Glad I Didn’t Take The Easy Way Out
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need to thank you for saving me from a life of escorting. I was in nursing school and only had about a year left when I was ready to throw in the towel. While I was busting my butt in school, all my girlfriends from high school were out partying and traveling the world with random men that paid them. They had more money than I did, drove a lot nicer car than I did and managed to live in very nice houses by themselves. I got so jealous and started to envy them. While I was hitting the books, all they had to do is sleep with rich old men and get everything they wanted. I was fed up and ready to join them since I knew how easy it was to do it. But every time I did consider it, I would think of all the girls that are posted on TheDirty that escort and how no one really had any respect for any of them. Yes, it is cool to have things, but selling your soul for them, is not worth it. I decided to stay in school and finish what I started and not take the easy route. BEST THING I EVER DID. I love my career and enjoy helping people out, I know am making great money and getting all those things I’ve wanted. While some of my friends are stranded because the partying and drug use has deteriorated their looks and they can’t get any of those high paying clients they use to have. Thank you for bringing awareness to this Nik. PS. I knew I won when an old friend of mine called me to privately to inspect her cookie. She caught something from a St. Tropez boat trip. It’s not worth it ladies.
Quick money just leads to great stories of the past and in the end nobody cares.- nik
Are you going to do this EVERY day of the trial? These annoying “inspiring” “the Dirty.com changed my life” stories? Cut the shit Nik… And just be yourself. You’ll be fine. Deters is a fag.
Agreed the fake posts are getting pretty tiresome…
This is so true. Ladies, no amount of money is ever worth selling your soul for. I know this because I used to be in the trade. Eventually, you will start to hate life and become miserable. You will end up lonely because no one respects a wh0re, and you will have to keep your life a secret from everyone.You might have everything materially, but you will not be able to look at yourself and say that “I truly am someone”. You will be nothing but an object and your p*ssy will no longer be for pleasure, but a source of $$$ and survival. When I got out of the biz and got a legit career and lover, I felt like my life was real for once, and I could be proud and say that I truly earned it (with my brains, not my body). Nice things are so much more enjoyable when they are earned not given.
I hope your “lover” knows that you were a whore… disgusting.
So what happens when someone makes a really stupid mistake? They have to take responsibility and pay for it right? Ok cool. But then what? Eventually they have to be allowed some kind of redemption once they change. I think it’s so one-dimensional to just write someone off as a whore and completely dismiss them as a human being. What is that woman supposed to do? Kill herself? How selfish. Anyone can redeem themselves and turn their life around at ANY time. How would you like it if someone refused to forgive you or a loved one for one of your/their short comings?
Yes, as a matter of fact my lover does know. and he’s okay with it. You know why? Because its in my past! It is no longer a part of my life and I’m lucky to have survived that business unscathed and without any diseases, traumatic experiences, etc. Let me tell you, not everyone is so lucky. Not that it matters to you, stranger on the internet who doesnt know me or my life story, but thinks he has the right to judge me. If you wanna judge me go right ahead, I couldnt care less. To the other 2 commenters, thank you. I appreciate your non-judgemental and compassionate words. To the OP, you did the right thing and your future is gonna be a lot brighter and easier. There is always hope ladies, its never to late to make the right decisions and do good for yourself. If I can do it, so can you.
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m happy that you woke up and realized your self worth. I hope you can help other fragile women looking to this industry as a way out.
Well said. With that being said, anyone who t-down’s this post is a prostitute.
The sad, desperate females on this site might applaud you admitting you were a whore and the pathetic beta male you’re dating might accept it (because let’s face it, he’s a loser and can’t do any better than a former prostitute), but we both know the truth: You are a low-value woman who no real guy who has options or self-respect would ever look twice at once they know the truth about how you used to rent your snatch out to the highest bidder.
Nik didn’t save you! You saved yourself. Take all the credit for it, if your story is true.
Nik’s website is just a conduit for gossip “addicts”, eh, enthusiasts (including myself)
If you base your life on looks and material possessions you will find your late years to be pretty lonely. As you get older and your looks fade, you will find yourself extremely jealous of the younger generations and have no fulfillment or satisfaction in your own life. Base your life on your smarts, hardwork and love for others because you never know when your looks will go away. It may be when you are old but you could become sick or disfigured any time. If that happens and looks were all you had you’re in for a rude wake up call.
Congrats to OP. She fought for what she wanted in life and her hard work payed off in the end.
