THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik… So I am writing you because I was talking to a friend recently who’s relationship is nearing a potential end all because of cheating. Honestly I just want your input on cheating, even though you’re far from a saint. This person has had a pretty much spotless reputation their whole life and only one boyfriend with hopes of actually marrying the person, I’ve never seen anyone so dedicated to another…which is why this is so shocking to me. When they came to me asking advice I didn’t think I had the right to judge or tell them what they should do for fear of them blaming me when the relationship ends. They have never cheated on their partner before and one night of partying changed all of that. They got so drunk they don’t even remember it happening, but it did. Do you think they should tell their partner they cheated even though they can’t remember doing so and it’s never happened before? They think that this will end their relationship and I can definitely see that happening. Would you end a relationship if that happened to you/ would your wife end the relationship if it happened to her?
There is no such thing as black out sex. They must come clean to each other… nobody cheats unless they are missing something in their relationship.- nik