I Can’t Believe My Mother
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need some advice on what I should do. I’m only 17 and have had the same boyfriend for 3 years who is my age and the love of my life. Or so I thought… My mom is a beautiful woman and has always had a real nice and flirty personality. But in the past few months my boyfriend and her have been real flirty towards each other to a point its even raised an issue with my father. Two days ago, while my boyfriend was showering I was going through his phone and found texts between my mother and him. They were very sexual and there was pictures of the two of them having intercourse. I’m broken Nik. I haven’t said anything to my bf or mother and have acted like everything is ok. I’m scared to tell anyone because, first my mom is 42 and I know she can get in trouble for have sex with a 17 year old boy and second, I’m scared my dad will divorce my mom and then I will be living in a broken home. Help me out Nik, what should I do?
You need to go to the police immediately. You need to bank the 17 years of growth that you have now and understand its time to be an adult and pave your way in this world. Your mother is dead to you.- nik
You must keep yourself. If you don’t confront them now, you bring yourself down to their level. Do not allow yourself to be treated this way. It is not up to you to keep the relationship between your mother and father going. Your mother has already decided it is not important. You are not responsible for what others do. And what about your dad? You want your dad to go on not knowing what his wife has done? Stand up for yourself now and get used to it. It gets easier and easier as you practice it. If you want to be a good person of good character, you must do the things a good person of good character would do. What do you think that is?
GOD you are one annoying person. Thanks for the insight Anderson Phil. HULK (what?! what?! in the butt
) HULK
For once HULK, SHUT THE FCK UP.
carry on elsewhere, douchefck
Thanks!
As usual that’s not me but some douche trying to be me because he’s a fan. I would never be that callus on a sensitive topic like this. If no picture shows up on the avatar don’t respond to him or any other HULKS but I. HULK
And people say I don’t have a life. At least when I post I have something to say, and I’m not following around a poster and pretending to be that poster. How sad is that?
Forget Perseys bullshit, you need a Superior Black Man to protect you and introduce you to dating. A Superior Black Man will always be there for you and protect you. See what your boyfriend and parents do to you, they are traitors and dont care about you. Remember a Superior Black Man always will protect and love you.
dont you mean you will always be there to pimp her out?
YOU CAN NOW BLACKMAIL YOUR MOTHER FOR LIFE!!! TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS!!!
re “I Can’t Believe My Mother”.
Why not? You are a trailer trash fornicating slut since (at least) 14 … like mother like daughter – 2 whores.
Turn or burn sodomite aMerka
http://blogs.sparenot.com/?blog=1
HAHAHAHA true that!
Cast stones anyone?
I wonder why this imposter is telling God that he is annoying and who is Anderson Phil?
the last thing this girl should do is go to the cops. her mom did her a favor by revealing both the boyfriend and her own true colors. the truth hurts but it exists even when we are ignorant of it.
True story. Mom showed you bf was a douche. You should get the sexy pics and texts and post them on here, before turning your Moms into the cops of course!
Dump the boyfriend and tell him he is to never come around again and don’t even tell him why. Just tell him you are bored with him and bye bye As far as mom goes….that’s a hard decision…life as you know it will get really messy if you turn her in or tell dad. If it were me…I probably wouldn’t say anything either turn 18 and move away to college and don’t look back. Your dad will eventually figure out whats going on. Not sure if its your place to tell him.
anonymously email the photos to your father. Let him decide what to do with this situation.
AND THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE. I AGREE WITH NIK, TURN HER IN ASAP
HULK is a follower. HULK speaks from things in the past that have already been said many times before. HULK is a junior who has yet to turn 22. HULK (what?! what?! in the butt
) HULK
Aww isn’t that ugly. HULK
Or, you can sit your mom and dad down and tell them about the pics you saw. Also, break up with your bf IMMEDIATELY!
You should definitely show the authorities and your father, what makes you think she wont do this to you again. It’s so wrong on so many levels. This is your time to stand up for yourself or else she will just keep doing it. Show her she fcked up and you intend on doing everything you can to bring her down and get the fck away from her. If you let her walk all over you it’s just going to keep happening for the rest of your life. Do the right thing, she obviously deserves it.
And — if you eventually marry, that horny toad mother of yours will make a play for your husband. She’s old and dumb and the only way she can try remain relevant (in her own mind), is to sleep w/ her daughter’s bf (or husband). She is garbage and will try it again and again.
