THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need your thoughts on something. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years (half of highschool & well into college). He has never cheated on me, texted other girls behind my back, etc. Never ever gave me a reason not to trust him. Last night I took his shirt off and noticed a hickey-like mark on his shoulder. I freaked out, I mean what girl wouldnt? He promised me that he didnt cheat on me and he is not sure exactly what its from. He wasnt acting defensive and did not seem to be lying. He even called his brother who he was with the past few days to vouche for him. I trust him Nik, I really do. I just don’t want to be that oblivious girl who’s being cheated on. What do you think?
I think you need to end this relationship. People who marry their high school partner end up wasting their entire lives or end up divorced. You are setting yourself up to be miserable in the future. Its time to see the world, pop that bubble like a cherry already.- nik