THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik, I love your site! I sometimes see people asking you for advice so I thought I would ask for some of your wisdom too. My dilemma is I am a 24 year old (female) virgin. This is by choice. I would like to remain so until marriage (my faith is important to me) However, every time I start dating a guy and it is time for me to disclose that I am not interested in sex until marriage I never hear from them again. I’m starting to wonder if maybe I should just give in and do it? I really don’t want to be alone forever, but it seems as though that will be the case if I don’t cave? Am I weird? Will all guys keep running away? Thanks for you help.
You need to do it, waiting ruins your future. I was an idiot guy once who waited for a chick and the sex was terrible because she was inexperienced. It ruined both our lives.- nik