My Wife Is Addicted To Smoking Weed
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I have no clue what the hell to do with my wife. We got married two weeks after high school and have been together since. We went to the same college and made it through everything. After college I started working for my fathers firm and make enough money for the both of us so she doesn’t have to work. 2 months ago she smoked weed with her girlfriend for the first time and my life has been a disaster ever since. From the time she wakes up to the time she passes out, she is non stop getting high. She loves it, but I HATE it. She has gained 40 pounds from all the food she has been eating, she stopped cleaning the house, stopped cooking and all she wants to do is get high, watch a movie and eat some nasty fast food. Every time I try talking to her regarding this, she snaps and goes ape sh*t and threatens to leave me. I don’t know what to do, I love her and want to have kids and be with her for the rest of our lives. But I don’t know how much more I can take with the weed smoking and weight gain. What the hell can I do Nik? I didn’t realize weed is such a bad and addicting drug.
You need to leave her and find a real woman. Stoners are not forward thinking people, they use the weed as an excuse to escape as if time stands stills. Progression is the key to life and the key to family. Don’t let her stop your life from progressing.- nik
THe mistake is not letting your wife work. She has too much free time. Good luck..never let a women be a housewife..women needs to work to be productive in society.
I agree, sorta. Everyone (women AND men) should work, to keep themselves out of trouble and contribute to society.
But when a family has little kids, then I submit that a stay-at-home mom, if not stoned, is a better alternative than expensive, mediocre day care.
Divorce before you get equity in your dad’s business and you have to either give her a portion of it or pay her the value. Divorce her before you have kids with a stoner. Run…
Marijuana is an awesome drug that keeps stressed people from murdering their spouses. its not addictive, illegal, expensive, u cant overdose. It makes u happy and opens up Ur creativite self. some become lazy or tired. Ive been a smoker for years and my house is always kept clean and I keep great care in my husband and his needs. Ur wife sounds like shes taken advantage of u and seems to be testing Ur patience. There’s a way to enjoy smoking with out Forgetting about your top priorities.
Op your wife is one of the few who do not know how to use pot responsibly
On that note… Cut off her money supply… Intervention?
Hell… I would even guess the weed she’s been smoking is laced with a chemical drug… Because honestly this is not normal stoner behavior.. It seems the few negative things about it have been amplified
very common for for stay at home wives. Give them nothing to do and this is what happens. You said she went to college so she is capable. If she was working this probably wouldnt have happened.
Fuck this shit. I smoke weed everyday and I work full time and I’m in my last semester of grad school.
ya i would probably smoke weed too if someone had me stuck in the house all day.
women that dont work are bored and to be frank the weed is probably the least of your worries.
Bahaha, weed according to Nik. Nik, why don’t you look at any musician worth anything over the past 50 years, Hendrix, Lennon, Jagger, Ozzy, pretty much all the greats. All of them smoked dope. Not forward thinking my ass……this guys wife is just lazy. Just because you can’t handle pot doesn’t mean you have to be a biggady bitch about it the whole time.
you can smoke weed and still be productive Nik so stop bashing what you know nothing about.
For real, its just weed. The problem is the dudes lazy no job wife. Lucky guy even had a job lined up it sounds like lol. Just get a trophy wife and not say shit. Jeez
I love smoking weed and cleaning the house making food for my man. I love cleaning while stoned. Sir, your wife is just lazy. I don’t drink alcohol and my husband doesnt really smoke. I am always the designated driver. So not all stoners are lazy losers. I bet for fact my house is cleaner I’m a better housewife then any drunk. Each their own… your wife sounds super depressed… you should go to therapy if you love her
amen “smokey” im the same way. who wants to work for the man when you can work from home, run a household, and smoke/ drink a mimosa while doing so. i dont have to deal with idiots at some mind numbing job or the traffic commute that would make one think about going postal on a daily basis. my man works hard all day while i chill at home relaxing every day. cleaning the house and having a five course martha stewart dinner ready when he gets home gives me something to do around my online business and redecorating the house. anyone that says they wouldnt want to work from home, and make the same if not more $ than they make now is lying. no one tells me what time to wake up, i dont have to go to bed in fear of being tired the next day. i love not being a slave to the clock. i love having my morning bowl (i dont drink coffee so u caffeine heads are addicts too) with my DA army. i love being able to choose whether to work or paint on my new laundry room – all while im making money with my online store. how many people can say they have two degrees, two houses, a 9 year successful online business and a good life all while smoking weed? and all before 30? weed does make some people lazy tho, but she was already lazy to begin with. p.s. is that the op’s wife in the pic??? cause she seems to have a job already as a stripper, so um whats really goin on
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Good for you!
