Joining A Sorority Was The Worst Idea Ever

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, last year as a freshman I didn’t join a sorority and all my friends that did made all these new friends and always bragged about how cool it was to be a part of a sisterhood. Long story short, I decided to pledge this year and it by far has been the worst idea ever. First the hazing to join them was the worst week of my life, having to act like a slave and someones little b*tch was not fun at all. And now that I finally got in it has got even worse. Having to party all the time is not my thing but what has really made me mad is how they set us up with other fraternities, make us do drugs and get super drunk so we have to sleep with a bunch of douchebags. My freshman year I only slept with 4 guys and this year so far I’m at over 10. Its disgusting how they force us to do this, I totally feel like I’m getting raped on a weekly basis and this is not the life I want. Not what I expected and very disappointed.
Stop crying and quit before your #sleepnumber hits 69.- nik













For once I actually think this poster might really be crying out for an answer. HULK has been to countless frat parties over the US and I must say if parents knew what REALLY went on at these hazing parties parents would come and pull their kids out of school by the masses. Poor little girl. HULK
HULK, the poster is a grown ass woman who can make her own decisions. If she wants to degrade herself for no logical reason, then that’s her choice. We can only hope she doesn’t procreate.
Very strong point. But a lot of frats prey on weak minded people. If you’re a baboon some will ride you to the moon.
Hence survival of the fittest, HULK. Survival of the fittest…
“Its disgusting how they force us to do this”
So they’re holding a gun to your head? People like you are f*cking sheep.
sounds like you dont know how to control your own life. its not a gang, they wont kill you if you decide to quit or leave. i am greek and was also hazed and it was and always has been fucking awesome.
your story sounds completely ridiculous and is not a true image of greek life. you have other problems at work here that you need to learn how to take control of.
No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone, skank. Stop making excuses for spreading for any douchebag in a greek life t-shirt. If it was so bad, you could just leave the sorority. They may set you up with mixers with fraternities, but I highly doubt anyonen but yourself is coercing you to put drugs and/or dicks in your body.
They are totally forcing these girls. Thye make them go to these parties and f*ck upper clansman. You probably never went to college so you can’t speak b*Tch.
Really? Tells us exactly how they are forcing her. Unless she is actually being raped, nobody is forcing her to do anything. She can choose whether she wants to stay or not.
Judging by your post, it looks like you’re the one who never went to college. I would like to know how exactly they force these girls to go to parties and fck frat boys. Enlighten us all, since you seem to be all-knowing about this topic. Anything less of holding a weapon to their head or physically restraining them makes your arguement null and void.
what a crock of shit. I was in a frat and nothing like this ever happend. There were a few ho’s in each soorority and everyone knew who they were. Most of the chicks grabbed bf’s right away. Our unspoken agreement was to never tap a chick that your boys already did with only a few exceptions (like this one chick who was a screamer. Everyone wanted to experience that!)
Dude, you’re whore. Just admit it already. Nobody is putting a gun to your head. You’re a follower and not a leader. Get over it.
This isn’t what being in a sorority is like at all. Nice try.
Sounds like someone rushed and didn’t get in.
Why don’t you enlighten us then? What experience of yours would you like to generalize to the entire population of sororities?
Sounds like a surrority BLAST to me
Jesus. You are an incredibly stupid bitch. Nobody forces you to fuck every dude you see
Not trying to be rude, but how does someone in your sorority MAKE you sleep with that many guys? I’m sorry, but that is your choice. You can say no, or LEAVE. IT’S NOT THAT HARD. Do you have any broken arms from someone twisting your arm to make you sleep with guys?
You sound like a weak minded individual. How about standing up for yourself and being your own person…….unless this is just an excuse to be a slore, then by all means……slore it up!
Sounds like someone has been a bad girl and now she regrets letting multiple men inside the cave she calls her vagina. Your campus should have a student health service, they will give you something to get rid of that burning sensation you have. Stop blaming others for your promiscuous ways you dirty little girl.
Obviously you were a freak before pledging. Four people in one year? You’re 19 or twenty, so how many guys you slept with in high school? I’m guessing your c*ck count is at 30. College is fun and all, but it is intended for bettering yourself. Slow down, hun.
The poster was a ho even before joining the sorority. All they did was bring your inner slut out in the open.
Everyone has a choice you impressionable simpleton; no one forced you to join this superficial sorority, YOU made the choice. It’s called self-responsibility, look it up, you might learn something about taking responsibility for yourself, your thoughts, and your actions
Hence the description “Sorostitute’
I dated a guy in college who was in a frat. I was not involved in greek life. When I would hang out at his frat house, the sorority girls who would come over got TRASHED by their own accord. No one forced them to drink. By the end of the night, they would pair off with the frat guys (or 3sums), again, by their own accord. NO ONE forced them to act like sluts. I was embarrassed for them.
So…are you a screamer?
Ur serious going to blame someone else for your numbers rising ? Why not just say no to the drugs and sex?
