My Big Mistake – Part 2
THE DIRTY ARMY: Hi Nik, I wanted to say thanks for putting up my post. Dallas is a great place to be and I do have really good friends here. But Nik it seams no one is really giving any good advice here on the Dirty. Now here we are during Christmas and I am still trapped in this relationship. One comment left on my post asked if I wanted out of this relationship and I did said yes to Amber. However there is more to it than that. When I am with my friends I tell them that I love him and all but it’s all a lie. I can’t even tell my friends the truth about how I really feel. I feel trapped with no way out. I have written this post to update my last one in my spare time and have given it to one friend I can trust and who does know the truth. She is trying to help me with this. I have ask her to post this for me. I am still trying to be anonymous from my posts but I know that will not last. And I hope you will post it soon.
I know I need to do just like you said Nik and just break up with him but I wish he would just let go and break up with me, it would be easer. So this follow up message is to say to him let go and let me stop living this lie. I find it very hard to tell him the truth about how I feel. I am just going with the flow for now. Getting past Christmas is hard. And now this relationship is getting deeper and deeper. I can’t seam to stop it with him and I feel like I am drowning in it.
I am afraid to tell my friends the truth because of what they may think of me. I want out of this relationship now before this gets any deeper. I don’t want a relationship. I am only 26 and I am not ready for any of this. I want this relationship ship to stop now!!!!!! I do have someone else I would like to get to know better. He is also a really sweet person and I see him at work in Dallas all the time. Nik I have become the one thing I hate and that is a liar. I need this relationship to stop now!!!! Please some one help me to stop this it is harder than you think. I have gotten to deep with it. The lie has to end!! I want my life back!!
When you submit Part 3 of your bullsh*t drama please include a picture of him and I will break it off for you. Thanks for the pictures of yourself, but that doesn’t help the cause. All it does is prove you love yourself and have no heart.- nik
ALSO SEE: My Big Mistake
What is this bitch going on about? I am not even going to read all that mess.
Nik hit the nail on the head…..she’s all talk no action…take action! she must be the change she wants to see in the world…out him and be honest with him and move on….
Not sure what the heck I just read. I only got 2 things from this post…
1) You’re a butterface
2) You’re fishing for Nik’s approval
I got one thing from reading your comment…you’re a cowardly sexist asshole. Frankly, she’s better than YOU.
You sound like a horrible person, I feel sorry for the current boy friend!!!
update us when shit changes instead of two posts saying basically the same thing.. ur first mistake is making him think u’re happy, now it’s going to be worse when u break up with him because he’s going to be clueless and not understand what he did. Be a bitch, push him to cheat whatever ur goal is if u can’t break it off like an adult, but don’t fake it. Be a big girl. u’ve only been dating a couple months then it shouldn’t be that hard, that’s not considered a long term relationship unless u’re whore status. But really, I think ur whole story is bullshit and it was just a way to get ur pictures posted on the dirty. A smooth way of attention whoring, or u just act like u’re 13.
I don’t understand what the problem is. Write this down: “Hey dude whatever his name is. I’ve been giving this some thought and my feelings changed ever since I got back from Cuba. I’m sorry but I’m not ready to be in a relationship right now. ” THE END! You 26 grow the eff up, you can’t please everyone and you need to do what’s best for you. Hurting someone’s feelings is WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BREAKUP! Duh!
We’ll it sounds to me like you’re just going to have to tell him you don’t want to be in a relationship.
And the fact you’re- saying you don’t want to be in a relationship yet you’re posting that you ” Want to get to know someone else” makes no sense.
You should just let the poor guy off the hook because the longer you leave him hanging the more you’re going to hurt him in the end.
:l
Lol what a dunb bitch. Why would you even post this nik???? I hate hearing girls whine about this crap. (This is coming from a girl) stfu
Nik……I agree! This bitch is beyond confused and full of drama! Get a life dear!!!!!!
