THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’ve been visiting your site daily ever since I heard of it. Noticed you’ve posted a few about relationships. Just had a couple questions for you. I’ll start off by saying I’m 23, in a newly recent relationship with someone who I was friends with for awhile first before we realized we should just date we’re perfect for each other. Before him I was single for 3 years. Maybe I sound like a creeper but I’ve just notice how many more of his girl friends talk to him more now than ever than when we were just friends. Now they constantly post on his page daily. Even though I’m young I think I’m really mature and could settle down at my age. My boyfriend lives with his friends who have a kid already and they fight once a day, but nothing ever too serious. But when he’s home he never talks to me. Then I see his friends post a picture of a liquor bottle with him tagged. He’s an all around good guy but should I find someone more on my level who isn’t surrounded by liquor and weed? It’s not about wanting attention. I can keep myself busy for days. But at the end of the day if I can keep myself happy and busy what’s the point in being in a relationship. Help.
You already know the answer, if you didn’t you wouldn’t have submitted this. Don’t waste my time or yours, he needs to go. FYI, remember he is a reflection of you.- nik