THE DIRTY ARMY: Ok, i just can’t get this out of my head and i need some advice. this girl’s name is April Mitchell. You can find her on Facebook. She lives in Erin, Ontario. she is my current boyfriend’s ex girlfriend of 3/4 years. She is a skanky home wrecker who is just using her boyfriend for the sake of not being lonely. Everyone in town knows her as a bitch, a whore, and a complete c nt.they were best friends in high school and dated and had thier issues. They broke up and about a year later my current boyfriend and i met in toronto also a year later after my son’s father and i split, while i was down visiting a friend. I visited him here in now my current living town in Acton, ontario over a year ago. She messages me on facebook telling me was an abuser and an asshole ect ect, then preceded to attack my ability as a mother even though she has never even talked to me before! I have done everything in my power to make sure my son is safe, take care of, and getting all the love and everything he needs and wants. I’, in his life half time as his father is the other half, and i see him all the time and so my best to be the best mom i can be for him. I gave up my life of partying , drugs, and booze, to make sure i can take care of him. She attacked me on a personal leverl and continued to send me msgs saying how they slept together while i was with him. I never believed it, and still don’t.
Recently i was bumped into by an mutual friend of theirs and she told me that they were talking behind my back. So i dug into his email with is permission and found out he deleted msgs of him and her talking, how she wants him back, how she hates her current bf but won’t leave because ” it works”. So i get a friend to contact her for me and she send’s him text msgs from him to her saying I miss you, i miss your smell, your touch, and the way we used to go at it. They had plans to meet up when i’m away seeing my child, and he lied directly to my face when i asked him if they have talked, he promised he would tell me when or if he got emails or txts just from this ex, and i promised i would let him know anytime i got a msg from my ex ( who is my babys father, so there isn’t much he could do about it anyways but i was still honest about it when i didn’t have to , and kept my promise to him). I asked him countless times if they talked and i had to find out all of this through another source. the worst part about it is he proposed to her when they were broken up out of desperation he says, yet he says he isn’t ready to ask me because he has his “things”. I asked him once and he shot me down even though i actually love him and want to start a life with him, compared to the skanky tramp he asked previously.
I really love this man , and after all this i took him back, it would really hurt to leave him, but i ask you think nik, am i stupid? Am i just the rebound girl even though it was a year after they broke up, and we’ve been together a year and a half now? should i just left him and moved on? do you think i could ever get over it all? Is he even worth it?She is the first picture and he is the second with me, and one of me on halloween. Please help nik, what should i do?
She wouldn’t keep sending messages if he wasn’t responding. Dude sounds too young for a relationship, he won’t be good for your child.- nik