most of the white girls he would attract would have the characters listed above. Now of course you will always have the “Heidi Klum” anomaly. This i cannot explain. I think it has to do with narcissism and perceived celebrity status, but I am not sure. I’m here to just give my observations. Obviously not every interracial relationship falls under these 3 categories, but most common (not celebrity/married to a Yankee) interracial relationships do. So…I guess this is a helpful suggestion to the .01% Myron Rolle black guys of the world. Beware of the bagful of personal issues you are getting yourself into when you date that “fine” white girl you met at some 18 and up night club. Send her to a psychiatrist to work out her issues, and you should date some “fine black sister”. Everyone wins in the end.
The main reason is called DRUGS !
And most of the girls have lost theri ability to smell.
wow, how was the delorean ride from 1955? you do realize matching personality and character traits can go beyond race and taste in music right? also there are several examples of mixed race children who have grown up to be very successful productive citizens. youre doing exactly what i called out in my post, lumping a race under a general definition and creating lines in the sand rather than judging on an individual basis. you wonder why nobody likes white people…
Ya, and a lot of readers of this website are straight up racist close minded. Don’t take it personal!
Read the entire post. I am not lumping everyone together. I am correlating the “jungle fever” white girls with the deeper rooted problems that come along with them being from a “broken home”. You will always have the outliers. Why take anthropology or sociology classes if you cannot stumble upon general assumptions every now and then?
I think us white people know why we are not liked. It’s the “have’s versus the have nots” and will always be. If how you judge people were the criteria for being like or not liked, my black friends would be the most hated people in America. They are homophobic, bigoted and racist. But because white people have the jobs and the money they are the one’s villified with the description of being a “racist”. Who cares in the end anyways??? Racist or not, call me what you want. I’m not campaigning here. I’m not looking for you to like my comment. I’m just explaining the way it is. Truth to power homey.
haha, whites ultimately dont like blacks because we are the genetic ‘haves’ and you are the the ‘have nots’. whites have spent centuries trying to manipulate media and propaganda to make blacks into ignorant gorillas to compensate for blacks being superior in physical stature.
whites have routinely gained their ‘power’ through illegal, immoral, and shameful means. sociology classes are irrelevant because history is the ultimate fairy tale touched up and manipulated by whites to make themselves both the victim and the hero.
the negative traits you described are associated with ignorance usually arising from impoverished and dangerous areas which nourish fear and irrational thought. many different types of people are poor, the sad part is the bigotry you have displayed is common in affluent educated white neighborhoods out of FEAR.
you fear what you dont understand and in order to make yourself comfortable you create a negative general definition of blacks to make up for both your insecurity and ignorance. (just like a fat white girl haha)
i could write a novel on this, keep coming with your arguments and i will shut them down, id love to give you my email, but i shut down people like you on a daily basis in college, theres plenty of strong, athletic, black men out there like myron but you shut them out to serve your own petty ego and ultimately youre scared of them because you know they really have no obligation or real reason to like you.
if you really break it down, we are the genetic giants, everyone should try to incorporate west african genes into their family, u give anyone an opportunity to learn and they will most likely flourish, but we also have the best natural physical traits across both genders. white girls are just easy and their faces are usually more symmetrical, thats about it, truth.
It isn’t the fat ones hitting on Brothers. But, you’ll see what you want to see, and say what you think works for your audience. There are plenty posts on this site, complaining about non-fat women going to the DARKSIDE. Poster is right about the ones who attempt to find a Thug. So, for the record, it isn’t fat white ones doing the hitting on, and not every Brother is a thug. Nor do I think every white male is stupid, weak or in need of an a$$kicking.
Fake post. No self respecting white women would go out with a black guy unless they have daddy issues.
That’s just racist.
Sorry buddy, no matter what you say or think, your genetics suck.
White girls that “love” black guys have no family structure or have severe white guilt brought on by liberals and “diversity”….
You wish white girls were after you the way you think they are.
genetics suck? every genetic trait in africans or blacks is dominant.
Just the traits that won’t kill you. White people are allergic to the sun. They can’t take the heat either. Where are they going to be, when the earth gets too hot? Dead, and not getting any trim either way….
The tanning won’t save you posers.
I wrote out a long post reply but it apparently was not approved. So I’ll try again.
OP go to the center for disease control website if you think your theory holds up. African Americans are #1 for just about every disease and disability (STD’s, HIV, Diabetes, Cancer, Liver Disease, MS, alzheimers, alcoholism). Anything that is bad for you, Blacks are exponentially pre-dispositioned to get it. 95% of African Americans are lactose intolerant. There is a lot more to genetics than what you are defining them as.
Why would you capitalize something so insignificant?
Its funny how white men think only non attractive fat white women would date a black man. Just shows how insecure you guys are, but hey whatever gets you through the day.
real white women dont date nggers only crack heads and sluts
actually, we are approximately 1/2 product of environment and 1/2 product of genetics. according to contemporary research and scholarly agreement.
I’d like to throw out there, that Black guys are not interested in me. I’m a 5’7, brown hair blue eyed girl of British Isle descent. I’m pretty good looking, I can’t really dance, but I love rap and hip hop. I love reading, traveling, cooking, drinking wine, beer, vodka and occasionally get down with the greens…. and I have a full time job. I’m a catch right? When I’m at the club with my girls, not dancing, I would love if a hot & educated (both qualities that are important to me no matter what the race) black guy would come hit on me…. but I just don’t think I’m cool enough for black people. I think this stereotype of only fat white girls liking black guys is lame. I’m skinny and would love some dark meat for dinner. Black guys should just start hitting on hot white girls, we’re waiting.
Most black men love white women in general regardless of size.keep looking your black king awaits
Regardless of anyone’s race, the more educated and well mannered you are, the more you’ve placed yourself outside of the dating pool of the typical person in today’s society. Instead of dating these uneducated and moronic women, why not find someone instead whose intellect, class, and manners align with yours? Leave the trash alone and find someone more appropriate instead.
wait so every white girl “has been obviously disappointing in the fact that I am mature and intelligent” …. uhhhh maybe we are “disappointing” in the fact that you think you are intelligent and can’t use simple grammar correctly>
So I’ve never heard of Myron Rolle before this post. First let me say thank you. I’m a young African-American female in law school who’s usually more attracted to white guys. Whatever, it my thing. Regardless, I think it’s super sexy that Rolle is a Rhodes scholar and like whoa (Joey voice), super hot. Good stuff
ok im married to a white women that has a degree, ownes her own business since 23. by all means is not fat. sucessful. im sure white men hate to see us together. wishing they could have what i have. me and her family get along great, i even had a glass of scotch with her grand father. basically everyone wants to put label streotypes on what things should be like. its 2011 people, only old ignorant f*cks care about interacial dating. i feel sorry for those people and there kids. theres a bigger world besides black and white. oh im big black with alot of tats! and i have a degree with a great paying job. stereo type that….
The term African- American makes me laugh…there is nothing African about you, another attempt to make yourselves seem more special than you really are. And its nice to know that you have lived off your wife’s success, just like any other typical nijer.
Good comment All American I hate it too when all people seems to want to group you coons together and it is just not right.
Heck my best friend as a child was a little darkie and I thought the world of the little peanut head but one day I came home from school and my grand daddy had traded him to a neighbor for two goats.
hey
whats up with the race all the time
whats up
Tremendous blog post!