Couples Therapy: I Lost A Lot Of Respect For You Last Night Nik Richie
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I was a huge fan of yours until I watched last nights episode of couples therapy. When you started rebelling against that piece of sh*t child molester Doug, I was easily your biggest fan. I grew up in a mormon family and at 18 my family had me marry a 61 your old man (now divorced and re-married with 3 beautiful children). And I will never forgive my family for doing that. My ex-husband brainwashed me and then would do the most perverted things to me. It has scarred me for life and not a morning goes by when I wake up and didn’t have a bad dream about him touching me or putting objects inside me. How can you sit there and apologize to him? What? You are sorry for him sleeping with a 16 year old girl that doesn’t know any better? You are sorry for him messing up her head for the rest of her life like mine? What are you sorry about? Grow some balls Nik and be a man not a phony.
Ok you have some deep issues that need to be dealt with. In my mind I had to overcome many obstacles for my marriage in that house. My focus needed to be 100% about Shayne and not distracted by Doug. I had to co-exist to save myself. Here is the scene below… if you believe my view has changed on Child Molesters you are completely mistaken.- nik
**FYI- There will be a new episode this Sunday at 9PM on VH1**
You didn’t grow up Mormon, you grew up in one of those cults that calls themselves FLDS (fundamentalist Latter-Day Saints). Big difference; stop spreading bs.
This submitter must have been from Obama’s camp.- nik
Nik thats exactly what I was thinking!!!
OP, I call BS on your entire story!!!
The Mormon’s in utah are having these unions sealed in the temple on the daily, to say it doesn’t happen is a lie. Mormonism is a cult and is the LDS church, no diff. Only one’s more legal than the other, meaning one has more money to cover their activities than the fundamentalists.
What i wanna kno is if this is what scoobz is doin to girls, using objects? so messed up.
Listen up everyone, it is obvious that I am an idiot and no one around here likes me. With that said, I want to apologize, for I was born an idiot. I have no friends, I masterbate to BLK CAWK on the daily double, I smoke tobacco I dye green trying to convince myself it is the gonja and I bought a used galaxy samsung from ebay with my piggy bank money. My mom also says hi, She hates it when I don’t say hi for her. HULK
I felt that Nik held his ground; his reaction to the senior (Doug?) was the reason I DID NOT flip the channel. Way to go Nik; I thought you handled yourself well. You made your feelings on pedophilia (which is EXACTLY what that is, as I have a teenage daughter) VERY clear to me.
I agree- Nik handled it perfect and chose his words very carefully.
NIK, WATCHING THIS SHOW RIGHT NOW JUST SHOWED ME YOUR WIFE IS A CONTROL FREAK, WHO CARES WHAT COURTNEY IS WEARING AT THE DINNER TABLE?? WHY IMPOSE ON SOMEONE ELSE YOUR STUPID VALUES??? FREE COUNTRY RIGHT?? I SAY YOUR WIFE IS SO DESPERATE TO CONTROL YOU AND WHAT YOU DO THAT SHE’S LITERALLY GOING NUTS WITH THE FACT THAT SHE CAN’T DO SHIT ABOUT IT. EVERYONE SHOULD JUST MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS AND WORK ON THEIR OWN PROBLEMS. YOU ARE ALL IDIOTS, FEEDING INTO THE DRAMA FOR RATINGS. MAYBE YOUR WIFE SHOULD HAVE JUST REMOVED HER STUPID HAT AT THE TABLE AND YOU TOO. IF ITS SOCIAL ETIQUETTE YOU GUYS KEEP BITCHING ABOUT MAYBE YOU SHOULD START WITH YOURSELVES. MORONS!!!! ON ANOTHER NOTE, I JUST REALIZED 45 MIN IS COMMERCIALS AND 15 IS JUST THE SHOW. NEXT TIME I’LL JUSTWAIT TIL SATURDAY TO SEE IT ONLINE. VH1 SUCKS ASS!!!
I agree with Nik 100%, he never said he thought it was ok. He needed to work on himself, and not worry about other people’s problems. But stood his ground he didn’t think it was right. I really give him credit. He apologized for the comment, but still agrees to disagree. Real Man if you ask me. And to the chick that wrote this, WTF, if you were unhappy why didn’t you leave sooner. You didn’t have to get married. I’m sick of this shit,” my family made me do it.” I refuse to conform to anything i don’t agree with, WHETHER OR NOT my family says i should. Think for yourself. You will be ok chick, just get some help, and hold on to those children, be a better mother than your mother was.
soo is anyone ever gonna post on youtube soo we can watch???
Ya nik you totally b*tched out on this one.
Nik, I too think they b*tched out. How can you even shake his hand after you talked to him? That was disturbing.