Amen!!
Gateway drug. From one pipe to a meat pipe.
I know plenty of people who smoke weed on a daily basis and or even before they go to work and make more money than nik would ever see in his life. Either you have drive or you don’t. people who smoke weed and don’t have drive become dead beats, but those who smoke and have drive it does nothing to effect their ability to think forward. It is a case by case basis, you can’t group all weed smokers together. if you wanna group people together than because you are of middle eastern decent nik you are a terrorist?
thank you that needed to be said
haha Well said!
no comment on this nik?
This guy is not going to divorce his wife. He sounds whipped on all levels. The fact that she gained 40 pounds in two months would make me give her the boot. She is not worth the time and headache, but we all know you are going to stay with her ass regardless what anyone says. She does not give or show you respect, so why should you give it in return to her. I think your wife was like this before you met her and even during your marriage. Does she have big boobs and was she slim at the time? Is she freaky in bed? You have to look at all the pros and cons for staying with her.
Weed is not “bad” or addicting. Your wife is going through a phase and there is no way that she gained 40 lbs in 2 months. If she was hitting the bottle every early morning ’til she passed out, that would be worse.
Nik, despite the fact that youre an ahole, your advice is usually spot-on. But wtf is your vendetta against pot? You think clubbing, getting drunk, slutting yourself out and working hungover is ok but weed smokers cant be successful? Must be the AZ coming out in ya because CA is full off nothing but succesfull pot smokers
Yup!
It sounds like she’s depressed.
i used to be the same way as your wife. smoking all day and eating shit food. all she needs to do is find a hobby she likes. and to not sit around because to much free time is a stoners weakness it will eat there life away.
i use weed to ENHANCE life, not escape!
Let me fuck her and take her off your hands
RUN!!! Potheads are losers to the core!!! She will drag you down, end it before its to late!!!
It’s *too. Even stoners have better grammar than non. Tough break, I know.
He said we’re losers….hahaha….you gave me a stoney grin!
Ur a dick
Yet Nik thinks it’s productive to go out to bars and get wasted. Drinking and smoking weed are the exact same, a break from reality that when used in moderation is ok but used daily will lead to problems most of the time.
I’m calling BS on this post. No person who has smoked weed for 2 months can gain 40 pounds. Even if you ate McDonalds for 2 straight months you prob can’t gain 40 lbs.
Forward thinking? How closed minded of you Hooman, You know me I own a Extremely successful Business that employes over 60 people and I have my Green Card . I have always smoked and am more successful than anyone I know. I think it is very helpful for adults with ADD to slow things down and focus. Just because you don’t do it or cant handle it doesn’t mean other more strong minded people cant.
send her to me, I’ll get high with her and fuck that 40 pounds right off her lol
This guys an uptight bitch lol!!
Fake story bro.
Nik usually I agree with your comments but this is not always the case. I smoke weed every day however, I am in law school, work out almost every day, and am progressing my life at all times. Weed can kill people’s motivation and drive but it doesn’t always, there are positives to it as well.
Nik you have no authority on this matter, hence, your advice was a complete failure. You are an alcoholic who supports a worthless “housewife” who does not properly manage her own household. Millions of people use marijuana RESPONSIBLY on a regular basis. These people are capable, productive members of society. Perhaps you should smoke or vaporize more often, then you would at least have some notion of what you were talking about and you wouldn’t make such asinine comments.
i smoke pot, but only at night ( at the end of the day ). i lived a stoner life before but i stopped because it just makes you paranoid and you are nothing but a tool because of it. if your gona smoke pot you better know how to control it, or you’ll end up llike this lady. you can talk about marijuana use blah blah blah, but this lady smokes too much and she gona get dumped cuz her dumbass cant see whats up.
