Cheating Wife Of Disabled Vet, Amber McLoud
THE DIRTY ARMY: Ok so nik I met this girl off the interested interested in getting together for some nsa sex. After telling me all the explicit things she wanted to do with me and my greg, she gave me a back story that she was widowed and her husband had died in Iraq. I didnt have her full name but after a little investigation I found out that her husband in fact didn’t die but had his legs blown off in war and they are still married and have received several contributions like a brand new house and 10k for his service. After finding this out I was sick to my stomach and couldn’t hook up with a chick that was cheating on her disabled vet of a husband. I even messaged him on his facebook account to let him know he was married to a cheating whorebag.
Poor guy. I doubt those are his curtains either.- nik
Wow these army wives have no remorse huh? Da*n shame. HULK
She was probably grieving and within that, was acting out sexually. We are not to judge such a thing. To contact her husband is inappropriate to say the least…….. The original writer probably des not have ability to recognize this….. DK
Way to go in turning in a trader!
So sad I have a man in the military and I honor him in every way would never do this disrespectful crap
What we dont know is how many times he cheated on her before and after his injuries. Many of these injured military men use their injuries to get what they want. Maybe she found out, threatened to leave, and this was his poor excuse of a way to get revenge on her. We all know there are two sides to every story.
When would he have had time to cheat?? Would it be when he was I’m Iraq for his first deployment?? No? Then it up must have been when he was on a mue deployed for 7months. And of not then, SURELY he would have had time to cheat on her when he was getting blown up in Afghanistan!!!! Do you see how ridiculous you sound now!?? When he was not at work, he was with her. Unless he cheated with another marine man….
Or maybe she was such a negative b*tch and he finally couldn’t take it anymore and told her to leave!
How do u get hold of her
You can go to school but you cant buy class!
This is a lie. Im not associated with anyone that wrote this. but for Trama SGLI (insurance for tramatic war injuries) the amount is way great that 10k try 120k
Wrong again!!! And 100k doesn’t go far when your wife gets a boob job. Just sayin….
What makes you think she got a boob job? She had a kid, breasts grow. Perhaps you did you not complete the 7th grade?
It’s kind of odd that her breast grew two sizes a year after her sons birth…..
wow, i went to school with her… and can’t believe she would do that to him. after all he has been through for his family and the country. what a heartless beeeotch.
Maybe her husband cheated on her, making up some sob story about his wife not being interested in him anymore. When she found out and filed for divorce, he made this shit up, so once again people will feel sorry for him.
She really hurt a good guy, I had a feeling she was a whore all along
I feel so bad for him but he obviously deserves much better.
or maybe she obviously deserve better!!!
Or maybe she needs to stop being slooty!!
OR!!! Maybe she cheated on him while they were engaged and was fighting for our country in Iraq, but he never got to know the real Amber. Then after his injuries they were together 24/7 and he got to know the real negative heartless bitch that she really is and then found out the truth about her cheating episode with a guy named Allen. Yup. That’s right, I know the whole story. There is no reason to make up lies and stories about either of them!!!
Just curious, but how do you know this?
I used to be close to her…
Its a shame people have to make things up about a woman who stood by her man even after he was injured!!! I guess its true…a divorce can pull of someones true colors and show what an ass they are!!!
None of you D bags who commented on this know the whole story. She is the sweetest person I know and he was a major a hole to her before he got wounded! They were already separated too. So no shes not a cheating whore!!
Separated as in he was living I’m San Diego and she in Missouri so they could take a break. No as in they were getting divorced. There is no legal documentation stating that they were separated.
No one here knows the whole story. Let them grieve the loss of their marriage without having to deal with this. Do any of you have injured spouses and do any of you know what it takes to care for a person 24/7? No? So shut up. Unless you know the details stay out of it. No one is perfect and in the case of infidelity lets leave it to them to figure it all out. It is not our place to judge or put her on blast for something that may or may not have happened. It’s easy to judge over the Internet but what if this was your picture?
Amen!!!
It wouldn’t be my picture. I would never cheat on my SO……
And boom!!! don’t cheat that simple!