In high school I was always told that girls in sororities were hot. As I entered my first year of college, I was extremely disappointed. I’m pretty sure it’s just for ugly girls and those with daddy issues.
god – what are you? dumb as a rock? you’re not dealing with the mexican cartel or the arian brotherhood – get out of your stupid sorority and shut the you know the rest!!
Every one asking how they’re forced? “They’re not putting a gun to their head.” Real Talk Time, let me paint a picture: normal somewhat sheltered girl goes away to college and decides to join a sorority. They party like oh hazing, drink 5 shots right now well do another 5 in 5 minutes. All the while playing 7-11 doubles with loaded dice. (Non college partying people google 7 11 doubles). Next thing you know miss couple beers is now 15-20 shots in and 10 beers back. Drunk frat guys will definitely fck 3/4 drunk girl. (3/4 meaning she’s still breathing) do this for a week or two straight and she’s easily at getting fcked 10x because guaranteed she got fcked or fingered by some dude that she didn’t know. That ends real talk session of the day, class dismissed.
how many brain cells did you have to rub together to figure all that out?
wow poster doesn’t have a brain of her own. no one “makes” you do anything. you’re an adult and in control of your own actions. blaming a sorority for you sleeping with all those men is just making excuses for being a whore. brainwashed and stupidity.. perfect combo for a bright future. good luck moron
Lol way to find out how the real world works honey! didnt you do any “research” official or otherwise about sorority/ frat houses? this is “networking” for you guys. and yes if you are a sophomore in college you should know how to make wise decisions (or even your own!) and know shit gets sketchy. If you can’t take care of yourself then leave! Pop out some kids and come back in your thirties when you’ve grown up and the frat don’t want you anymore!
Ok, so you’re blaming other people bacause you can’t just say NO? wth is wrong with you? Get yourself together little girl, the frat boys are going to think/say you love being a ho because you’re not objecting to it. Silly little slut.
I normally don`t comment on this side, but the OP is just SUCH a complete idiot that I`ll make an exception. No one is forcing you to have sex, and it`s incredibly ignorant for you to say that unless you`ve been actually raped!!
I`m 21 years old, in my third year of college, and I`ve had sex with ONE guy since I started school, my boyfriend. AND we broke up for almost 6 months.. 6 months that I went without sex. I`ve been drunk off my ass plenty of times, and I`ve had tons of guys try to get me to hook up with them. But I respect my body and my reputation enough to stay away from drunken, drugged out stranger sex. It`s women like you (OP) who give women as a whole a bad reputation, you`re the reason that men don`t have respect for us anymore. And the worst part is that you can`t even take responsiblity for being a dumb whore, you have to blame your slutty behavior on other people to make yourself feel better. Oh and by the way, having sex with 4 people in a year is still pretty skanky, that`s more people than I`ve slept with in my entire life. Get a grip.
you are a DUMB SLUT! no one is making your sleep with anyone. you have your own will, you f*cking sheep. Wake the f8ck up!
Are the other 30-odd people who posted comments on this nonsense honestly really falling for it? There is no girl in the world, dumb sorority girl or not, who wrote a memoir along the lines of, “All of my girlfriends started hanging out with a bunch of girls. Eventually I followed suit and these college girls were nasty and naughty and made me their bitch. And boy oh boy I can’t keep up with all these girls’ vaginas! Groups of frat boys cycle through the house and the girls make me withstand their forced penis pumpings one after another. I mean tee hee, these boys are strangers and can be so rough and eager it seems like I am being raped! I didn’t expect this. Please, stop effing me. I can’t believe I’ve put up with it this long…I mean gross, an entire house full of wet horned up drunk college girls who can’t get enough of aggressive fraternity boys that they ride stranger cack all night then force us innocent new near virgin girls to keep lying back and taking it. Well huuummmff! In the words of Stephanie Tanner, “How RUDE!” So yea, no girl writes this about herself. Either 1. Some chickA who hates another chickB wants that chickB’s parents or somebody to come across this pic of her sorority and think that chickB is some kind of drug using hood rat being passed around at college as some embarrassing plot. OR 2. More likely because of the situation being described which I was a little more direct with…the whole innocent girls live in close quarters with countless other teenage girls who are so horny and easy and these horny party girls basically set up a virtual gangbang (tho spaced week to week not one load after the next) where virile young frat guys frick those innocent new pledges who are helpless to stop these sorority horn dogs from lining up boys to keep up this using of their hole in ones even as they protest. Only a guy could come up with that porno dvd turned reality and he’s probably a voyeur or exhibitionist or gets off on faked rape porn and got carried away writing some fantasy story in words innocent enough for people to believe that he could get off on the reactions he got and the “You dirty girl yous” and the “Naughty whores” and the girls who get on and truthfully share how many boys they slept with last year or guys describing wanting to get in on that. Like I said though, rethink the situation in different words and it’s just too many fantasy aspects of the pornography industry rolled into someone’s real life that I just don’t buy it. Hello, I’ve seen some pretty slutty girls and sororities but c’mon, no sororities are out there who week after week without fail arrange a frat come over and have intercourse with all its members and force the protestors to take it. That part is just way over the top. That’s every 16 year old boy’s wank bank imagery of what college will be like…Or fat guy’s lament of what he didn’t get to be a part of in college but instead only watch on college sites on his PC. We adults and normal people know that’s far from reality tho. If not, I think 500 guys who read this will be planning a transfer to that school next year.