COUGARS ARE THE BEST AT SEX. I WAS TAUGHT BY A COUGAR. JUST SAYING
If you’re into droopy roast beef sandwiches with mayo
You’re 17 and have been with him for 3 years? My mother wouldn’t let me even have a bf at 14 or 17. Let alone flirt with him and have sex with him. Real mothers don”t do that. You need to disown her and go to the police like Nik said. If you ignore it and don’t do anything about it, it WILL happen again. You could be married and she’ll sleep with you husband. Not only she is she hurting you, she is hurting your father. Disown your mother. She’s trash and needs to be disposed of.
right on nik
Your father will be devastated, but imagine how much more devastating it would be to find out that your own daughter knew and didn’t tell you. The right thing to do is to tell him. He deserves to know.
Or god forbid, mom gives dad some kind of drd because she’s a nasty cougar in heat.
By the way, the roast beef on a cougar is dry, menopause guys, no mayo.
God that grossed me out, and turned me right off of arbys now.
Just to reiterate the above. It isn’t up to you to keep your parents together. You’re only 17 but your’e about to learn a valuable lesson: take care of yourself above all else.
You have a choice: report your mom’s crime OR dump your bf and let your dad catch them
Better advice is to have your dad bang one of your friends.
Better advice is to let your dad bang on the pope. Fggot.
1) Dump the guy
2) Confront your mom
3) Tell your dad
4) Tell the police
Your mom doesn’t deserve you nor your dad. She deserves to be charged with child molestation.
1) Send TXT messages to yourself for evidence
2) Tell your dad
3) Tell the police
4) Let life unravel
creepy.
That sounds like every dude’s dream porn scene if she is hot. That said, your mother is a whore and should be publicly ruined and in jail.
Hate to hear it happen to someone else. Just be ready for big changes in your life. I hope you have family you can turn to outside your home.
What’s the difference between you and a mallard with a cold?
What?
One’s a sick duck and I forget the rest but your mother’s a whore.
im sure you didnt wanna air this out to the world but you need peoples perspective on your sit. your mom honeslty knew what she was doin.. she didnt care if she hurt you or your dad.. she just wanted to live young.. mlc? but if i were you id dump ur bf quick..but first see if he stays away from ur fam and if he doesnt have any contact with her anymore since ur a snooper then you should b good..if he does then you have to confront ur parents. not her.. both.. sad sit for ur dad.. wosrt nightmare.. i dont want ur bf to make ur fam look bad if things go bad cause he will.. u gotta delete those photos..but you are 17 so your life is gonna change with the real world pretty soon so if ur parent split.. it wont b as bad as if u wernt in ur teens cause u wouldnt actually understand why they arent together. ur mom isnt dead to you just needs alot of makeup time n trust for you to bring ur bfs around to her n just talking about her in a good way.. shes gonna make you have trust issuse n what not now but youll get through that once you meet the right man.. ur only 17 tho so you got yeaaaaars.. but if you really wanna get back at him.. go blow his good friends n pound one he hates
Are you illiterate? And this is terrible advice.
id say tell your dad but not the cops.
Tell dad first but not in your house or when your mom or boyfriend are in a physical proximity. Dont get him sent t jail for deservedly beating your man up. Tell your dad you’re going to the cops first so that you don’t end up without a mom, who’s in jail, or a dad who’s pissed you got his wife locked up(could halppen – youre trying to anticipate an incedible combustable situation and make it as bearable as possible) . Think through the scenarios as much as possible – don’t just act quick.
Make sure you don’t end up being the one who loses here when you’ve already lost a boyfriend and one parent – mom can never be trusted again. If she would do that, she would do anything and don’t believe otherwise when she starts crying and gravelling
Good thing is you’re young enough to move on quickly, you’ll be stronger and more guarded as a result of this which can help you avoid being used, and it was only a boyfriend not a husband, baby daddy, or your uncle. Don’t feel bad – they both screwed each other and you in the process so now f*£K them!!! Cut em off and don’t look back. Good luck, kid
Your mom better be hot. If not then your boyfriend is a sick person.
Just do as Nik says. That is all.
ive had a similiar situation to this. its a shitty situation to be in and you will probably have trust issues for awhile. i would dump the guy, what he did can not be forgiven, i didnt dump my boyfriend at the time when i found out and he just ended up cheating on me even more. as for your mother, i really dont know, it will take time to build your relationship back up with her but i do believe your father has a right to know. that is all.
i dont think you should turn her in at all. i think you should how ever make her and the BF think you are gonna turn them in. make em sweat some.
I can’t even image a mom would do that to her kid. Nevertheless, something needs to be said, who is to say this is the first time or how long has it been going on? When her daughter is this age and never mind 3 years with him. The mom must have seen him as a child growing with her daughter. I don’t always agree with Nik, but this time I do. Confront the mom and say you either tell her father/husband or she will. And tell the boyfriend you know! This is something that will be with her forever. She will never trust her mom again or around her men.