I’m just curious to know how exactly did she care for “disabled” husband??
me too
Hi this is a family member of justin’s, the true victim in this whole thing is the baby in this situation that she obviously uses as a pawn when everything dont go her way. she never took care of justin 24/7 because if that were true he would have to take care of the baby and do his own laundry while she is getting tummy tucks and feel like she is going crazy cause mentally she cant handle nothing not even taking care of her own child so she leaves him in the care of whoever will take him. justin went to Irag as one man and came back as another but that is no excuse for what she has done to him. and if he was so much a cheat i would like to know with who? he was at war and since then has been fighting to be back to his former self. so her friends and family can claim otherwise and thats okay but had she not been trying to cheat on her husband then none of this would be one here…so she only has herself to blame i just pray her son never sees this sight…..smh
clearly you arent a family member or you aren’t very close with Justin. He was injured in Afghanistan not Iraq (which is what I’m guessing you meant by Irag)
obviously I careless what you think….so politely suck my ass. thanks
I am Justin’s mother and I don’t feel like this is the place to air out dirty laundry at all. Even if what is being said is true, and I will refrain from expressing my opinion, to place things like this on the internet is not the place to do it. Not only does this hurt the two people involved, namely Justin and Amber, but my grandson can and will be effected by this negativity. All it takes is for someone to google Amber’s name (ie, a potential employer) and my grandson will be effected because Mommy didn’t get the job. REALLY people for the sake of the innocent lets drop this
I saw Amber take care of Justin while she was still living in San Diego with him!!! She went to majority of his rehab sessions and was there cheering him on and took care of the house,him and their son…so what if Justin had to do his laundry…boo-hoo!!! I bet he’s doing it now when she’s not there!!! She would’ve been ‘crippling’ him even more if she did absolutely EVERYTHING for him…quit finding stupid things to bash her for. Leave her alone!!! Oh, but let me guess…everyone else commenting negatively towards her is perfect!?!?! Get a life and leave theirs alone…
Obviously you don’t know what happened behind close doors. Or that she would drop her son off at daycare first thing in the morning and then have a nanny take care of him the afternoon.
Point is, she should not have sent those pictures to the guy to have sex with him. Separated or not. She is an attention seeking, stuck up bitch who is all about Amber. She doesn’t care about anyone else. Se uses everyone around her to get what she wants. And pawns her kid off on everyone to raise! Who is raising her kid now?? Not her!! But her mother!
Why all the Amber hating? My original post never made it thru moderation, so I will try to be more polite when I call you all morons for judging her falsely. I am reading these comments and I must say, I know Amber, and I have seen her take care of her son from day one! I look up to her for that, and here you people bash her? PATHETIC! More to the point of this post – I also know she was there for Justin 100% before his accident – even when in my eyes I saw a significant strain on the relationship. I even remember when one night he bloody called the marriage off! Amber quickly hashed it to “Justin was only trying to protect me”, or some reasoning that seemed faulty and perhaps denial at the time. Since his mother is now reading this, I will refrain from voicing my opinion of her son, but it is not favorable. I would pick up on things from time to time that significantly altered my respect for the man. I never voiced that, as what could I do, that was her husband, and he was at war, or going to war. I spent a lot of time with Amber both during Justin’s deployments and when he was home. She became one of my favorite people on this planet. As much as I can say I love Amber, I also KNOW she loved him verily, and was committed to him. If Amber was dedicated to Justin 100% before, then she was 110% dedicated to him after his accident. I saw her run to him, and I saw her take care of him. Like the person above I saw her helping in rehab, and I saw her there every day cheering him on. Those pictures also exist, so it is crystal clear in reality. I am sure her running to him was just a primal response to love, but really when you think of it, it just laid even more stress on a breaking foundation. Such, what happened to Justin is tragic, but it doesn’t define her – or him. Amber is still very young, why should she be trapped in a dysfunctional relationship? I hold bias against Justin for some actions he took before his accident, but does he not deserve that too? Who among you are to judge anything that would happen behind closed doors anyway? We sensationalize trivial things, and blast these doors open that cannot be shut. That is not fair to Amber, to Justin, or to their son. You all who contributed to this should be ashamed. I am happy to see them part ways, so that they can begin a new life – one that I wish them both the best in – shared by their son. I would beg of you all to stop throwing this slander around. It’s a door that swings both ways, and for the sake of peace, we should just leave it shut.