Grow a pair and just end it. You’re only making it worse by being afraid of being alone.
OK *yawn*
Is this not the ULTIMATE self-post?!
(LOLs!!!)
“Waaaah, I’ve got choices in dudez.”
Wake up, who doesn’t?!
You’re only “trapped” in/by your own mind.
Lame to need Nik to do this little nugget of “Life’s Heavy Lifting” for you.
Grow a pair!!!
#dirtycourage
Youre f*cking annoying. Shut up.
Based on the cheap furniture and cheap “sexy” outfits you are a butterface. Stick with him if he is honest with you otherwise you’ll end up greasing gregs on the NASCAR circuit.
Nik, please be decided and spare us the pain of posting parts #1 & # 3 of this train wreck.
shut up and tell him its over. Its actually quite easy. Stop bothering the DA with your problems and send in a picture of your +2s
Attention whore
Stupid cunt!!!
I’m confused….theses posts are so strange lol just break up with him. Tell him you need space. I feel like you must be hiding something else Bc why are you so scared to tell your friends? If you’re not happy, you’re not happy and you are doing him a bigger disservice by leading him on…. WTF? Just break up???
I have never read so much ass wipe self post in such a long time.Bitch stop adding more drama to this entertaining site and just say its fucking over good luck bye..smfh
I did not read part 1 or part 2.. way too long of a post for my attention, but I did look at your pics. Are you interested in a week or 2 of great sex at my condo in Miami?
First off, stop dating people at work. Second organize your thoughts- your life sounds just as frazzled as your half posts. Third, where are your real friends telling to drop this dude? Fourth, if you care even a little about this dude you would step up and do the right thing and break it off with him.
You are way too hot to be a pushover this will happen to you over and over again. Embrace your hotness and take control of your life. Smh.
I want to sue you for lowering my IQ. He’d have to be deaf to want to be with you. I’m trying to think of the last time I was so annoyed with someone I didn’t know and I’m drawing a blank, congrats you win.
What is this bitch blathering on about?
Nik forgot to tell you that your body ain’t all that, attention seeker. Are fishing lures still in fashion? I had one when I was 19, ages ago.
Honey, he will probably be glad. You’re being a selfish, user bitch. Cut him loose so he can find a real woman.
Sorry girl but how about you focus on getting a good job. It looks like your bedroom can use a makeover. Aswell as your clothes. Will give you this you have a nice body. : ) no homo .
Ewwww, and her belly button looks like a washed up va-jay-jay!
What a selfish bitch u are leading this guy on and posting ur BS to have someone else do ur dirty work for u, and what’s w/ the sleazy pics of yourself?? Yea u must feel reeeeaaally bad! Lol grow a conscious u self centered biatch!!
Just grow a pair of balls and do the right thing for both of you. You are wasting yours and his time–and guess what–time is never redeemed. I don’t mean to be rude but instead of 26 you sound like you are 14. GROW UP! Your pics are lovely though. xo
Obviously you are weak. Grow a backbone and get some confidence and break up. It really is that easy. Sure you’ll feel bad but that wears off and hopefully you won’t do this dumb stuff again. Btw at 26 you should be a bit more mature than this …oh wait maybe you want the attention?
theyre not giving any good advice? theyre not giving any advice… and thats because no one gives a fuck about your bullshit relationship issues…
the original post didnt warrant a follow up… garbage
Break up with him you stupid skank. Let him live his life because I’m sure he deserves better than your skanky lieing a**.
All I can say is.. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side! If he’s a good guy then you’re lucky because there are barely any quality people left!!
Pull up your big girl panties and cut this guy loose. Like right now. I don’t get why some girls get all spineless about breaking up with someone just because it might “hurt their feelings”. So what? Life sucks, get over it, find a new piece of tail,repeat as needed. Leading this guy on will just make him another bitter douche-bag in the end and us ladies don’t need anymore of those.
Oh, and news flash for you princess, “not hurting his feelings” by not breaking up with him doesn’t make you a good person, it makes you a stupid c*nt.