Tell your dad before your boyfriend finds out that you know he’s secret & tries to kill you, you could be saving your own life right now.
I’d make sure what they did is actually illegal in your state. Most states have an age of consent of 16.
It should be 17
That’s just one year to 18
My ex hooked up with my step daughters boyfriends 3 of them all just after each turned 18 .just so she would not get in legal trouble. But my kid found out cause her mom lost her phone and my kid found it when she was gone away with her bf . She looked through it when the phone got a text from one of the ex bf . She has all messages and pictures for that one day she will need them .
your dad didnt betray you, your mom did. he deserves to know. by not telling him you are betraying him
I would definitely tell your Dad and let him deal with it. Just remember – if she steals your boyfriend NOW she will end up stealing your HUSBAND later on in life… then you will have your OWN broken home to deal with. How would you tell your kiddos that grandma is sleeping with daddy? This is a tragic situation, but just keep your head up high and welcome to the real world of “our parents are not always right and aren’t the superheroes we grew up believing they were”.
I would definitly tell your Dad and let him handle IT. After that beat The crap outta your ex boyfriend!
Tell your bf that you want to give him a golden shower. Take pics and send to the dirty.
For the love triangle involving your mom, dad and bf – call Joey Greco and forget it.
Then bang your ex bf’s dad, brother and or/sister.
Game over. You win.
Move on.
Good god she has amazing willpower to hold that in. I would never have that much self control.
A very serious situation…and banging your bf’s friends, brother, dad, etc., isn’t a solution…
If you haven’t already done so, you need to get those pictures on your bf’s phone. Like someone above said you’ve got to confront your mom with the pictures and force her to tell your dad, with you present. Without the pictures your mom will most likely deny the whole affair and try to convince your father that you’re mistaken, and / or just a jealous, confused 17 year old.
Before doing this you need to dump the bf, but don’t tell him why right away; that can come after your mom and dad have had their confrontation. As for the police, I think that’s something for your dad to decide, although there may be laws on the books about NOT alerting the police to criminal behavior you know about…
In any event, it’s going to be a rough road ahead for you, so stay strong, try to do what’s right and just know that the people here at the dirty understand how f*cked up this is…
that is absolutely disgusting and wrong on so many levels im so sorry looks like your mother has sara jones syndrome. you need to tell the truth, your mom needs to pay for what she did and doesn’t deserve to be with your dad anyways.
Yu shood jus confront yer mama nd tell her dat chu wana get immencipatered frum her den u ken go tell da po lice. she is a bad mama nd needa b exposd. Yu ken den liv yer lyfe nd git yer boy frend bak. hope mah advice helpd yu hun <3 xoxo Miss Thang
How can your advice help anyone? I don’t think anyone can read & understand your comment. Here’s advice…go back to school,learn how to spell (not like a 15 year old hoodrat) & compose sentences. Maybe, once you do that your “advice” can be taken seriously. Then again,maybe not…afterall you encourage her to get the CHEATING boyfriend back! Oh,by the way what does “immencipatered” mean?!?! ROFLMFAO…maybe your “advice” is supposed top be a joke. I just can’t stop laughing at it. : D
Miss Thang, that was the BEST. ADVICE. EVER.
BAZINGA?
Listen to nik! Go directly to the police, your mother has committed a crime, she’s raped a minor. Don’t tell your dad first; you don’t need a crime of passion, homicide, by way of your dad killing your mom. Besides it would turn out to be a she said, she said, situation. You have the proof go to the police, we need strong women in this world, and in doing this you’re preventing another monster from hurting anyone else.
is this for real?? your mom is a whore and she betrayed you. Start over without her in your life.
I think this is fake and someone’s just bored
Duh, most of the idiots that post comments on here think posts like are real. Nik has some lackey who thinks up ourrageous crap like this just to get reactions.
I don’t have lackeys. Nebraska wake the f*ck up… this is the world we live in.- nik
Dump him and if she continues the affair Im sure your dad will catch her since there is no reason for him to be around!
Tell your dad.. That’s not okay at all whatsoever .
Plus, you deserve soooooo much Better and so does your dad. No mom should ever put her child thru that. And that lil boy is trash. Get rid of him. You’ll be better off….
Yeah — like white trash, middle-aged women who sleep w/ teenagers have money for a Mercedes. Dumb shit.
Sleep with your father and send your bf, your mom and me pics of you banging him. That will show both your bf and mom how it feels.
Email yourself all the pictures so you have hardcore proof (no pun intended), show your dad and have him confront that low life so called mother of yours while you give the evidence to Police to lock her ass up. She deserves to be locked up. Not only is she a predator, she probably has some serious mental issues. Mothers are supposed to protect their children and unfortunately, some women can never be mothers because they are selfish, narcissistic, evil beings.. like your “mom”. She should be dead to you now. Just remember when you stop and try to talk yourself out of reporting her that SHE WAS GETTING OFF ON HURTING YOU!!!!
