Why Does This Happen To Most Of Us Americans
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, first off this isn’t a picture of my wife and I. But it is very similar, her and I were both so good looking when we graduated high school. Now her and I have both gained a bunch of weight and you couldn’t recognize us from a few years ago. Saw this picture all over FB this past week and totally made me depressed about my life and where it is. Wanted to ask you what you think and how come this happens to most of us?
It’s because you can have sex for free. There is no cost for you to maintain a good body shape in your marriage, both of you can let yourselves go and still have sex twice a year. If you shift your diet and exercise she will get jealous and you will force her to lose weight… this will make her a skinny b*tch and will increase your sex life to 26 times a year.- nik
Ha!!! I couldn’t agree more with Nik’s statement. Being married, makes you not care how you look.
That’s bullshit. Sorry, but not everyone lets themselves go. I have heart issues in my family, and my husband has diabetes issues in his. We don’t want to have problems with that. Also, we’d like to be good examples for our kids.
U can tell by how thick their arms are from their “skinny” picture that they already were in danger of getting fat in the first place. She was chubby to begin with.. and I agree with half of what nik says. But if you drink beer a lot, eat bread and sugar a lot, then yea your ass is gunna get fatter…. Slowly but surely
Hahahahaha who lets themselves go like that tho. Don’t be a little bitch and complain when clearly you did this to yourself!! Sex 26 times a year damn that sucks. Hope I’m never a big fatty like that. And no offense they weren’t even good looking before maybe average
Did you even read the first line of the post? The photo is not of them just one he found on the internet…
Nik is being generous. It is also, due to the likely, fact that you don’t have money, power, or fame. Whether it is true or not, you probably aren’t that great looking to her either. You both are average to below average, Joe’s, if you had money, power, fame or atleast one, do you think you would have let yourselves go? No because you would have moved on or had ladies on the side. She would be staying in shape so she could keep you interested.
I also guess, that she is bigger than you and even though she is your league, you think you can get better. You are probably thinking of cheating on her too. Just a guess though.
Its because of food that you americans eat, and the way you eat it!
Maybe they’re on a lifetime bulk?
I could not agree more. My husband and I have been married eight years…part of staying committed is staying attractive and having sex regularly.
Right! It’s a big part of making a marriage work. I’ll try anything once, barring letting him poop on me, that’s way off limits! We average 4x per week, sometimes more. He works hard, he deserves to come home to a wife that is happy to make him happy, in EVERY area of the marriage. We are freakier than when we met. You don’t want your man having to look elsewhere for things you won’t do.
Some of my friends, I honestly do not know why they are even still married. I’ve had one admit to no sex in a year. Sex is so big in a marriage. It shows that you live him and want to be near him, nobody else.
Plus he digs that I get female strange once in awhile. If he wants, I’m more than happy to accompany him to the strip clubs. I get more attention than him, and he’s the one holding the money! I’m going on 20 years married. You HAVE to keep things interesting in the bedroom and elsewhere
Thats right Allie we leave the getting shat on in Dubai
I’m guessing you don’t have kids
Agree! I have been married 4 years…we work out TOGETHER in our home gym! Oh and PS ladies…if you’re “too tired”, a blowjob works wonders!
DA Strong! Xox
My husband and I have been married for 5 years…when we first got together we both promised each other we would always take care of ourselves (working out, eating right..etc etc) There are days here and there we have a pizza or miss a day or two in the gym but we both motivate each other to stay in shape. We workout together at the gym ( I do his weight training routine) and its the one hour a day we get to just do something together while our daughter is in the daycare.
Dumb question. Easy answer.
Quit eating so much and exercise.
Good Advice!….Never tell your sig other to lose!….If you start yourself… she will follow!
Nik is right on. On one has to be that way.
Your diet sucks!
I love food to but we have to feed our cells not our minds!
Young life can be a trap as I well know. Older life is a trap too.
Weight is like any other challenge. One must adapt, improvise and overcome!
Weight is about math. If you can do simple math you will lose weight.