Conceited and dumb. It is no surprise that she cannot handle ending a relationship in a mature manner.
Is this girl really trying to break up with a guy over thedirty? That’s cold! Some girls ( takers ) can’t handle being single and use guys as stop gaps. She’s a taker who found another guy that she thinks has more to give. Who’ll never be satisfied until she can learn to change, the takers always get bored or end up getting knocked up and being stuck in something while turning out to be bad parents because they don’t know how to do anything but lookout for themselves. I blame all the saps (sorry ass people’s) for stroking this girls ego. Never understood why guys flock around a specific girl, like they’re the one that’s going to stand out. She’s a product of saps that’s going around dating them, it’s hilarious to watch but sorry to see. Cold and calculating comes to mind when thinking about this girl. Sorry, 30 something dude from Dallas. I’m sure you thought you found a keeper but its time to throw this one back.
No one has time for this bitches ramble! I sure as fuck don’t care to read her essay on what a stupid slut she is with no self worth! What are you thinking posting this crap nik?!
You sound like a total idiot. You’ve submitted not one, but two moronic posts. Go away u retard. And stop using your drama as an excuse to post your slutty pics.
haha….damn Nik just went all out.
By staying in the relationship you are causing more damage. As more time ticks by, the deeper he becomes invested, and the more cowardly you become. You havent been together that long, six months or so. And hes 35ish, hes a grown man and resiliant. He deserves a real adult conversation especially if he is one of the good guys. And you need to grow up and behave like an adult woman. You want out? There’s the door. Suck it up and create your own happiness
All I hear is excuses: “bla bla this is too hard I have to stop it”.
Just fucking end the relationship then, you weakling.
exactly. it sounds like she’s making it easy for her, she doesn’t care about him at all.
Uh, the “seam” you’re talking about is meant to be spelled “seem”. You are the problem! You’re insane!
Wow I feel bad for your bf lmao I’m sure if he really cares and knew about how u felt he would end it OH WAIT you haven’t told him yet… Retard.
I want to have a fake relationship with you for about 35 minutes and then you can dump me….no questions asked.
So what you’re saying is… you’re trapped?
Wouldn’t he recognize your bed/bedding?
This is a no brainer.
You guys are A) not married. B) do not have any children? C) Do you even live together?
To the poster: You might be surprised, the feeling might be mutual. I’ve seen this same situation, where both parties are afraid to end it and keep putting on a show, then they finally do bite the bullet and both sides realized they were not in love with each other. I don’t understand men and women who waste time in a relationship they are not into. The energy you waste is greater than breaking it off. You clearly know what you need to do and I bet he feels the same way about you, so just be the bigger person and take the first step.
Poster:
In a few short years you will be in your 30s.
Life will change for you. You will feel old compared to the 23-26 year old crowd you seem to identify with. No matter how many vanity pictures u take, you will never capture your 20s again, nor the men that seem to be everywhere.
I speak from experience.
If he’s an “amazing” guy, just know they don’t fall from trees. It sounds like you already have decided he is not on your “level,” and only time will show you how amazing he really was. In the meantime, get over yourself. Toned tan bodies come a dime a doz.
So ur saying no1 here is giving u advice, well I’m going to. Stop this right now. If u really don’t want this get out. Don’t just lead him on. If u keep this up, I promise sm1 will do the same thing to u.
Lol! I love that this stupid broad sends in a bunch of body shot pics! Fishing for compliments? This is your big huge mistake? You sound like a bore. Same thing said over and over. While you are out to dinner he probably sits there begging for the food to come just to shut you up. If this is your problem in life, your life seems easy, self centered and redundant. Get over yourself and break up and spare us the details. Cut the poor bastard loose.
Nice pillow behind the headboard.