I really thoughts you had some balls son. But not really, he totally punked your ass and said. Yo Nik, back up off my nuts son, its ok if I touch a little child because I love her. And you did nothing about it.
So..Nik’s supposed to catch a felony for kicking dougs ass just because his fans on the internet think he isn’t man enough? Try living your life with tv cameras on you all the time. That DOES take balls. Especially given the emotional wreck Shayne is.
yeah shayna really is a emotional wreck- I dont think Ive seen her with so much as a half a smile yet! She is a very very unhappy person and seems to hate her life. She blames Niks web-site for all her problems but if Nik were to shut this whole site down and find other works-SHE STILL WOULD BE DEPRESSED AND UNHAPPY!
Same thing here. Nik, you bitched out and it made me less of a fan.
I’m on your side Nik. You made a good point at the very end when you said you would never be ok with what he did/is doing.
You had a great point but at the end of the day. Doug won and Nik Richie Lost.
I am probably the last person that you would expect on your website a 54 divorced Mom with 4 kids from Boulder, Co. Having said that I am so impressed with you – you are genuine, intelligent and blatantly honest to a fault – which I think society needs more of. I think you are dead on about Doug – any parent that would allow their 16, 17 year old daughter date a man that’s almost my age is not being a parent in the truest sense of the word. They are not protecting their child which is just by definition a parent must do. I have a 16 year old daughter, I can not even fathom this ever happening. I feel sorry for Courtney, she should be going to her homecoming dance, studying, reading, just being a kid. As I have told my own children – you have the rest of your lives to be an adult, so be a kid right now, my job is getting you safely through to 18 and then college, where I hope what you have learned serves you well.
On another note – your eyes show the pain that you must feel with the idea of losing your wife. Your fight for your marriage is admirable – and I truly hope everything works out. Being a parent changes everything, which you already know. I am unfortunately a statistic after 23 years of marriage.
I’m sure judging by your website, “The Dirty”, (which is aimed at a totally different demographic than me) my comment doesn’t really fit in – just stay true to yourself and keep fighting the fight.
Best comment I have ever read on this site.
‘Best comment EVER on this site.”
What a load of smelly dog cr*p !!!
1. You don’t even know how old Courtney is.
2. Who cares what age 2 people are? Is not that their OWN f*kn biz?
Alll you self righteous fornicators/whores/sluts/sodomites do not have a leg to stand on. If he is good to her and they are in fact FAITHFUL to each other, well, then, go on and hate the crap out of them.
NB on the show “Nik” aka Hooman Karmian, was covertly OGLING Courtney – so his OVERT “disgust” is merely self-disguised hotty-envy !!!
Ya, put that in yer pipes and spark it up.
PS: turn or burn, we are indeed in the last days of Earth.
http://www.just1word.com/bible/verse/acts_17:30?version=nkjv
Surely there is a comprimise with your wife….like sell this website, make a bunch and start something else that suits the family!
If you lived in a bachelor pad with a bunch of dudes, you would give that up when you got married, look at this site the same way. There are plenty of other cool things to do!
Good Luck!
ShySharon
I believe that the reason Nik did the whole apology deal, was so maybe Doug would let the whole thing go. Nik really wants to focus on his wife and hope for their marriage. With Doug rehashing the whole thing everytime he got next to Nik, it was taking Niks focus away from his reason for being there. Now he is able to just go about his business and ignore Doug the way he wants to. Less focus on Doug and Courtney equals more focus on Nik And Shayne!!!!
Very true.- nik
I agree with Shawnaaaa. Doug literally brought it up every single time they were shooting together. I’m like, omg dude, get OVER it. Nik’s not still discussing with him about calling Shayne high. Which honestly came outta left field right there. Considering little miss innocent Courtney is rumored to be eating pain pills like cookie monster eats cookies (or does he really eat veggies now?)
and bigger losers think their opinion matters when Nik is playing you all for $$$!!
Dear OP, sorry for this horrific abuse you suffered. Please tell us what exactly the pervert did to you. What objects did he stick inside you? How long until you started to enjoy it? Did the pervert make you call him things, like Daddy? Did you ever squirt? It will help you heal to get these things off your chest. How big is your chest?
hahahah you should work for the dirty
Damn that’s a great answer Nik.. Well said
Does Courtney go to school? Does she have any plans for college? Or is she planning on Playboy, porn and stripping to occupy her time?
Does Courtney go to school? Does she have any plans for college or some type of schooling? Or is she depending on Playboy, porn and stripping?
nik “hooman”richie please get your wife a fuking nose job that honker is jacked, and please sand blast those acne scars off your face.
Dr drew
DR DREW- SHUT THE FK UP! YOUR SUCH A IDIOT – ONLY A LOSER SAYS SHIT LIKE THAT- I BET YOUR MUG IS WAY MORE FKD UP BECAUSE WHEN YOU SAY UGLY SHIT- ITS A FACT YOUR UGLY INSIDE AND OUT!
