THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, my friend needs help in my mind, but I want your opinion. They have a child together also. She is a pretty girl I think, and he is not that great looking. He pretty much treats her like sh*t. He goes and does whatever he wants because he is the sole bread winner. He will not let her get a job because he does not want their child in daycare. Then when she asks him for money or things he always gets mad and says I pay for everything. She cant even go out with her friends without him following her and spying on her. They broke up earlier this year and she started to see someone else. He found out and threatened the poor guy. Then they ended up talking and getting back together. Now that they are back together he abuses her mentally and verbally. He tells her how she is a wh*re for being with another man and that when he thinks of her he wants to throw up in his mouth. He also calls her a sl*t and a fat wh*re and tells her she will never do better. He runs around and does whatever he wants and always makes her stay home with their child. She never gets to do anything really. I have told her that she should leave his insecure *ss but she won’t. Maybe if she hears it from you she will. He also wont tell people that they are back together because he claims that he is embarrassed of her. He doesn’t want to be seen in public with her. This man has caused her to not be able to attend college, and has made her think so horrible about herself. She has great friends and a great family that would help her out. She deserves better then the piece of garbage she is with. What do you think she needs to do?

She needs to erase this man out of her life before she goes into a severe depression and harms herself or her child.- nik