Does It Count As Cheating
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, my husband and I have been together for 12 years and have 3 children together. We don’t get to have sex that often because of the kids and how different our work schedules are. He has always masturbated and I’m ok with that but lately he has been paying for live Skype shows with girls, especially this one. He pays $125 for a 15 minute Skype show of her playing with herself and talking to him. I don’t know what to think of it, I was ok with it the first time, but now it has been 2 months straight of him doing Skype shows with her 2-3 times a week. Should I be concerned? Or does every man do this?
I pretty sure you lost your husband.- nik
Op..you already know that answer and do you’re self a favor get a gigolo for you’re self..I have a feeling this is a self post..
its one thing to look at porn, or to get a lap dance from a stripper once or twice in your marriage, but this is called cyber sex. im pretty sure the husband masturbates with the hoodrat on the skype show so i would definately consider it cheating. any interaction sexually with another person should be considered cheating
It’s pretty easy to hold to these conviction when you haven’t ever had sexual interaction with ANYONE, isn’t it Trev?
Having kids is the worst choice anyone could ever make!! And your husband is a loser. You shouldn’t of allowed him skyping hookers in the first place. Your family sucks.
stupid comment. if a man and a woman did not have kids how would u exist. people need to think before they talk !!!
WOW! Who would be dumb enough to stay with a “husband” that does this?
IF THIS ISN”T A SELF POST…..You should be concerned. Im borderline against porn after i have seen what it did to my friends marriage. But this is far beyond porn. I would be very concerned. Ask him to stop, see if he does what you request. If he does not, he has a problem. Im sorry you’re going through this. This type of “Porn” is too personal to be innocent.
If he is using his spare 15 minutes to jerk off instead of getting some quick nookie from you, then there’s a problem. Be assertive and replace the cam girl with yourself and give him a little show every once in a while. Hate to say it, wifey, but you’re the one who’s slacking.
yes the same chick for 2 months! thats a problem!
That is defintally cheating. Porn is not real nor interactive. Also he is paying ALOT for it and will probally start having attachments wether conscious or not.
Be mad that he pays that much , that $250-375 a week should be going to support your family …
Yep! He’s gone. U better cut up that card and cut him off then divorce him for cheating. Get credit card proof.
Not very comforting… but honest, just suck his dick & do more chores around the house…
Youre not alone but your husband does not deserve you he should be investing that extra time and 125 each show on you!!! Take him for all you can and get the f outta there babe
the good news is he cant ever complain about the money you spend. Be a suga momma and get yours
Eeeewww..wats wrong with her arm pit??,
Your a stupid bitch with no self esteem an money that could be going towards a college fund for your three children is going to some whore. You should be ashamed of yourself for standing there and lettin this shit happen. I pity your poor children.
She should ask her husband if he’s cool with her doing the same thing with other dudes on skype. See what happens.
so you’re telling me the two of you can’t find FIFTEEN MINUTES?!
Yes, that is cheating. It’s the same as if he was paying for a hooker.
Nice, what a Prince Charming. Taking food out of his kids mouths to pay for jack off sessions.
Great answer.
Seriously, if you don’t want to lose him, you need to screw him. He is already blowing money on watching a chick get off, it wont be long before that isn’t enough. Even then, it might be too late. Especially if he’s not acting interested in you anymore.
leave him hunny. If he has time to masturbate he should have time for you. Its like hes paying for a hooker but online.
Why would u let your husband pay another girl to masturbate too? I don’t care if u have kids they go to sleep don’t they? I’m pretty sure he isn’t just masturbating to Skype women he’s fucking them too.
What’s her skype name? I want a show!
That’s pretty fucked up that you were ” ok with it at first”
Grow some balls and put your foot down…that is disrespectful to you in so many ways.
what do you think honestly he spends that much money for 15 minutes and all she does is masturjack and talk dirty bitch… i apologize sweety all you have to do is get slutty change your hair and do the same thing lol he will appreciate it more maybe unless he is just bored with you
Self post looking for $
Wasting money!
The money he is using to watch her play with herself he could be putting that away for your childrens college fund
no its not normal!
you should see what he does when he is at work with his other hooker
U need a real man that can lay the pipe and if he is doing that u should do the same to show him how it feels , shifty way he is treat in u
LOL surprised you didn’t leave your email at the end of this one.
wtf! are you that stupid.he is paying a online-hooker for live shows 2 to 3 times a week! copy save record get reciepts and take that loser to divorse court or lose the weight you gain by pushing out those kids and have sex with youre husband damn!
And next on what, he will pay for sex? Masturbating – by all means, do whatcha gotta do with whatever assistance you need… But paying for sex while married (even thought its “virtual sex”) is wrong. He has definitely got away with too much already…
WOW SHE IS A 10…WHO IS THIS I WANT NAME FACEBOOK OR TWITTER IM READY TO FLY THIS GIRL TO MIAMI
Douche.
Wow are you that spineless that you can’t even stand up for your marriage? Tell that jerk to knock it off or get out! Don’t just stand around being “concerned”
Yep he’s going be fucking her before long but don’t worry about it u will find someone new
This sounds all to familiar…. My girlfriend and I also work different schedules, she has a kid as well from a previous relationship. I spent alot of time jerking off myself. However I would never pay anyone or do anything like that.
“He has always masturbated and I’m ok with that” wow what a lucky guy…?
haha i was thinking the same thing. no wonder he is cheating on her
well how do u look compared to that sloot??? with 3 kids ur vag is huge ur done….u better take his money is ur only shot to keep him….
okay, this is either a self post or a cry for help…
No, every man does not do this only perverted weirdos do. Nerd.