You know I’ve had bead anxiety since I can remember. Doctors have been putting me on Xanax, cloniprin, effoxxor…. I stopped taking all that shit! Now I smoke if I’m stressed or cant sleep or want to have a nice time. This is a plant naturally grown. I’ve never felt healthy getting off the pills and getting on the pot. This is 2013 come on with your broad strokes of ignorance and prohibition
Personally I think the story is fake, however id its real let her go.
If she threarens to leave u over pot tgan how much can she really love you..?
She loves weed more than you, either start smokin or leave.
Your wife sounds bored and depressed, and you sound like you are very quick to judge and emotionally unsupportive of her. Ask her to look into seeing a therapist, encourage her to find a part time job, even. It drives me up the fucking wall when people think that just because their partner is going through a rough time and they don’t know how to properly deal with it that it warrants a divorce. A marriage is constant work, not a free pass that tells others you’ve worked through the dating and if for some reason someone in it slips up, there’s no going back to fix it. UGH.
I find interesting that Nik is the first person to tell someone to leave a person because of their issues YET he was the one running to a reality show like a little bitch to save his own mariage.
Not all women who smoke weed are worthless. I hold down a full tome
Not all women who smoke weed are worthless. I hold down a full time sales job and take care of my husband. I smoke after work everday. Be happy shes not an alcoholic.. that’s way worse for you mind and body.
My ex-best friend became exactly like your wife, but in my friends case she had a long history of addiction in her family. She was also very spoiled growing up so the lack of drive was there long before the weed habit started. Does your wife have a history of addiction in her family? because that might explain it. It also sounds like she’d bored and depressed so you should have a good serious talk with her about it and maybe encourage her to get a job so she isn’t sitting around all day.
I smoke, work full time, and keep a clean house. Some people are just lazy and it’s easier to blame the pot than to admit they’re useless. I’d rather be smoking pot than drinking, acting stupid and let’s not forget alcohol also causes weight gain when used in excess amounts. Last I researched, marijuana doesn’t kill you. Despite what we were brainwashed to believe by our society, there has not been 1 death reported which stemmed from the consistant use of weed (for the thousands of years pot has been around). However thousands of people die every year due to alcohol.
my advice to the OP would be to write a letter to her explaining your feelings, cut off her money supply, and get her into Narcotics Anonymous. If she refuses, leave her. YOLO
Yolo? How old are you, 12?
Every morning I get up, get my daughter up. Dress her cute. Comb her hair cute w/ bows. Make breakfast. See my husband & daughter off to work & school. Then I make some coffee & smoke a bowl. All I do is clean. Do dishes. Laundry. Workout. Prepare dinner. Yes, I don’t smoke throughout the day but I do smoke. This poster’s wife sounds like a lazy bitch. I have thought (God forbid) if there’s an emergency at my daughters school. What if I’m stoned? I would snap out it so quick. There is such thing as a productive stoner. I’m living proof. The only thing I do that doesn’t make sense is the working out while high. It’s kinda weird but at least I workout. My high usually goes away 15 min into working out. I also work in my garden & scrapbook. Poster, divorce your wife.
Working out while high helps endurance for some people
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Potheads should burn. You potheads are losers.
ur an idiot.
Weed aint addictive hun, your wife just has too much free time and doesnt know how to make the most of it. People who say theyre ”addicted” to weed are idiots. Try being addicted to heroin, crack or meth then we’ll talk!
Fake!!
Did you not take a vow before God to stick by your wife through better or worse?….well this the worse part. She needs your help and leaving her because she doesn’t have her life in order is a cop out and a punk move. Man up and help your wife. It has only been for 2 months for crying out loud….
Your wife dresses like a street walker
i hate when people blame weed. i have a FT job. school with an A average, my degree is veterinary technology so its not like its easy and i get all my bills payed. im an OCD clean freak and take care of my shit. this bitch just got plain lazy. dont blame the plant
that is such a copout!!! but i do agree some shouldnt smoke 
weed isnt a bad and addicting drug. its your stupid bitch of a wife who has no self control
Thanks Nik! I love your advice here! Every man I date seems to be a stoner. I on he other hand don’t do any drugs or smoke. i barely even drink! Now that I am looking for something serious.. if I catch my bf using his money on that crap again.. I’m gone!!!