I am sorry to hear that you fell victimed to Ambers fakeness. Why does Amber to through relationships and jobs like dirty underwear??!!! Why are you her longest friend?? Yeah she has Dana. But not to long ago she was a Dana hater saying that Dana was fat and trying to steal her baby. Amber is not a nice person. She is a very mean spirited user!!! She has never had to take care of Desmond by herself. She had Juatin until he deployed, Dana came to California until she moved back to MO where her mother took care of the baby. When she moved back out here Desmond was in Daycare and had a nanny. How is that taking care of Desmond???
First of all, the first pic isn’t Amber and the second one is from 3 years ago.
Yes it is!!! You can see a slither of her HOPE FAITH tattoo on her right side.
Dream on…..
Leave this family alone. For the most part you are all a bunch of faceless, anonymous cowards. No one knows the facts, it’s not your marriage, SO BUTT OUT NOW, AND STOP THIS NONSENSE! And yes, like any loving mother would do, I helped Amber through one of the most trying times in her life. I will continue to help her, and be there for her and Desmond for the rest of their lives.
Since when is having a baby a trying time?? Before Justin got hurt she wasn’t able to take care of her kid! Or keep a clean house for that matter!!
and amber’s mom maybe you should blame urself for the lack of morels that you taught your daughter and quit babying her and maybe she wouldn’t be suck and being a wife and mother.
Attacking Amber is unexcusable, but attacking her mother is just pure madness. I commend Amber’s mother for helping in any way she could – should we not praise her for that? A mother is always a mother, and there is nothing stronger than a mother’s bond. It is obvious between Amber and her mother, and it is obvious between Amber and her son. Anyone who cannot see that is either blind, or stupid. Both are good mothers, and I would also openly pledge my loyalty to both.
If Amber is such a good mom, them why doesn’t she take care of her son? If her mother is such a good mom, them why are all four of her kids messed up?! Food for thought.
Actions equal consequences. The moment she posted (texted or whatever she did) her naked pictures she made that choice to be on the dirty. Amber needs to learn to take responsibility for her own actions and to stop having mommy rescue her!! It’s no ones fault but AMBERS that she is on this page. If she doesn’t get hired because of this. Tough!!! She made that choice when she started slooting around!! I’m sure she will be able to support her baby just fine as an exotic dancer. At least she has the body to do so with her new boobs and lypo!
as some would know from there higher ed a wise man once stated
listen to what person’s are saying they are always talking about themselves
Exactly, so whoever had to make up this whole story about Amber, must have been a cheater himself. Doesnt matter if it was before he married her or not. He must have a guilty conscience about something. He had plenty of opportunities before, during and after deployments. Maybe even while she was pregnant…imagine that! A big, bad marine cheating on his wife.
You think her husband made this up?!? Hahahaha!!! You obviously don’t know him.
Glad I dont…
I think this website is disgusting. I am a lingtime friend of Amber’s family and I firmly believe what happens in a couples marriage is their business and noons else’s. Obviously some people have nothing better to do!
Seriously -
Grow up! Get a life! MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!
Why don’t all of these people who have negative things to say reveal who they are ?
Hit me up lol
This is so ridiculous… if any of you served in the military you would know that just about all married couples cheat. I am a 10 yr vet and I refused to get married while serving due to all the infidelity by both the soldier and the spouse. Most of you douche bags that have never served would have rather spit on us soldiers prior to 9/11, so to sit here and read any comment left by anyone about this topic that isn’t directly involved makes me laugh. Your comments are very entertaining…. stop posting about some “honorable country defending” soldier when you don’t know if he was a good guy or not, for all you know he was some dumb redneck that couldn’t get into college or maybe he’s the next Eistiein (i dont know and don’t care) worry about your own spouse… they’re prob cheating on you
Most people do not get posted on here unless they have dirty laundry. More than likely, this woman is a sloot. I see more negative than positive on her. Just saying.
I took care of her child for six months and she seemed like a good mom now a good wife probably not but who are we to judge
I took care of her child for six months and she seemed like a good mom now a good wife probably not but who are we to judge
I took care of her child for six months and she seemed like a good mom now a good wife probably not but who are we to judge
I took care of her child for six months and she seemed like a good mom now a good wife probably not but who are we to judge
I took care of her child for six months and she seemed like a good mom now a good wife probably not but who are we to judge