Am I Missing Something
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’ve been visiting your site daily ever since I heard of it. Noticed you’ve posted a few about relationships. Just had a couple questions for you. I’ll start off by saying I’m 23, in a newly recent relationship with someone who I was friends with for awhile first before we realized we should just date we’re perfect for each other. Before him I was single for 3 years. Maybe I sound like a creeper but I’ve just notice how many more of his girl friends talk to him more now than ever than when we were just friends. Now they constantly post on his page daily. Even though I’m young I think I’m really mature and could settle down at my age. My boyfriend lives with his friends who have a kid already and they fight once a day, but nothing ever too serious. But when he’s home he never talks to me. Then I see his friends post a picture of a liquor bottle with him tagged. He’s an all around good guy but should I find someone more on my level who isn’t surrounded by liquor and weed? It’s not about wanting attention. I can keep myself busy for days. But at the end of the day if I can keep myself happy and busy what’s the point in being in a relationship. Help.
You already know the answer, if you didn’t you wouldn’t have submitted this. Don’t waste my time or yours, he needs to go. FYI, remember he is a reflection of you.- nik
You really know how to attract the “smart” ones to your site ay Nik! Ha!
Am I missing something? This story is all over the place.
Are you sure you don’t smoke weed??
“Boys fuck shit up, but girls are fucked up.” Re: the influx of posts on his wall… so predictable. Bitches love a challenge. Don’t mind them. It should die down after you guys clock up enough time together, if you decide that’s what you want to do. If you two have been friends for so long, I’m guessing your lines of communication are relatively open. Why don’t you just talk to him about how you feel and what you want? Maybe he’s feeling ready to slow his lifestyle down, too, and getting into a relationship was the first step. Also, I’m the same way with being able to entertain myself. I don’t really get lonely and I’m an introvert so I thrive on having a little privacy. I’m living with my boyfriend and sometimes I wonder, what’s the point? I don’t NEED to be doing this. But, I just genuinely enjoy his company, and that seems like it’s enough. Good luck.
look at 23 i was all about the partying.i did have a full time job and the partying continued till i reached 35 and the light bulb went on telling me to hang it up.what i am saying it takes us men a long time to grow up if its worth it stick around and things will eventually get better or go find an older man thats been there and done all that.
Nik, your advice is solid. Please have a separate tab/blog for only real “Ask Nik” advice. Kinda like what Oprah does. And make sure you answer the questions, not some intern.
I don’t have any interns.- nik
I often wondered the same thing. Even though it says nik, who is really commenting on these posts??
nik I love you
Hooman, stop kidding yourself with this “reflection of yourself” bullshit. I understand that you hate your background and truly believe that you are white. But being with Shayne does NOT make you white. Sorry, “Nik.” Stop kidding yourself.
I would be a great intern
I know how empty and sad it is when you don’t have a nice,honest, affectionate guy to come home to but honestly this guy has no intention of settling down. 1. He’s still in the partying phase of life and not mature enough. 2. He probably loves the attention he gets from all these women friends that really just want to screw him 3. He has no interest in the relationship anymore if he doesn’t want to talk or make time to be with you. Move on
Do you need any accounting interns nik?
I have some excellent business ideas/ marketing tips.
We should talk more
I didn’t think this post would make it on this site. I feel like a f.ucking idiot now. Don’t think Nik will read my reply comment. But yeah I did know the answer. Sorry for wasting your time.