THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I would just like to say thank you so much for being blunt and harsh about weight, drugs, and other things women can do to become more attractive. I have never actually posted something but I read this site quite often. I find it absolutely ridiculous when girls say you are too judgmental about girls weight and other flaws. The fact that you were so harsh, actually made me look at myself, and see that I could do so much more to become more attractive and also healthier. What people on here don’t understand is that your comments should be taken as constructive criticism. Since I started reading this site, and taking your advice, I have lost significant amount of weight, I stopped smoking weed, and drinking all the time, and I took out my piercings on my face and other areas. Honestly I believe when people tell you “you are beautiful the way you are” you should take that as an insult! These kind of statements by people around me actually led me to not care about my figure and health. Since I have made these simple changes, I have seen a drastic change in the guys that hit on me and I have found that more guys actually hit on me now than ever have before. Women should stop taking your comments so personally, and start using your advice to look at themselves. So thank you for all of your comments no matter how harsh, because they have only done good for me at least.
Well said.- nik