I don’t think this is a real story. She gained 40 pounds in two months? Really? I smoke weed at night and I am a very productive member of society. I have a career and am working toward my master’s degree. I am also married and I live in a clean house. Weed doesn’t change someone’s personality that much. It’s not like it’s heroin.
Nik, you’re a moron. I’m a regular smoker yet I run my own business. Marijunana hasn’t stunted my strive to succeed in life. It helps me get through the stresses, so I am able to keep on progressing. People who use it as an excuse were worthless slackers to begin with.
Nik’s advise is disgusting. Anyone who feels you should leave your spouse because of a problem, no matter how severe, that has only existed for TWO MONTHS doesn’t deserve to be married themself. What ever happened to sacred vowes?
Shouldn ‘t the advice be to confront and offer to help her? That is what any decent person would do. Help her through her problem? It’s obviously a sudden and reversible problem; its not like she has been this way for years. Sheesh!
On another note, I’d take a fat, lazy, stoned housewive over a vapid, bitchy, superficial airhead any day. (ahem, Mr. Richie)
its funny how you judge people but on your wife’s instagram pictures there are some where she has coke still in her nose……check your wife Nik! the pic with Paris Hilton zoom in and check the rim of her nose…..COKE HEADS dont change……that why you guys need counseling…..she probably secretly hates you because she wants to party and you dont want to….but she needs you to be a lap dog and take care of your child……the evidence is there in pictures on her instagram i dont know how you could have not caught that……drug test her if she loves you she will do it……
So what does Shayne do around the house all day Nik? I bet she’s never picked up a vacuum or done a load of laundry in her life. She just leeches off of you. She’s got no drive to do anything other than shop. Weed only effects your drive if you aren’t a very driven person to being with. I work and go to school full time and am starting my own home business and I smoke weed every night! Get Shayne on the weed and guaranteed she’s be just like this guys wife.
Weed isnt making her unproductive and lazy. Shes going to do that anyways.
I think my thoughts should be read too…..
To each their own every person is different and responds in a unique way. Good or bad, every response is different. It is a person’s responsibility to know their body and their self to know what each substance does to them. Everything in life has an effect on a person. The information you absorb, the food you take, any sort of medication or vitamins, even drugs. Everything affects each person differently.
Take prescription drugs as an example. When used correctly there are major therapeutic advantages. But in the hands of an irresponsible person those same “good” drugs become “bad” drugs, because those people do not know how to use them responsibility.
It doesn’t help to try and make a person feel bad, when they probably already feel bad about life. Chances are there is underlying problem going on in their life that they cannot make sense of. Which could cause a person to feel like they need to “escape” from life? If it’s a bad choice they are making in life, come to them as a friend with a helping hand. But if those people refuse to believe there is a problem, you cannot force them to see the error of their way. That is a useless battle, and both usually end up being more hurt.
And maybe the error is not in their life. Maybe it’s a compatibility problem. Each person has their own perception of a “good” and “bad” – and that is a product of the unique experiences that people have in their life. And no matter how close you are to a person you will never know their full life experience. This is why we all have different beliefs. And even if groups of people have the same beliefs as one another, they did not all derive from the same way. We end up in different areas of life differently from each person, even if the destination is the same. Each person gets there a different way, with different experiences along the way. We need our life experiences to learn from. Many of them though can be learned from others mistakes. If we look at them with an open mind, instead of trying to demonize the “bad” actions we can relate that information to our own life and maybe prevent the bad reaction from actually happening to us. Use others bad examples as eye openers for ourselves. Many times we can catch the mistakes and prevent it from spiraling out of control.
Now to the poster – It would probably be most beneficial to your own life if you would discuss your feeling with your wife. If you came to the internet looking for advice on how to deal with her, the best advice is to actually deal with HER. She is the only one that can offer you any incite on her thinking and decision making. If this is ruining her life and yours, and you care about her enough to want to help her out of it then I suggest that you sit down have an open heart discussion on the issue and deal with this in an adult manner between husband and wife.
