THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need your help. I’ve started seeing this funny, sweet, handsome guy and I like him a lot. He acts how a man should… most of the time. About 2 weeks after we started seeing each other though I found out he brought another girl home but they didn’t sleep together. When I confronted him, he said he was sorry but he didn’t know where it was going with me and he didn’t think he was doing anything wrong because we weren’t together. He told the other girl the same thing and then said he didn’t think it was fair that he should only have to sleep with one girl at a time if he’s not in a relationship. After talking for a while about it, he asked if I would forgive him and if we could be exclusive. So I did and he stopped talking to the other girl completely. It’s been a couple months but I’m still wondering if I should believe him when he says he’ll never cheat. Nik whats a girl to do in this situation?? Let it get serious or leave him?
He didn’t do anything wrong. Open your heart to him and he won’t look at other women… if you stay guarded he will not be fulfilled which will lead him into another woman’s arms.- nik