Fat Girls Can Only Blame Themselves
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’m sick and tired of how obese this country is and how as soon as a woman have a child she gets fat and just blames the child birth for everything. My wife was so beautiful and skinny, she was perfect. After we had our child, she gained about 60 pounds during the pregnancy and I assumed she would drop it once she was done spitting the kid out. Well it never happened and two years later and she has the same baby weight and I’m thinking about leaving her. I’m just sick of the excuses, like look at her friend Sabrina, she has a child and bam girl is back to her old sexy self. How can I go about getting my wife back, the one I fell in love with and the one I married?
This is your fault. All guys need to study their potential wife’s genetic code before they decide on marriage and kids (that’s what I did).- nik
damn i hope his baby momma doesn’t see this post… I would hate my friend Sabrina.
If my wife were this fat, I’d dump her no questions asked.
Let the trolls post on thedirty.com
Douchebag.
Wow. I feel sorry for your wife. Until you grow a life inside of you, you have no ground to stand on.
It sounds like you shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place, you superficial jacka**, since all you care about is looks.
You are pathetic fatty!!!
Hi, Troll.
Ok, look. I get what you’re saying, and you made a valid point. But not all women let themselves go. Only the ones who let themselves go try to convince us that all women do. I know for a fact they don’t – I got back in shape within 9 months, and close to my pre-baby weight after 4 and losing 30 lbs. The last 10 lbs was harder to lose but I did it. I lost 40 in total. But some men are superficial. We can take it or leave it. Some women are superficial g-diggers as well. Some of us are deeper, and thankfully most of us look at the total package. However, if looks matter so much to a husband, which according to him they do, she should separate from him and either lose and take more pride in her appearance. Her husband could take liberty of talking with her. However, if he does he much approach with care. And he also must NEVER bring up that had finds her friend hotter. If he does that they’ll either be getting divorced or moving away.
I understand that all women do not let themselves go. I gained 28lbs, give or take, and lost it in 4 months, plus 5-10 additional. I am now at 118lbs 6 months after birth. My main point is that no man can truly understand how it feels to be a new mother, dealing with adjusting to no longer being pregnant, trying to breastfeed, and getting no sleep, all while trying to eat healthy and work out while attending to the needs of a helpless baby who cannot do anything for him or herself. The hormone adjustment alone is an extremely tough uphill battle, but juggling all of these other issues makes weight loss that much more difficult when you aren’t a celebrity who can just rely on a fleet of nannies to do all of the tough work.
From this post, it sounds like the husband is not helpful or supportive or truly there for his wife, as this sick train of thought apparently occupies his mind more than the well-being of the woman he pledged to spend the rest of his life with.
If this is a legitimate post, I hope the woman whom is being spoken about is made aware and leaves her jerk of a husband.
Too bad youre still ugly.. And dont shoot back saying youre not bc you are
Genetics,I was actually thinking about this earlier today. I think the most strikingly beautiful woman I ever met was Japanese,German and dutch. If you could create your own stew what would it be?
Genetics is a predictor, but only about 60% of the time. Yes, there is truth to genetics, but it also depends on lifestyle, diet, exercise progam and the ability to resist temptation. Ie: Personal strength as in resisting drugs, resisting stress eating, desire to be fit to atleast a moderate level ect.) If someone lives an entirely different lifestyle then their familly, looking at their parents or siblins is not a predictor of your wives future. That said, every woman should want to look good for her husband. In fact, she should want to look her best. And if she doesn’t then maybe she isn’t happy. If she is not the same person he married, they should discuss how unhappy he is with her bodily changes. And if they cannot agree, then maybe there love was never there at all. I wish them the best.
There is truth in what you are saying. What I was asking was if you could engineer your mate what would be the traits you would take from the different races. Granted every race has a specific quality that is not desirable. But if you could what would that mix be and why.
Wtf. She is not fat. She did a miraculous thing snd gsve birth. I hope she divorces you, you sound like a as$hole
hahah she probably will after this post!
Question is…are you fit? Do you bring the cash home? If not, then you have nothing to complain about. I see so many losers complain about their girls not looking like Angelina Jolie while they’re as far from Brad Pitt as it gets…if you get what I’m saying. Nothing is funnier than a guy who makes 20K a year with a beer gut and balding head talking trash about their women who are at THEIR level. Make more money and lose the weight and bam…you’ll get better looking girls.
You gotta good point, Kara.
But it’s also the feminist BS that “how you look doesn’t matter.”
OH, YES, IT DOES because men are TOTES visual!
But yeah, if this dude is a $20K Millionaire, then he’s just as delusional as are chix who think how they look doesn’t matter
The OP needs to do Sabrina! tee hee That may or may not wake his wife up.!
Please leave her so that she can find some one who is not just into her for her looks; then when you’re old, alone and your balls are sagging on the ground you can dream of what you once had and then hopefully die of a heart attack.
lol, this post was clearly typed by a broad.
