What The Hell Do I Do Now

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I met my husband when we were both freshman in high school at the young age of 14. It was love at first site, we have never broken up or cheated on each other or anything. We got married right after high school and both attended UCLA where he was an All-American linebacker. We always knew he would be in the NFL and life would be peachy once he got drafted. Senior year he got a knee injury and became hooked on painkillers and never recovered from the injury. Now I love him unconditionally and would never leave his side… but 2 months ago, he got the genius idea that he is going to be a rapper. Since then, I’ve been questioning my life everyday. All he does, is smoke weed and drink alcohol all day long with his black rapper friends at their studio. He has never smoked weed or liked drinking, so I asked him why he is doing this? And he tells me he is doing it so he can become the rapper superstar he knows he will be. He is wearing his hat sideways, talking like a black guy and says the “N” word more than anything… I can’t take it… I’ve asked him to stop with this and he looks at me like I’m crazy and that he is going to succeed somehow in the rap game? like WTF. Nik, any help here? Cause I’m not leaving him.
Leave him.- nik










show sum support beeyotch,, he can’t be worse than a black guy rapping haaaaaaaa
Leave him! He’s going nowhere, you’re better off without him!!!
A ULCA graduate wrote “love at first SITE”? Seriously? I expected better.
If you’re going to cut someone up for their spelling errors, you might want to check your own post stupid. It’s UCLA but nice try. And as for the girl who posted this, leave his sorry ass.
Couldn’t have said it better nik. Hun I know it’s going to be hard and you may love him unconditionally but this sounds like a guy that has gone through what id like to call a young mans mid life crisis. It’s time to move on and love just sometimes isnt enough and when people look at him they look at you the same way since you put up with him!
I can’t believe nik put this shit up.
This is the fakest story ever
I hate thedirty
+2′s bro, +2′s. If this guy is a linebacker then I’m an O-lineman…
You’re a complete fool if you don’t leave him. Don’t think that just because you have a long history with someone means you HAVE to stick it out with them. People grow up and change and obviously he’s taking a completely different path in life now and the fact that he has no regard for your feelings about it just shows where his head is at. You can remain in his life to try and help guide him back on the right path but you can do it as a friend and not as his wife. Find someone more mature and less delusional.
im calling bs on him being an all american football player from ucla first of all. but he looks like malibu’s most wanted. when i say MALI you say BOOOO!! leave the gapper
Nik’s right–cut your losses. Maybe it’s a phase he’s going through, but the path he’s chosen won’t include you.
Nik, you really need to make these math problems easier.
Dude needs rehab plain and simple
Attended UCLA but doesn’t use the correct “sight”
“Now I love him unconditionally and would never leave his side… but” blah blah… Umm UNCONDITIONALLY means NO CONDITIONS. If you do love him unconditional, then him wanting to be a rapper is no an issue.
Advice #1 – learn the MEANING of UNCONDITIONAL love
Advice #2 – Therapy, he misses the field
Advice #3 – I didn’t think Aaron Carter could look gay(er)! Seriously you married this? “Gold-spray-painted CHAINS are just well do the black rappers push his shit in?”
[email protected] – a.k.a RIP SALTON!
this is so fucking fake.
unfortunately this is an epidemic at UCLA with Athletes. The school does not educate them at all. Just passes them through with barely a 2.0 and then they have a bullshit degree and don’t have much in skill. People know if they got in on Football they are considered “stupid” and we are so cut throat do to the “Asians” (non-American, and American) they have no chance.
Plus, UCLA students don’t help each other at all. Or else work with each other we have this trend of trying to be :”famous” but not famous as in celebrity world. But in the money professional world(thinks zuckerberg). We end up fighting a mountain, and watching the USC grads in BMW’s as we are working for them. Truly, if an Athlete do don’t go to UCLA. It does nothing for you.
This is sad….
I sincerely hope that picture is not of him. What a fag
If he’s gonna try and be black, our only option is to out on a few lbs an b the fat whit girl who dates purple crayons
Wow,,you maybe a bigger idiot then he is.
This wigger played football? This whole post sound like a joke. This guy went from playing at UCLA to turning into K Fed in 2 months?
FAKE AS HELL! That guy was a linebacker at UCLA? Never in a million years. How about proof-reading thse a little before posting. GGGAAAYYYYY!!!
fake post
Cb4 Part 2
Is that the dude? You’re F*%ked if it is… He looks gayer than a leather piñata.
hahaaa don’t you have money for a therapist??? at least seek advice from someone with a college degree.
Babe this is unfortunate. I happens all the time. 1. I was a “X” man in Lacrosse and we are known to be athletic and fast and even I could run over this so called linebacker. 2. Everyone with a computer thinks they run a studio 3. Yes they all smoke weed and drink while working if they are unprofessional (you get to do this when you actually make a hit track, please heed this) 4. “N” that height don’t fight 5. Addiction is a real thing, dirty, dangerous, and a real burden on family and friends and not something to be made fun of. But again you do make me laugh looking at this clown. Lemme guess… does he still wear pants that look like they were handed down from his brother that just got outta jail? All in all, addiction does this to people. Funny but yet not… Meh (i truly hope he gets help and listens to advice i should probably be taking as advice as I give as a music producer)
PS. those who smoke and drink in studios only get to do that when they are paying extra and they have at least one top 50 track.
1. You didn’t play lacrosse. 2. You aren’t a music producer. 3. Go play in traffic.
^^^^^^^^^^
What Nik said.
And hurry.
Thank you.
First, it’s really retarded to be with someone since you’re kids. This is the reason why — he is evolving, trying new things and is in a phase so that he can eventually find himself. If he hasn’t cheated yet, he will.
The reason you will not leave him is because you don’t want to be “alone,” meaning, you do not want to learn how to be independent. You choose to remain dependent on a guy.
So, stay with him even when he grows continents apart from you. You are making the choice to be miserable. Enjoy.
Clearly he’s having a mid life crisis, therapy or leave him.. It’s going to take a long time for him to change.
shut up Kim
Wow, this can’t be serious. If it is, she needs to leave the Vanilla Ice wannabe.
Jump! Jump! This guy is the American Ali G and this post is as fake as Nik and Shayne’s marriage…
who needs 2 watches?
BIG TIME D BAG!
So your husband is a complete and total poser, drug using douche……..very nice.
As the legend Krispy Kreme said, lean on your dream. You will make it in the game. There are a lot of successful white rappers out there. Maybe you should team up with Krispy Kreme. You sound awesome.
Dang two guess watches!! Ballin!!!
Remove this post. It is a joke contrived by a whore.
or you can go out get a real job & support his @$$ like he was gonna do for you prior to injury. how has that not crossed your mind? that’s what unconditional love would do….but i doubt you have it.
My friend marissa is also dating a football star who got injured then started drinking and smoking my advice to you is dump that loser he’s damaged goods and he’ll never make it as a rapper