Aka the ugly friend who is a hater. Escorts can live happy lives too if they stay drug free and go to school. There has to be a goal for a way out. If your a dumb
Escort who is flashy, and unsafe then yeah, you’re retarted, but a lot of women use that industry as a stepping stone to pay to go to school, pay for their children to eat, and put a roof over their heads in this shitty economy. Funny
How people reward porn stars when they too sleep with people for money- but DONT use condoms, and
Probably spread as much diseases as the local slut who “blacks out” and fucks anyone who buys them drinks each night she goes out. What a joke. Looks like your a fake ass friend for
Posting this.
Um, I think it’s safe toward you’re a HOOKER judging by how upset you are over the original post. “A stepping stone for school..feeding children”..yeah, there’s other more respectful ways to earn an living. Let me guess, you leave you’re children with your mother as you’re out with your Johns? Prostitute with a heart of good over here..
“an old friend of mine called me to privately to inspect her cookie.”
You should have called me, I love to eat cookies!
Ok and your point is? Attention whore.
Someone’s life is clearly shit if their insulting a nurse that’s happy with where she is.
Ii went to college too, got myself a career, all those escorts,become parodies, junkies and lost souls, it is called dignity and self respect and that is priceless glad to see you have it!!!
What staff writer at thedirty came up with this gem? hahha
These fake advice columns are just a way to trick people into thinking that Nik’s site actually produces good when in reality it just contributes to unrealistically high standards of beauty that can only be achieve through eating disorders and plastic surgery and sometimes not even that.
Seriously. Lol
Anyway, there is one reason that I would NEVER get into escorting: My parents.
I was raised well and I’d never be able to look them in the eye if I sold my snatch for a living.
good for you, not gonna lie nice shit is always fun here and there, but thats not whats really important, its all shallow and it all gets old, don’t get me wrong i wouldnt MIND nice things but there are more important shit out there
Truest words ever spoke Nik
Thanks for submitting your story! I’m in college now, and sometimes I feel the same way when I see escorts walking around with bags of fancy stuff with their trouts. The only problem with your story is that just sleeping with someone in general (even a long term partner) can give you an STD.
Also, hookers can use their money to go to college later on…and afford it. At least we aren’t selling our souls? -_-
You needed a web site to tell you escorting is bad? You’re an idiot.
cleaning bed pans and puke at some shitty hospital at 3am on the graveyard shift for $25.00 an hour…yeah you win!
Let me guess…the government pays for your wifi, right? RN’s actually make a lot more than 25/hr and they have cna’s to clean the bedpans for them.
An RN does nothing but clean bedpans for at least their entire first year. Not to mention they make 80k tops.
Which I guarantee is about four times your salary…or else you wouldn’t be on this site
You obviously failed in English. I don’t know what you do for a living, but I hope it’s not writing composition’s because you suck hairy balls!
makes me feel alot better becuase i may not have money now but i will in the future and i will be able to sleep at night knowing im a good person who worked hard for money. Working hard for something gives it a whole new meaning and worth that these cheap women will sadly never understand. Nick keep up the good work saveing these lost souls everyone has the right to know their true worth
Good for you OP and the girl in the comments.
Good for you. There’s a billion reasons to not be an escort: the high risk lifestyle, DRDs, having no idea of what respect feels like, your reputation…but of all the things, there’s a possibility that you’re gonna get pooped on for money or shoes…. D:
Jesus, any job is better than that.
I’m 42 now and escorted from age 19 until I retired at 38. I didn’t waste my earnings on fancy crap and drugs, I invested it and I paid off a nice 3800 sq ft home. At 35, I knew I had more than enough to retire and live very, very comfortably and travel, but I found it hard to quit cold turkey and dump all my clients, so I just cut back gradually and quit my last client when I was 38 and 5 months. My net worth is north of $7 million including retirement accounts and my home, with most of that coming from accrued interest, reinvested dividends, and capital appreciation of my stock and mutual fund portfolio. I now live off the interest and dividends, which give me an AGI for 2012 at over $170,000. With no mortgage payment and two cars paid for with cash, my income lets me live very well and travel on at least 4 vacation/exploration trips a year. In 2012, I went to Taipei, Singapore, Tokyo/Kyoto, Sydney/Melbourne/Perth, Montreal, and northern Italy. This year I am taking a 54-day Cunard cruise leaving Los Angeles, then Honolulu, Pago Pago, Intl Dateline, Apia, Auckland, Tauranga, Napier, Wellington, Intl Dateline, Papeete, Bora Bora, Kahului, Hilo, Los Angeles, Pt Vallarta, San Juan Del Sur, Puntarenas, Panama Canal, Curacao, Grand Cayman, Fort Lauderdale, and then New York with a final dash to Southampton England and fly back to the USA.
If you save your money and invest it, escorting can let you retire by 40 and really kick back and enjoy the rest of your life without worry or limitation.