But if she does not see anything wrong with the way she is. And fails to thoroughly explain her actions in a way that is understandable to you then you should not be in that sort of relationship. People change all the time; we are fooling ourselves if you think that life should always remain the same. Good or bad everything will change. Condition yourself to not be so alarmed when these things do change, and stick to your core beliefs (which every person has unique beliefs). But remember to be understating because there is no TRUE definition of “good” and “bad” – “right” and “wrong” there is only living, experiencing, and understanding. And empathy! The world needs to learn empathy!
I believe our world problems could be solved if we do not place our focus on the differences, but rather accept and learn from one another. Empathy helps, because if we put ourselves in the other person’s shoes (metaphorically) then it could be possible to understand better where they are coming from. We wouldn’t have so many hurt feeling, which cause a reaction in others. The fight or flight response is ever present in our society. We should not lull ourselves into a false sense of security, where we are trying to convince ourselves that one day we will all be the same. But accept our differences and work on our compassion for one another. Our lives are short, with no real intended purpose other than to experience and live it. Let’s try to make is good for each other. And if we can just not get along, move on and ignore it.
I agree with Nik on the fact that progress is the key to life. His comment was a big ignorant in the generalization of “stoners” – (our human brains are fascinating, in the way we tend to “group” things and organize information.) But there are many doors and many keys, and as in life every key is different for each door. Choose your door, find your key, and please try to remember the empathy!
tl;dr
Nik, I disagree with you. I went to college, worked throughout college and now have a full time job and have smoked weed since I was 19. While everyone else in college was getting drunk having unprotected sex I was smoking weed and going to bed early! Anyways I’m a stoner who is consistently moving forward in life and helping people throughout the way. The key is moderation!
To each their own every person is different and responds in a unique way. Good or bad, every response is different. It is a person’s responsibility to know their body and their self to know what each substance does to them. Everything in life has an effect on a person. The information you absorb, the food you take, any sort of medication or vitamins, even drugs. Everything affects each person differently.
Take prescription drugs as an example. When used correctly there are major therapeutic advantages. But in the hands of an irresponsible person those same “good” drugs become “bad” drugs, because those people do not know how to use them responsibility.
It doesn’t help to try and make a person feel bad, when they probably already feel bad about life. Chances are there is underlying problem going on in their life that they cannot make sense of. Which could cause a person to feel like they need to “escape” from life? If it’s a bad choice they are making in life, come to them as a friend with a helping hand. But if those people refuse to believe there is a problem, you cannot force them to see the error of their way. That is a useless battle, and both usually end up being more hurt.
And maybe the error is not in their life. Maybe it’s a compatibility problem. Each person has their own perception of a “good” and “bad” – and that is a product of the unique experiences that people have in their life. And no matter how close you are to a person you will never know their full life experience. This is why we all have different beliefs. And even if groups of people have the same beliefs as one another, they did not all derive from the same way. We end up in different areas of life differently from each person, even if the destination is the same. Each person gets there a different way, with different experiences along the way. We need our life experiences to learn from. Many of them though can be learned from others mistakes. If we look at them with an open mind, instead of trying to demonize the “bad” actions we can relate that information to our own life and maybe prevent the bad reaction from actually happening to us. Use others bad examples as eye openers for ourselves. Many times we can catch the mistakes and prevent it from spiraling out of control.
Now to the poster – It would probably be most beneficial to your own life if you would discuss your feeling with your wife. If you came to the internet looking for advice on how to deal with her, the best advice is to actually deal with HER. She is the only one that can offer you any incite on her thinking and decision making. If this is ruining her life and yours, and you care about her enough to want to help her out of it then I suggest that you sit down have an open heart discussion on the issue and deal with this in an adult manner between husband and wife.
But if she does not see anything wrong with the way she is. And fails to thoroughly explain her actions in a way that is understandable to you then you should not be in that sort of relationship. People change all the time; we are fooling ourselves if you think that life should always remain the same. Good or bad everything will change. Condition yourself to not be so alarmed when these things do change, and stick to your core beliefs (which every person has unique beliefs). But remember to be understating because there is no TRUE definition of “good” and “bad” – “right” and “wrong” there is only living, experiencing, and understanding. And empathy! The world needs to learn empathy!
