I’m In Need Of Some Advice

December 3, 2012 Jersey 5 7,298 Views


THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, let me start from the beginning. I have been with my boyfriend since my sophomore year of high school and am now in my second year of college. He means the absolute world to me and like all couples we had ups and downs, especially as a young couple we had stupid drama. We recently broke up (he ended it) because he caught me in a lie. I said I was going to work but instead stayed home. He was furious demanded to know why and then ended it because he was “fed up”. Truth is I was going to go to work. I was ready and on my way but decided to stop and pick up a pregnancy test with my friend and it confirmed I was pregnant. I didn’t go to work and my boss fired me. I didn’t tell my boyfriend because I was not ready to tell him and didn’t know how to go about it. I later explained this to him and he is ignoring my messages. I asked if he can come with me to my doctors appointment to confirm if the pregnancy test was accurate and still no response. I don’t know what to do? I don’t know if he thinks I’m making this up, I have never done that before. What should I do? No one knows except my best friend and him. I need his support in this.

He doesn’t believe you. You need to go to the doctor alone and confirm with real paperwork to show him. In his mind you are just covering a lie with another psycho “please don’t break up with me” lie.- nik