THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I have been on and off dating my boyfriend for two years now. He is a pathological liar, and two of his ex girlfriends still text and call him constantly. And yes, I am pathetically still in love with him and I find it extremely hard to move on. I feel like looks-wise he is the best that I can do and our sex is really really just so on-point that I find it hard to bone anyone else. He always says that he hates these ex gfs of his and that they are “ugly and fat” so I have nothing to worry about. He recently told me that when we were broken up for a bit he ended up sleeping with one of those “ugly and fat” ex gfs of his, and he also admitted to me that he would actually like to be friends with her. This particular ex gf has called me racist names before, and I’ve never fired back because quite frankly I’m not in high school anymore, or in the KKK. I have zero trust in my bf but I have convinced myself that I am in love with this person and I don’t really know what the best way to get over him is. I’m only 24 and I’ve never felt this way about any guy in my life before! I need your unbiased help! I want to know what Shayne’s opinion would be too. Loving you guys on Couple’s Therapy, Team Shnik all the way.
Your life sounds miserable. If I were you I would move out of San Jose and find out who you are? Why does your life rely on a loser?- nik