Here is the formula. Body burns 2400 calories each day at idle. If you do something the number goes up.
One pound of weight is 3600 calories.
If you count the calories of what you eat and keep it below 2400 you will lose weight.
That’s it.
Also PH nutral is important. 7.3 keep an alkalie ash diet to preserve your cell life.
Then enjoy life and live it to the fullest.
We only have one!
I think you should make a joint effort to go to the gym together. Just say, hey, we want to be around to see our kids grow. Have grand kids, all that. Also, women are more likely to hit the gym with a partner.
Two weeks of eating clean, excercising regularly, and you won’t want to miss working out or you feel like crap. You both didn’t get there over night. Chances are it’ll be fun times with the wifey!
Because when you’re happily married you’re too busy spending time going out to dinner and cooking at home and you eat more when you’re happy. But it is always important not to let yourselves go and to keep a healthy body image to maintain your attractiveness for each other and your sex life. A normal, healthy marriage should be having sex at least twice a week.
@ BiBaby, I disagree, why not? I would want my significant other to look great for as long as possible. Especially so I can show them off.
Ahh, they are into the marriage f@%k years. What is a marriage f@%K?
When you first start going out you are f@%cking like rabbits. Under tables, in the car, public restrooms… etc.
You get married and you are still getting it on but nowhere near like the beginning but still pretty healthy and wild.
The marriage f@%K years starts after you have been married around the 5 year mark and you start to pass each other in the hall and under your breath you both quietly say F@%k You to each other.
Lose weight and get back to having the wild sex as before!
Three very crucial components of a man’s characteristics must be his confidence (self-assuredness, not some BS hot air bluster) his self discipline (basically taking care of his appearance) and his sense of humor. Unfortunately most guys let their guards down when they are in a LTR/marriage and end up a cuckold as a result.
Fat chicks have an equalizer called alcohol, meaning that when some guy is really liquefied up, she’ll end up getting laid. The sane can not be said about a fat and out of shape guy, unless he ventures into the P4P land.
Guys, just respect yourselves and don’t fall into the terrible trap of letting go of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. You do this the right way, your woman will always follow you (in a good way)
Three very crucial components of a man’s characteristics must be his confidence (self-assuredness, not some BS hot air bluster) his self discipline (basically taking care of his appearance) and his sense of humor. Unfortunately most guys let their guards down when they are in a LTR/marriage and end up a cuckold as a result.
Fat chicks have an equalizer called alcohol, meaning that when some guy is really liquored up, she’ll end up getting laid somewhere. The same can not be said about a fat and out of shape mid aged guy, unless he ventures into the P4P land.
Guys, just respect yourselves and don’t fall into the terrible trap of letting go of yourselves physically, mentally and emotionally. You do this the right way, your woman will always follow you (in a good way)
I see a lot of people who get married and end up like this. I think it’s what everyone else said, you guys get too comfortable. Not just in the marriage but with eachother. Try going on walks together
The reason is American’s are being starved for lack of nutritional food available in the market.
Agricultural Farm’s grow Product in low to no mineral/trace-mineral soils resulting in food w/o minerals. Which in turn is sold as groceries & feed for animals. Livestock farm’s use these low mineral feed pellets resulting in low mineral/trace-mineral Meat & Poultry. In turn American’s eat these products lacking minerals & nutrients leaving the masses hungry with only empty-calorie rich food to supplement with. The result is American’s filling up with enough sugars/calories for the body to convert into energy, but that’s not what the body hungers for. It’s vitamins, minerals, trace-minerals, and essential fatty-acids that the body needs to survive and to feel full.
The puppeteers do not want us healthy, wealthy, and wise. Ultimately under the U.S.Inc., they want us dead; being that when our abandoned Birth-Certificate Bonds mature and they’re able to cash in, w/ non the wiser. American’s be prepared and get informed. [ Act of 1871, Titles of Nobility Amendment, Federal Reserve Act 12/23/1913, Delaware IRS of PuertoRICO (Section 31 U.S.C. 1321(a)(62), IRS 6209 Manual, Corporation of London, Treaty of 1213, 1694 Charter BOE ]
My future wife and I enjoy working out. She’s very hot and Ive never had a problem ever getting women that most men are jealous of. You have to take care of the both of you or its just one more chink in the chain that causes marriages to fail. Like it or not, its the truth. Plus, keeping your body looking good not only increases your sex drive (for the both of you), but damn, you feel good also.