Doug calls himself a “child molester” every chance he gets. In the back of his mind – he knows damn well he is.
Courtney is the way she is because she obviously had no direction. I honestly feel bad for her.
NIk .. I never write anything on the site, but i am an avid follower since DirtyNewport days, and 100% agree with your ideals and values. I think your are incredibly insightful and smart. There are MAAAANY things that viewers/readers are not privy to yet they make assumptions as it they know the whole story. People that believe you “bitched” out are on a lower level of intelligence and maturity. Fighting against inevitability is a losing battle, and it is inevitable that you and doug will never see eye to eye about doug’s mission to validate his own actions to the world. That being said, the wisest, and most reasonable solution is to agree to disagree, something that most decent human beings are taught in like 2nd grade. You did not validate, nor condone, his actions. You simply accounted for your own, and there is a huge difference. In life our integrity is defined by how we handle the situations placed in front of us. Nik, you are man full of integrity and maturity, and i think that given the situation you were in you are the on who came out looking like a better human being!
OMG HOW YOU ALL LIKE DOUGS COMMENT- “THE REASON ME AND CORTNEY CAME ON THIS SHOW WAS TO CHANGE THE WORLD PERSPECTIVE” ON THE AGE DIFFERENCE! HES SUCH A FKN LAIR AND A JOKE! HE TRYS SO HARD TO CONVINCE THE PPL THAT WHAT HE IS DOING IS OKAY AND ITS NOT. HE CAN KISS HIS ACTING CAREER GOODBYE- IM JUST GOING TO SIT BACK AND WATCH THIS GUY TOTALLY SELF DISTRUCT. HES SO OBCESSED WITH CORTNEY- THA IF SHE LEFT HIM HE’D KILL HIMSELF!
Nik and Shayne are the entire reason I watch the show. She’s beautiful and smart. Nik loves her and wants to hash this thing out. They are both interesting people. Taking them seriously feels natural. Don’t get me started on the Doug/Courtney issue – simply read Nik’s take on it because, again, it feels natural to take a man seriously who speaks the truth. His honesty is a gift.
I think its a desperate generalization to say that Courtney would have been exposed to drugs/alcohol if she dated within her age.
And honestly, she would’ve been better off experimenting like every other kid rather than marrying an old beater who is gleefully facilitating her public exploitation and hyper-sexualization.
Anyway, I think Nik handled that maturely…
O.M.G. I am SO glad you FINALLY got off the “Doug and Courtney” crap!!!
It was super-boring, and you needed to focus on YOUR purpose for being there–YOUR marriage.
Nice job, Nik; thought you handled it with class!
(Doug is an actor and is obviously used to manipulating people with his words and his bearing.)
Doug = delusioned pervert who actually believes he is in a loving relationship though C WIILL obviously leave him. He is pathetic. Destined to be lonely, and filling that void with a child prostitute.
Courtney = uncontrolled child prostitue with likely history of sexual abuse and severe hypersexuality and attention disorder. She WILL move into the porn industry when the 15 mins wears off and the money for extensions disappears.
Shayne = was a fan. Not any more. Spoiled little brat with a HUGE ego and the shopping BS is disgusting. Try doing some serious charity work (like volunteering w red cross, not donating Nik’s $) instead of getting your hair did. You are an example of American wastefulness and excess. I would love to see you on Survivor.
Nik = been a fan since the start. Never waivered til now. You bent under pressure buddy. You have nothing to apologize for and you can ignore the D+C phenom without doing it to work on your marriage. Use your good Dirty Army lawyers to get some custody. DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR WEBSITE.DO NOT CHANGE IT. You already have enough (I remember the good ol days when it was a lot raunchier!!!). Shayne is gonna screw you over and you know it. Bet you’ve already accepted it. Crossing my fingers for you and Press. Good luck.
“In Western culture…? like France & Italy?” Hey moron, France & Italy ARE Western — as in, NOT Eastern. Ugh….
Nik, you did have to take your focus off this for the sake of Shayne, good call on that. But what this guy doesn’t get is that if you are 50 & you can get it up for a 16-yr-old, then you’re a pervert. No amount of stripper heels can make a child look like a woman. Biology doesn’t work that way — for a REASON.
When you are ready to be married to a real woman, like myself, leave that psycho you are married to and get back to reality. I would love to have a husband like you, someone who is brutally honest. Having children with someone with such an honest approach to life and an straightforward worldview would expose those children to a world that actually exists, outside of TV land and the interwebz. Take your children to Haiti, SHOW them how others live, SHOW them how to help the world, one small piece at a time. I felt that passion out of you when you went there, we all did. Share that with your child, expose her to the real world and leave that money-hungry has been behind.