Are the other 30-odd people who posted comments on this nonsense honestly really falling for it? There is no girl in the world, dumb sorority girl or not, who wrote a memoir along the lines of, “All of my girlfriends started hanging out with a bunch of girls. Eventually I followed suit and these college girls were nasty and naughty and made me their bitch. And boy oh boy I can’t keep up with all these girls’ vaginas! Groups of frat boys cycle through the house and the girls make me withstand their forced penis pumpings one after another. I mean tee hee, these boys are strangers and can be so rough and eager it seems like I am being raped! I didn’t expect this. Please, stop effing me. I can’t believe I’ve put up with it this long…I mean gross, an entire house full of wet horned up drunk college girls who can’t get enough of aggressive fraternity boys that they ride stranger cack all night then force us innocent new near virgin girls to keep lying back and taking it. Well huuummmff! In the words of Stephanie Tanner, “How RUDE!” So yea, no girl writes this about herself. Either 1. Some chickA who hates another chickB wants that chickB’s parents or somebody to come across this pic of her sorority and think that chickB is some kind of drug using hood rat being passed around at college as some embarrassing plot. OR 2. More likely because of the situation being described which I was a little more direct with…the whole innocent girls live in close quarters with countless other teenage girls who are so horny and easy and these horny party girls basically set up a virtual gangbang (tho spaced week to week not one load after the next) where virile young frat guys frick those innocent new pledges who are helpless to stop these sorority horn dogs from lining up boys to keep up this using of their hole in ones even as they protest. Only a guy could come up with that porno dvd turned reality and he’s probably a voyeur or exhibitionist or gets off on faked rape porn and got carried away writing some fantasy story in words innocent enough for people to believe that he could get off on the reactions he got and the “You dirty girl yous” and the “Naughty whores” and the girls who get on and truthfully share how many boys they slept with last year or guys describing wanting to get in on that. Like I said though, rethink the situation in different words and it’s just too many fantasy aspects of the pornography industry rolled into someone’s real life that I just don’t buy it. Hello, I’ve seen some pretty slutty girls and sororities but c’mon, no sororities are out there who week after week without fail arrange a frat come over and have intercourse with all its members and force the protestors to take it. That part is just way over the top. That’s every 16 year old boy’s wank bank imagery of what college will be like…Or fat guy’s lament of what he didn’t get to be a part of in college but instead only watch on college sites on his PC. We adults and normal people know that’s far from reality tho. If not, I think 500 guys who read this will be planning a transfer to that school next year.
Next thing you know this slore will go “study” abroad in Europe, and come back with a triple-strength prescription for Valtrex. “Blue Light Special on Whore-itis Aisle 4.”
I’m attractive, have normal friends, am in college, and I don’t even drink. At all. I attend parties and guess what? I hang with all the drunk people, take embarrassing pics of them to use as leverage (haha), yell and run around and act stupid like everyone else, make sure no one drives drunk, and have the (sober) time of my life. I have a ton of friends in sororities at other schools who I visit over weekends and attend parties with, and guess what? Just because everyone’s playing a drinking game, doesn’t mean you have to. I don’t like the taste of alcohol, and I don’t want to be one of those girls who sleeps around or makes bad choices because they’re pressured into drinking all the time. I know my worth and I’m too good for that shit. No one thinks I’m weird or a loser, people have actually complimented me on it and guys think it’s cool that I’m classy. It honestly makes me sad to read this post and realize that so many girls do this crap just to fit in. You can still fit in and be popular without being a drunk skank, I have a ton of friends and even though they all drink, they respect my choices. Be your own person and respect yourself. (you’ll also stay in great shape, because you won’t have any of the extra calories from alcohol!)
Newsflash – you were a whore when you slept with 4 guys in 2 semesters. Enjoy your clap.
Um well why dint you just leave it why did you put up with it stupid girl ! Nobody was forceing you to do any of that .
Cry me a river.
LOL OMG! Your a total retard! Your a filthy piece of trash! go get an STD test you discousting whore! No one will ever love your used up skank ass! I hope you get HIV bitch!
i’m mostly offended that you’re complaining about pledging for a WEEK!? oh boo hoo…
Over 10, probably means 19. When did class start?
I have no idea who this person is, but my photograph is being used and as a greek at my school, i can 150% gurantee that WE IN NO WAY HAZE. what a joke, if any one who sees this photo knows any of us, they can tell you how slanderous this is. i will be seeking legal action, you can not use my photo and lie about an organization. this is ridiculous, and if you were hazed, i’m sure you went to Central Michigan or Michigan State or U of M or a big party school, but this is MY chapter and we DO NOT do any of those things you accused us of, this is awful and not okay to do.