Chin-Chilla Mania: How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Be More Like CC
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I love my girlfriend to death and plan on marrying her but the last year of our relationship it has bored me to death basically. Our sex life is basically non existent and when we do have sex, all I keep doing is thinking about Chin-Chilla in this outfit. My girl refuses to do anything that will remotely turn me on, but I love her too much to leave her. Anything I can do to motivate her?
Why change your game plan? Keep your eyes closed… it is best for all parties involved.- nik
Dump her… the only reason anyone does relationships is for sex anyway.
It’s cool. Your wife probably pictures nik richie when she closes her eyes. So fair is fair.
buy her the same outfit and tell her you want her to wear it ’cause she’s so sexy……………….otherwise, resentment will build and you’ll get even more turned off and begin going out more……………….if she refuses to put on the outfit then you need to think about marrying this shrew.
Im so in love with this girl. I’d wife her tomorrow.
I can’t believe that so many of the male population have to beg.
My 25 year old son has to beg. Then he sneeks out to get laid by crazy females who post stupid stuff on facebook.
What a waste of humanity.
If your woman refuses to do things that turn you on then she doesn’t love you. She could at least try once. I try things for my man, and he does the same for me. Some things I may not do again, but hey, at least I love him enough to try.
You better really think hard brother and maybe, just maybe you’ll realize that she aint gonna get any better once your married in fact I guarantee she will get worse, especially after the babies start coming. If the relationship is lacking before your married it does not improve after your married. At 60 years old I do know what I’m talking about, been there done that more then once. There simply is not enough blood in the male body to allow both heads to think at the same time. Good luck to you but get out now before child support and alimony are due..
I am 55 and had it GOOD for 30 years.
The moment she dried up with MENOPAUSE, I gave her 4 years to get over it – she didn’t – and I was done.
BOYS??
WAIT UNTIL YOU HAVE A GOOD WOMAN or don’t marry at all.
youre a douchebag. your marriage is going to fail, just break up with her and stop being selfish
agreed. stop being a douche
agreed
She is probably even more bored than you are.
how can guys become so infatuated and attracted to an image? i see a hot guy on tv or in cosmo magazine, right? and im not like, “i cant stop t\hinking about that hot guy” i like more when i KNOW a guy is attracted to me thorougly and that completely turns me ON if that guy is hot and cute that is, but most of the time i think its lame when someone bugs me…anyways point is, that hot guy in cosmo magazine does not know who i am, so why get all infuated with him? attraction builds!
Huh? Fake submission by Nik.
coming from a girl…buy her the outfit you want her to wear and talk to her about your interesst in spicing things up. If her reaction is that she is feeling the same as you-things will probably get better. If she gets defensive and is too modest to wear some lingerie-then yes, it will get worse. And yes, the 60 y.o. who commented is right. After marriage and kids you have to work even harder to make “couple” time. Coming from a married mom of two who makes times for a quality sex life and good communication with my hubby. Think before you lunge who you are marrying. Divorce sucks.
hasn’t anyone including NIK noticed her noticeable ass-chin?
and she is NOT hot she looks like a giant overly tanned leathery fart smelling white lady in her late 30′s.
Haha. jealous much. She’s gorgeous. Shes 24 or 25. 5’9 & a total knockout. How about stand next to her and see what you look like??
No I completely agree. She just isn’t that hot. Pretty yes. But nothing is unique or striking about her and she needs some meat on her bones. Now the dirty celebrity AIM is my kinda woman.
I bet telling her how you posted a hot blonde on the dirty and asked Nik for sex advice will make her think you’re a real keeper! LOL:]
Coming from a girl, I’m sure your frusterations have made you compliment her less. Which in return has her feeling insecure. SOOOOO butter her up with compliments and then be honest. Tell her how beautiful she is and you want to see her in a sexy costume. Tell her you fantasize about her in a costume! (Don’t mention you actually see this really beautiful blonde in the costume.. That’d suck lol) That’ll make her feel good and want to do it!!!
Just some food for thought, I am not Dr.Phil;]
You’re welcome haha
next to every hot chick is a guy who is tired of f*cking her
i want this outfit for my boyfriend. anyone know where she got it? i have seen french maid costumes before but this one is the best.