I believe our world problems could be solved if we do not place our focus on the differences, but rather accept and learn from one another. Empathy helps, because if we put ourselves in the other person’s shoes (metaphorically) then it could be possible to understand better where they are coming from. We wouldn’t have so many hurt feeling, which cause a reaction in others. The fight or flight response is ever present in our society. We should not lull ourselves into a false sense of security, where we are trying to convince ourselves that one day we will all be the same. But accept our differences and work on our compassion for one another. Our lives are short, with no real intended purpose other than to experience and live it. Let’s try to make is good for each other. And if we can just not get along, move on and ignore it.
I agree with Nik on the fact that progress is the key to life. His comment was a big ignorant in the generalization of “stoners” – (our human brains are fascinating, in the way we tend to “group” things and organize information.) But there are many doors and many keys, and as in life every key is different for each door. Choose your door, find your key, and please try to remember the empathy!
Get a life
Thank you for posting my comment. Didn’t have to be twice, I just thought it was some valuable insight that may help others. Much appreciated!
STOP BLAMING WEED! I smoke and I work 60 hours a week. Not everyone gets baked and sits around doing something. I’m bipolar and smoking puts me in a good mood which subsides my anxiety. This guy’s wife can’t handle her shit so she shouldn’t do it. It’s like alcohol. Some people can drink everyday and function where others blackout, fight, f*ck strangers,end up in jail, and commit numerous crimes. Don’t blame marijuana because something is lacking in your relationship that she’s trying to fix with by getting high. Check yourself
40 pounds in 2 months?! if this story is even real, holy f*ck smack the food out of her hand! weed gives you munchies but it doesn’t always turn you into an obese slob. this women is out of control lol get her some rice cakes.
All of the weed defenders here sound insecure and overly defensive. True, Nik shouldn’t generalize, but stereotypes exist for a reason. Typically, pot makes you lethargic and hungry. Excessive smoking in severe instances (as described above) could definitely yield these outcomes. THC is not a physically addictive agent, but humans form addictions/habits for other reasons. That’s why obese people are obese – they’re addicted to food. It may be for coping, or comfort, or self mutilation, who knows. But you don’t need to run around all defensive like, “Hey! I eat food! Does that make me a fat ass, Nik?! You terrorist!!”
I smoke weed. It’s great! But it makes me horribly lazy and insatiably hungry. So I limit it to at nights, on rare occasion only. Some people handle it better, some don’t. So all of you defending weed by your own ability to tolerate it are actually generalizing worse than Nik! Quit glorifying it and admit that your are a lucky person who is able to function on it better than most, and that some people should probably do without if it makes them lazy slobs. Especially if it negatively effects their health and marriage, like in this instance.
I know more successful pot smokers than I do unsuccessful ones. They all hold down full time jobs, go to school and support themselves entirely. The stereotype of a pot head is some lazy bum who sits in his parents basement all day getting high and watching stupid movies. I’ve met MANY pot smokers in my day and there is only 1 ive met that comes to mind who fits the stereotype. The majority are just regular, everyday people who work hard and enjoy some green. So I dont consider myself “one of the lucky few” because there are fewer smokers that fit the stereotype than there are smokers who don’t.
is that courtney stodden
There is a time and place for everything. If it’s a part of your daily or weekly activity you might want to give some thought to where your life is heading.
You do know that some of the most successful people on the planet smoke regularly right? Some of the most successful people I know personally smoke all the time. Weed only leads you down a bad path if you are a lazy person with no drive to begin with. Don’t give your opinion on something you obviously know nothing about. You’ve got the stereotype of what a pot smoker is ingrained in your mind from the media and what you’ve been taught in school and by your parents. News flash: they were all wrong.