I am never having kids.. men hate kids so why should I have somethng that will make men not like me.. makes no sense. SAY NO TO KIDS!!
also nik — i’m confused, what do you mean that’s what you did? you got married the same day you met her. did you stalk her before she knew you? yikes :X
I asked her to show me female family member’s body types. Pictures on her phone. Cracked the code quick.- nik
Just because the momma is overweight, doesn’t mean that’s how the daughter will end up.
My mother took the route of gaining weight after having children..and never got rid of it. While on the other hand I’m a diet & fitness fanatic.
As much as I love my mother, I use her as motivation to never EVER give up on myself. If I don’t care about myself & my health, then why should anyone else care about me.
Nik .. I’m afraid I would end up having my mothers body when I get older she is over weight but always been big. She has double ds and I’m 22 and just an A cup . Is it possible I could favor my fathers side?
No.- nik
O god . I’m so not having kids if it will make me gain weight! Thanks nik!
Haha….sounds like a jealous man that dated the girl in high school (the pool picture) and she dumped him because he gained a few pounds and lost some hair. Aha, but then they went to the 10 year reunion and he saw her there with her friends (the picture with the 3 ladies, including “Sabrina”) and snapped the picture! Now, he just sits there and trolls thedirty.com and decides that he will get even here. Nope, you’re still a loser! And I see no fat in either picture. Douche.
It’s hilarious that this guy is judging his wife for her weight but I’m sure he’s not much to look at himself. I mean look at Nik. He judged his wife on the potential that she wouldn’t get fat after having his kid and he’s certainly not what you would call good looking.
Yeah but shayne got back down to being tiiiiny this bitch is a whale. no comparison
There really is no excuse to gain that much weight while pregnant. I just gave birth to my first child and really watched what I ate throughout my pregnancy. I gained a total of 30 pounds and gave birth to a 7 pound baby girl two weeks ago. I started at 100 pounds. I drank plenty of water and avoided all fast food. I also ate mostly organic foods. I got no stretch marks at all. So I say no excuses! It’s all about self control and giving your baby the nutrients they need!
Self control is the key. You said it Shari!!! Finding a woman with self control, and some level of morality is THE KEY to finding a good woman guys. If she can’t resist casual sex, drugs, partying, excessive shopping, constant desire for attention any way she can get it, and heavy drinking ect…Then she has little self control. That spells t-r-o-u-b-l-e with a capital “T”. Her chances of letting herself go after having kids is probably. She also has a high probablity of cheating on you so don’t expect her to be faithful. She’ll probably be less of a good mother too, because the nurturing, giving types are rarely selfish, or narcissistic, or attention seeking. Kind nurturing types will give your kids the best head start. Just my two cents.
My kinda woman!
“yes, because I did it, my pathetic anecdotal evidence makes me and my opinion relevant.” STFU Shari, you sound like a moron.
I really hope the person who wrote this aswel as the ones who are like this die a horrible slow painful death. Shame on you. You are a waste of space and her kid and herself deserve a lot better then the pathetic piece of shit you are. Kill yourself before you get your dick chopped of, inconsiderate fuck.
Only a douche would leave their wife for gaining weight. Apparently you never really loved her or you wouldn’t even be considering leaving her for something so incredibly superficial.
I hope you DO leave her because she obviously deserves much better than you. I also hope you go and f*ck some random skank and contract a horrible drd and your greg turns green and falls off.
But, do have a nice day
I would be trying to hook up with Sabrina!!!!
wow dude you’re a piece of shit. if you’re worth any money at all (i’m sure you’re not) i hope she leaves your ass and uses this post to get more than her fair share.
Guys don’t realize that our actual bodies change when we get pregnant and have to hold a baby on our hips for 9 months. Our hips have to get wider to accomodate a baby. Sure we might be able to drop the weight but we will never look the same again.
I wouldn’t blame my husband if he left me because I was fat. Obviously he wants to get it up and if he can’t with me I’d expect him to go somewhere else.
Serious your scum. I bet she’s too busy taking care of your fucking child. Working out is the last thing she’s probably thinking about. You should leave her so she can be with a real man. I hope you die alone.
Fat girls blame their thyroid problem/genetics/& mom.
Dear OP, which one is ur wife and which one is Sabrina? I cant comment til I know.. Help a sister out, please!
OP – Want to know how to get her to lose weight? Leaver her. She will drop that weight fast than a crack addict. She will look better than she has ever looked. The drawback? You will never get to touch her again as she will realize how big of a douche you are and enjoy watching you chase her.
Maybe the poster has a small penis. Maybe he can’t satisfy her like he used to, so he blames her weight for the problem. My advice to the poster is to start taking pills for his little problem.
You are a loser. Your wife should leave you as soon as possible. She should not have ever got with you in the first place. You need to get back into shape yourself. I heard you only last one minute of less and that is on a good day.
I think she looks good in both pics…what is this f@ggot complaining about in the first place…if he has to leave his wife in order to obtain what he truly wants, mainly a d!ck up his a$s, then he should leave his wife, so that I can bend her over
And in conclusion, maybe you shouldn’t have knocked her up, you prick.
Technically your sperm “ruined her body” think about that one, moron.