U need to cheat on him with a young stud. Send some nides to the dirty so we can see of u are doable
If I were you id be taking this a little more serious….just so were clear, he’s cheating on you. you really need to tell him asap how this is not acceptable and if it continues that you’ll need to find a man that will respect you. like honestly how could you be ok with this, that is so disrespectful to you AND your kids! if he wants to play with other women then he should not be in a marriage. especially when he’s using what im assuming is both of your money to pay for his whore :S i know its all on webcam but that doesnt change the fact that its cheating. you need to go have a night out, meet a nice guy and forget about your husband because if he’s ok with treating you like this he obviously has no feelings left….sorry:(
Please explain how looking at a computer, touching your own dick is cheating??? You women have lost your mind, cheating requires physical contact with another person. I would agree that this is a problem, he is wasting money for one and two, something is clearly wrong in their relationship!!!
alan your an idiot
such a typical guy
Your husband pays for sex
Your marriage is over. Start doing the same thing with dudes. If he has 15 minutes to stroke it to that wildabeast…he has 10 min to bend you over the bathroom sink before bed time.
Hot!!!!
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You go girl! If he isn’t treatin’ you right, go out n get a big man that will get it right.
I JUST BEAT OFF TO HER PICTURE RIGHT NOW.
whats your skype name? ill talk dirty to u later so u can jam a dildo in your self. we will show him!!!
That girl is smoking hot!
Girl, divorce him. What he’s doing is hurting you man. Good luck taking half his shit!
Tell him to go to liveslutcams.com he can save some money!
That is definitely cheating. That money should go to your family. Leave his ass!!!!!!
Omgsh. I would of flipped. Kicked him outta the house an tryed to burn the computer an his wedding ring. He doesnt deserve anything after payin for an online slut. What a bastard.
I divorced my husband becus instead of fucking me he was jerking off to black girl porn. Dude had a problem an he needed to go. I couldnt have children with the loser i was with.
I hope u do whats right an do whats best for u an ur children , best of luck hunny
She has a Jewish nose nice tits tho trashy not model material I would rather get free porn on the Internet I wouldn’t pay for that. She probably has stretch marks and kids. Ewwwww
Damn girl, id be worried! I’m married, just had a baby ( 9 months old) I totally understand on how its difficult to be intimate with ur spouse once u have babies. However, my Hubby and I manage to get together at least 3-4 times a week. Neways, does he still sleep with u? U should be worried if he doesn’t sleep with u that often n jerks it to the internet girl. Also, id be pissed if my man spent $125 to jerk it with a whore. Waste of money!!!
That is disgusting. She is a big fat beast. This is why women consider men pigs. Your husband is a loser. He should be spending that money on your children and if possible on nights out for you two so you can keep the romance alive. You have created three children together. You mean to tell me that while you are raising those children he is off paying for some disgusting skype show? That’s disgraceful. I’m not going to tell you to leave him but you need to step up and make it VERY clear that he needs to appreciate the life that you two have built together and get over some sick, trashy porn star fantasy. He needs to appreciate you. Let him know that if he doesn’t, you WILL leave him and he will have thrown away 12+ years and the wellbeing of his family. It’s easy to blame yourself by attributing his disgusting actions to the fact that you are busy with your kids, don’t have time, or maybe do not look the same as you did when you first met. The fact of the matter is, he is probably some lazy, beer bellied loser who spends YOUR FAMILY’S money on this mess. Not only do you not deserve this, but your children don’t deserve to grow up in a household with parents who have a possibly broken marriage. It is salvageable but you need to address this and let him know that you are still the same woman that he fell in love with before you jump ship. Men are complete morons. If he is a respectable man, once he realizes that he will lose you, he will shape up. If that doesn’t happen, then you need to move on and not look back. There is no point living a life with someone like that. You will always have this in the back of your mind and will never live the happy and content life that you and your children deserve.
What part of her is a fat beast you twat? You are most likely the fat beast snd your husband is probably cheating on you
She blames the kids and work; but the truth is, it is far more likely she got fat and puts no effort into attracting or satisfying her husband.
Haha funny how everyone is attacking this skype girl while she’s making big money. If you people calling her a whore looked half as hot as her & were making that kind of money you would be doing it too
If he’s beating off to porn in the first place, you’re probably boring. And/or fat.
simple solution, the wife should of put out more. she must be ignoreing him so he went somewhere else to get what he needs
Damnnnn she is hot, who is she?
Alan: You are right, except when it becomes an addiction, ie. it is interfering with their sex life or it is easier to masturbate than to have sex with your wife (which, in some circumstances I get that… cuz sometimes you just wanna get off and if another human being is involved you gotta worry about them lol or at least you should….but again, that shouldn’t ALWAYS be the case, if it is then it has likley become a problem).
Because it has been with the SAME woman for 2 months, I would consider that cheating… it is some type of relationship. If your wife/gf had cyber sex online with the same guy every night for months, I am pretty sure any guy would be rattled. Men like to own their pussies. There will always be a double standard. That is why marriage is a prison. Waste of a life.
Tell me that isn’t Liz Rizzo!! OMG! !
Why would you be ok with this? Im busy too honey but we get as much sex as we can. Sometimes its 2am for a couple hours sometimes its 10 min in the shower. You sleep in the same bed, if your not getting enough sex its not “because of the kids” its by choice.
yea id probably fuck her
her name is spanishgoddess
I know this chick she lives in kennesaw her name is susana pate! I didnt know she did porn! Goes to my gym!