I Trust Your Opinion
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I see how honest you are on TheDirty and I really need some blunt honesty in my life (friends always seem to sugar coat things). I’m 22 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. We always had a normal relationship – occasional fighting, name calling – but always made up. Lately we have been fighting a lot and have just broken up. He says I’m not affectionate enough, although that’s not the reason we broke up. He was becoming very insecure and controlling and I told him that was not okay. I feel really bad that we’re broken up and want to make things right between us. I try to talk to him and he is being really mean and nasty trying to hurt me, saying he doesn’t care. What do I do to get through to him? Why am I so scared to let him go? Do you think he truly does not care anymore?
Why are you trying to get through? When a car breaks down and you get it fixed, it never runs the same. Time to take this car to the junk yard and never look back.- nik
I totally agree. If a woman breaks up with HULK that’s it. I’ll still be friends but it can never be the same again after th AAA t. Nik why is the site making me put all my info in every time I post and not saving it??? What the f#cks going on!
…aaaand get the f*ck out of West Virginia!
You don’t want to let go because you’ve been with him since you were 16… And don’t know what it’s like without him.
Just be done with it.
You’re probably just having a hard time letting go because he was your first love and you’ve been together so long. People sometimes have a hard time dealing with change. It seems that the relationship has run its course and he has moved on. He may still care, but he’s being mean to keep you away since you seem to not get the point that it’s over. Let him be. It may be difficult now, but down the line you will be much happier. You are young, so use this time to discover yourself and what you really want out of life.
You’re probably having such a hard time letting go because he was, I’m guessing, you’re first love and you were together for so long. You were comfortable and just having a hard time coping with change. He may still care, but he’s most likely being mean to keep you away since you don’t seem to get the point that it’s over. Let him be. It may be hard now, but down the line you will be thankful for this. You’re young, so use this time to discover yourself and what you want out of life.
Everybody changes and grows as a person as they age…you two are becoming different people and growing apart. It’s stupid to get involved in serious relationships so young anyway. Your teens and early 20′s is when you should be out there dating around and getting a good feel for the type of guy you’d like to settle down with in the end.
Nat, this comment actually helped me out with my own personal struggle since breaking up with my ex 3 weeks ago. Im 23 and this is just too true! I dont even know the type of guy i like or want to settle down with. Thank you for this.
You got a shitty mechanic
Move on!!!
There’s a BIG wide world o’ kawk out there.
tee hee
It’s NEVAH necessary to hang on to men who don’t care.