First, forward those pictures to your phone. Then you can tell your dad with proof in your hands in case your mom tries to deny it. As for your mom and bf, cut them off. They clearly don’t care about you.
If nothing is done a out this who knows what could happen, he turns legal and she leaves your dad? Just report it to police your mom obviously doesn’t give a shit about you or she wouldn’t have done it and let him take pictures. There treating you and your dad like a joke. They think its funny and no big deal. Your letting your mom get away with treating you like shit and making you look dumb. Report it and let us know what you did
Epic solution–
POST THE “SEXY PICS” ON THEDIRTY!!!
Great advice, Nik, you said it all.
What I find hard to believe is that all of you would call the police. If he has 17 at 11:59, and then 1 minute later its ok because he is 18? Does anyone here REEALLLLY think the BF has any sort of abuse done to him? Maybe you shouldn’t have a BF if you don’t intend to fu*k him….WHAT DO YOU THINK HE IS THERE FOR?
See, I don’t like to call police unless it’s like mandatory. I’d just show the dad…that alone will be enough. He’s gonna blow a damn gasket on his cougar in heat (hopefully soon to be EX) wife.
Let Dad handle it, you don’t want to have him forgive her and end up paying for all her lawyer fees, court fines and that bs.
That very Bad, for God’s sake your own blood daughter, if was me my Dad will know about it because she knew that is your boyfriend and she slept with him, report her before you end with shut life my friend, because thinking of this problem very day is dead.
You need to go to the police. She committed a crime against a minor, and according to the law against the state. I doubt this is the first kid she’s slept with either. If she can sleep with your high school sweetheart, imagine what she already has done and is possible of doing.
You and your father deserve a lot better. And you have to be the grown up in this situation because your mother obviously should not be married let alone be around children.
I’m very sorry this happened to you. Let us know how this unfolds.
Dude go up to ur boyfriend and show him what you found but first send it to urself n ur dads phone from his. Make like he accidentally sent it to ur dad. Let ur dad beat pull the divorce papers out right after he bangs ur mom n says see ya later whore. N
good advice.
OMG!!!! Post the pictures of thedirty.com with a picture of ur mom n boyfriends face ASAP!!!!!!!!! Do it!! It will be the best revenge cheaters need to be exposed. Dont worry about her being your mom and shit because she hurt YOU and she very well knew what she was doing she’s doesn’t give a fck about you so why should you give a f\ck about her??.. EXPOSE THE BOTH OF THEM ALONG WITH THE PROFF YOU HAVE!!!!!!!!
17 is legal in New Mexico. The cops can’t do shit!
The poster needs to dump her boyfriend and go to therapy with her mother. Her mother messed up. However, she only has one mother and needs to make amends. The good news is that the poster nearly 18 and can move out of the house soon.
“Making amends” with someone like her mother is futile and will only bring more heartbreak. Any type of relationship must be at a distance, physically and emotionally. Evil people (and this is the worst type of evil) cannot be fixed.
can you update us on what happens , definitely cu them both out- that is unacceptable
17 is legal…
Can you email me those pics? Id love to see what your mom is workin with.
Nik she is not taking your advice.
Really??!? Oh no….. I can see not going to the cops but lets hope she disowns her psycho mom, dumps the bf, and tells the dad
If I were you I would have a threesome with your bf and mom
No mother should do this their child. Tell Daddy NOW then the two of you can move on. Neither of you deserve this. Mom is a horrible person. I could never imagine living my life without my daughter but your mom appears to not care. Time to put your big girl pants on and make a decision to not have such a toxic person in your life, mom or not.
She should get even with her mom and bang her dad?
the dirty is gonna make this a big deal and teens are never gonna have their dream of hooking up with a milf come true..
Hey…eye for eye…tooth for tooth. Have sex with your mother’s husband. That will be some good revenge!
Take your father to a police station alone. Tell him outside the station and show him what you saw. Tell him that if he is going to do something irrational and stupid that you will enter the police station to prevent him from doing anything. If he doesn’t overreact, I would ask him if he wants to report it or deal with it privately.
This way it puts you in control of the situation and delegates the responsibility to him.
Of course dump the asshole who did this to you and don’t look back.
As for your mother, I don’t think she will ever be trustworthy again until she proves it to you.
Most important, do not generalize this situation to everything else in your life.
lets see the pics!
Nik, could you keep us updated on the story? If you’re able to do so. I think many of us would like to know whether she decided to take charge of the situation.
Teach your Mom a lesson and sleep with your dad.