Sounds like she just wants someone from the dirty to offer to be her sugar daddy without actually asking for one. I’m 26, I don’t want a relationship, here are “sexy” pics of me (because apparently they’re needed in this post?). Ick. Just go be a porta potty already!
now that you’re putting pictures of yourself up here you look conceited & this whole thing looks like a ruse / farce / fake / attention grabbing scheme. and hey! it worked!
but anyway i’m going to stick to my original analysis of: FULL ON RETARD. stick to the “he’s an asshole for not letting go.” train of thought, if you keep telling yourself that dumb shit & refining it, eventually your deluded ass will believe it!
but on the other hand if i was you i’d be torn; i mean on one hand i’d want to huff paint all the time. cuz fuck it, i’m dumb as a rock anyway, might as well have fun. on the other hand i’d be worried about loosing basic skills (for you it’s abstract concepts), like following a brownie mix recipe. i mean you’ve only got a couple brain cells, and apparently they spend most of their time chasing each other around, causing you to repeat yourself incessantly.
nik don’t put up the boy friend, make this attention whore put up her own face if she wants to break up via the dirty (a.k.a. loooow). leave “nice club guy” (huh?) out of this, he didn’t bring this on himself.
Coke rant. Probably zero percent true and just fishing for Nick to “want more intel”. No pics of her face = she’s beat. And her long winded fairytale = she’s insane.
All she wants is attention so when this bitch posts her rant #3 ppl shouldn’t respond … she obv doesn’t have real friends if she can’t be honest with them (its actually sad that she’s seeking advice from total f*cking strangers … go pay someone to listen to ur dumb drama)
Just a couple of things are irking me. First of all, are you a Legacy at TCU or is your dad really rich because you can’t spell worth a darn. “Seamed”??….ugh…”seemed” is one of the easiest words in the American language to spell. TCU is about 35 to 40 miles away from Dallas, and I’m assuming you work in the Uptown area of Dallas. So you drive from Dallas to Fort Worth after you are done with your shift at the nightclub and then go to school the next day? I call BS. That’s a dangerous drive during the day much less when all the drunks are out. In your first post, you have blonde hair. In part, two you have brown hair. So which is it…a wig or are you randomly posting other chicks pictures? I’m sure every conversation that comes out of your mouth starts with ME, Me, me! What a narcissist. Grow up!
Are you 16? You sound like a child. This is Jr. High nonsense. You are an idiot. Do this guy a favor and break up with him already. It will undoubtedly be the single greatest thing you have ever done for him.
I feel sorry for you. If you are 26 and sounding like this, life (and everybody else) is passing you by.
YOU NEED TO GROW UP and catch up!!!
And your lingerie is terrible!
…and one last thing. You have a nice body. Nice….not GREAT.
And I cannot stress enough…that lingerie is terrible!
the pictures make you look like a conceited beatch, that’s for sure. also they take a lot of credibility away from yourself and the entire story. i’m kind of thinking the whole things a ruse or farce or scheme now.
but i will stick to my analysis of: FULL ON RETARD! yeeee gods you are dumb! get all good and ignant pissed that he doesn’t understand your stupid ish & break up with him. no use hiding from yourself, embrace the dumbererness.
what i’d be torn about if i was you is if i should huff paint. i mean on one hand you might as well, deep thoughts & things of a similar chord will not be your contribution to society. on the other you might not want to. i mean you only have three brain cells, & they spend most of their time chasing each other around which could be why you repeat yourself sooooo much. i hear gold and other metallics are the way to go & the pro’s use plastic bags instead of cloths.
i send y a plane ticket and y can come to sasktoon
ill get y away from him
It’s looks a little like 8belles to me….
lol yes that was me, and ya one commenter got it, I was being just a bit sarcastic.
katie rogers and jordan wildman, you are done. quit posting yourselves on the dirty. this is really pathetic!!!
Good lord. Which leads me to my next point…..Don’t smoke crack!
you’re 26 youre old do the right thing
Hey Nik that’s Jordan that works at Plush. Just find out who her man is and tell him while you’re there.