Well I’ve seen that happen to a lot of people, some who aren’t even married. Metabolism slows as you get older so you have to adjust your diet and exercise routine as your body changes. Some people find it difficult to find time to exercise because life can be hectic, long hours at work, kids, etc. and it’s definitely more convenient to eat crappy foods. However both yourself and your wife need to make your health a priority. I can guarantee if you guys made healthy home cooked meals, and did some exercise you’d be shedding a lot of that weight. It’s so easy to become complacent and stop trying. You can’t live a lazy indulgent life and expect it not to show, you don’t have a teenagers metabolism anymore! Good luck.
Because you’re both lazy fucks that want to take comfort in getting fat together. What are you going to do, leave each other for another fat person?
I stay fit so my wife stays fit and vice versa.
It’s called a weak mind nerd. Find a treadmill and walk on it. I know one thing that won’t make it better is posting some random pic of people you supposedly don’t know so the DA can rip them to shreds while you post intimate details about you and your wife’s personal life on the Internet. You suck, nerd. Are you sure you’re not from Canada?
What does this have to do with being Canadian?
I think its important both people in a relationship have similar health goals. Me and my boyfriend go to the gym together and try our best to eat healthy. If one of you is eating pizza on the couch 24/7 there is a good chance you’ll be beside him.
You both to need love each individually more, put each other health first. Marriage love won’t stop heart attacks, diabetes and sexual frustration..add cheating to it. Love your self more by eating healthier + exercise you will live longer and have a better sex life..if you can’t afford a gym membership run around and pick up some water gallons..
Woah, I can understand gaining some weight, but this is a bit much. They don’t even need to hit the gym hard, just watch your diet more.
I hate fat people…”they are lazy and slow and make me sad to look at”…!!!
Honestly, this is BS and it certainly doesn’t happen to everyone. I’ve always been petite and have always maintained the same weight- in or out of a realtionship. My boyfriend lost 40 pounds in the three years since we’ve started dating. If you have the mentality of ‘free sex’ and not having to care what you look like to get it, then yeah, you’ll end up like those two… But if you give a shit about your partner, and want to look the best for yourself AND them, then you’ll avoid this situation.
Oh dear, I’m brainwashed. The first thing I thought after “I hope this doesn’t happen to me” is Nik would’ve said she had fat arms anyway which means that she’ll get fat when she gets older or at least she will easily get fat.
That picture to me shows two people that may love each other but have completely given up on each other. A lot of people seem to forget that relationships, especially long term ones, are constant work. Think about when you first start dating someone, how much work you put into your appearance and making that person happy. That should never stop. You should constantly strive to be the ideal partner and if your significant other truely loves and cares for you, they will mirror your behavior
It’s not just marriage. Relationships alone can do this. Recently, friends of my man got married and I was absolutely shocked by the photos of the wedding. They’re both young and were slim and fit when they first met. Their wedding photos were two pasty, doughy and puffy people nowhere near attractive. I just don’t get it
Hahahahaha you Americans are Fat drug addicted losers…….
Only Country where you cna get a litre of soda with your bucket size fries and greasy slimy burger.
At least we know how to spell.
How does that even happen?? I’ve been out of high school for 6 years and I’ve only gained MAYBE 5lb.
It’s primarily because the cheapest, convenient foods contain all the chemicals that make you fat or contribute to it, minus nutrients.
IE: HFCS,MSG,Food Dyes,High levels of sugar,GMOs, Fluoride(tap water),BPA,Antibiotics,High levels of Sodium.
You gotta wonder about all this when a 100 years ago an obese person was unheard of, and yes, there was lazy people back then.