THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, first let me start by saying I’m DA Strong. I love what you do and completely adore you. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. I grew tired of his little lies, and just not being able to trust him. We go to college together, from high school. He’s been my life for 4 years now. Do you have any advice on how to get over this in a healthy way? It’s scary being on my own after so long, and I want to focus on myself and achieving my degree. Can you help me out?
The answer is simple, you need to transfer. The more things around that remind you of him the worse it will be… you will eventually make a huge mistake and settle back into his arms so you don’t feel pain. Time, new location and new friends heals all.- nik