Put your foot down tell her stop the weed or hit the road chubs
STFU NIK, I SMOKE WEED EVERYDAY AND I AM IN COLLEGE AND WORK 2 JOBS, 3 DIFFERENT CAREERS AHEAD OF ME, I LIVE ON MY OWN. COOK CLEAN EVERYDAY JUST LIKE A NORMAL , AMBITIOUS NON SMOKER, SO BEFORE YOU JUDGE PUT YOURSELF IN SOME ONES SHOES
Yeah ok I have been smoking weed for 8 years straight now……I look good and am a functioning member of society lol. Alcohol makes you fat and lazy give me a break…..your wife just sounds like a lazy spoiled bitch if you ask me. I work a full time job, own a home, and am not the least bit fat…..you people on this site make me laugh at your ignorance!
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Haha funny story. Ive been smoking for 15 years and my man hates it! I wish I could find a pothead like me.
Why the FUCK is she not working? You have basically told your wife “Hey be a lazy ass and do nothing all day”. Now if you had kids, this would be different because being a stay at home mom is very hard work..but you allow her to not work because she is too lazy? Hell no. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, tell her she either needs to stop smoking weed or you are leaving her. A lot of people can smoke weed and still be productive. She is just a spoiled bitch and you should kick her to the curb. “She threatens to leave me” bye bitch, she obviously doesn’t love you if she is choosing weed over her HUSBAND. She is too immature for marriage . Save yourselves and just leave her before you accidentally get her pregnant.
You’re all fucking stupid. I’ve made it through a year of high school with all A’s smoking weed, moved on to four years of college, graduated, smoking weed, all with honors, and now I’m doing great in a masters program in Bio…all smoking weed. Never been arrested, never let it run my life. Grow the fuck up
cause she’s a big ole girl! what happened to her hair? did she electrocute herself by accident?
I love hearing from loadies about how weed doesn’t affect their thinking and in fact helps them. If it doesn’t permanantly alter your brain, in a bad way, tell me why I can spot a loser pothead after 20 seconds of talking to them? They’re just not all there and they’re slooooooow. Pot is the most useless drug. And good luck getting a corporate job all you pothead college kids. It’s frowned upon in the big leagues. Now go smoke and think, “yea man, weed helps man.” While the rest of us make real money. (And I don’t care if some of you potheads were lucky enough to stumble into your own business or happened to land a decent job. You’re one of the very few.)
It’s just weed, who gives a shit? lol
Send her my way you chump!
My ex was addicted to smoking weed. It’s not common but it can happen. If she wasn’t high I couldn’t be around her, she was downright violent. She cheated on me with a guy so he would give her weed when I stopped giving her money for it. Eventually had to leave her, she wouldn’t stop no matter what. Got knocked up by her dealer and smoked all through the pregnancy. Poor kid.
If she doesn’t want to quit, you have no option but to get away from her.
I am a fulltime college student and mother of one. after doing about 5 hours of homework a day, cooking a meal, playing with, bathing and caring for my son, i put him to bed and i will sneak out back for a doobie. but i agree that it should never take over ones life. however, it also has positive effects when used responsibly and in moderation (for some people) i also get top marks in my classes.
Be grateful she isn’t smoking meth or shooting up. Quit being a pussy and give her an ultimatum if it bothers you that much. She does sound depressed and bored and I really don’t think it’s the weed causing problems.
NOT AN EXCUSE!!
you can be successful at life, even staying at home.
she should be in the gym taking care of her body insted of messing it up…
everything is good in moderation, she still has not learned…
i was 19 and days away from my death bed. meds werent helping nothing was helping. im 22 strong and no where near as sick as i was thanks to weed, im in college and work very hard. ignorant ppl who place judgments and assumptions about certain things without stepping out of the box they live in and understanding that different strokes work for different folks are just plain ignorant and unable to put themselves in other ppls shoes.
Yea dump her so I can bang her everyday when I get home
You stupid fuck, you can’t get addicted to weed. I have a friend who was fine and normal then he quit smoking, his doctor then put him on meds and now he’s in a mental institution. He claims disability and is unable to function as a result of not smoking weed. There is nothing to show marijuana is harmful, in fact studies show your iq increases. His is 163 by the way.
Leave your pot smoking wife alone .she probably can’t stand your stupid ass and that’s the only way she can keep her sanity. by the way pot smoking might make you a little tired but there’s no reason your house shouldn’t be clean. I smoke pot all the time and my house is not dirty. in fact he should be into cleaning even more stoned! So I think she just found something more fun than yourself!