An Original Sugar Baby Turned Law Student
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I stumbled upon Seeking Arrangement about 6 years ago, when I was 18 (yes, it’s been around that long). I was a freshman in college, which was attended by many people that came from money. Girls showed up to class with expensive Chanel bags, and seeing brand new Porsches parked outside school buildings was the norm. I come from a normal, working class background and was super jealous and wanted to be like them. Seeking Arrangement popped up as a banner ad, and I clicked out of curiosity. The first guy I met was a normal, lonely middle aged guy that worked for Fidelity. We hung out for about an hour, and I made $300. What a freakin’ score in my mind, and I became hooked on the fast, easy money. Over the course of the next 3 years, I was raking it in. I met two legit, wealthy guys that gave me a lot of money and helped finance trips, bags, clothes, and a luxury lifestyle. I also saw others on the side. I knew how to play these guys like a violin, knowing exactly what to say, and playing up the struggling college student card. Some of the things I did made me want to puke, but I did it all with those designer sunglasses that I would purchase the next day in the forefront of my mind. When I sat down one day and estimated how much money I made, it came to about $300,000, enough to have bought a house at the age of 21. Instead, it all went towards Ed Hardy clothes, fake boobs, Fendi bags, and now broken sunglasses. I decided to attend law school after college, and had about $30,000 saved at the time. During that time I met an amazing guy whom I told about my past. He helped wean me off of the drug I was addicted to- Seeking Arrangement. Yes, it’s like a drug- getting that money and thinking about you are going to buy with it is so intoxicating. You buy your sh*t the next day, feel crappy, but then start craving the easy high soon again later. It’s a vicious cycle. I’ve been “sober” for about 3 years now, and am about to graduate law school soon. While I do not regret what I did because it helped put me in a position to attend law school and taught me a lot about life, men, and myself, there are still deep emotional scars that will never heal. Being used solely for a man’s pleasure in exchange for some quick cash kills your soul. Maybe not right away, but years of accumulation causes you to crash after a while, as I did. Girls, there is NOTHING wrong with finding a guy with money that loves and respects you, but stay away from pay for play. Go to college and make a five year plan. Do not let these posts or stories of girls make you feel like you are missing out. Feel free to post my email address. I’d be happy to respond open and honestly to questions about the sugar baby lifestyle. There’s a lot more to say than what I posted, but wanted to keep it concise.
If you have a question for this lawyer lady please ask it in the comment section. This is like a free educational seminar.- nik
what’s her e-mail address, I’d like to ask her a few things……
How much did you charge for p2p? Sadly, there are too damn many cheapos offering $300 max ugh
Did you use a face pic or not?
Just FYI:
Many men on SA give prospective SBs something like 300 bucks for their first encounter as a token of good gesture. This initial “sugaring up” may not necessarily be for any immediate P4P, but just a compensation for hanging out.
That is also the vibe I got from reading about the OP’s easy 300 catch.
I’ve had that happen only a few times sadly, one SD insisted on giving me cash after a 30 min dinner to prove that he was real which was a nice bonus considering he had a great personality…
A lot of guys will just take you out to dinner and chat it up, ugh. I’d rather not spend 3 hours eating only to find out there’s no compatibility.
by the way, I meant there are too many damn guys offering $300 as allowance.
Sorry to break it to you but once a whore always a whore. Thinking that no one in the corporate world is going to find out about your past is plain delusional. Have fun being stuck at a 30k job because whoring is one hell of a skeleton in the closet that doesn’t stay there.
How do you figure anyone will find out? Like he’s gonna tell on her? Most people dont include pics on their profiles. C’mon. Discretion is extremely important to these men.
The dirty should have far more posts like this. Everyone should have a plan. Thankyou to the op for writing this
fake. fraud. lies.
What were the things that you had to do that wanted to make you puke? Please tell…..
from cock sucker to blood sucker. this chick will just carry over her talents of manipulation into the law firm/court room. lawyers are crooks with a degree. as you can tell by OP’s use of the english language, she’s educated but not intelligent. she better keep her man claws very sharp she’s gonna need them in life. and the moral to this story is: i was a whore for cash and clothes but saved enough for law school and now i’m a better person. but oh yeah “girls” don’t let my whimsical story of how i got everything i wanted by just f’ing over guys make you change your life’s course. stay in school.
pft. weak ass b*tch
As a guy who knows a few sugar daddies and babies, I have to say that this lady nailed it. Huge props to her for writing this.
I’d like to contact her if possible. If the OP sees this, can you please tell me a way to contact you? I may e-mail Nik and see if he can contact you and pass along my email to you.
Again, thank you for posting this.
Well, good advice and here comes the BUT…
I have never actually talked to Scooby Treat Person or Twat Transfer but I doubt they, and others like them, have the ability to open and read a book much less understand law, or medicine or physics so they are probably right where they should be.
Ha ha..you are so right. Like that South Park episode called ‘Raisins’.
nik richie has to have complete control over everything. doesnt want to give out her email, you have to do it through him. oh and he is too much of a bitch to let us post comments without “his approval”. nik shouldnt you be spending your time being a dad rather than endlessly scrolling through what people are saying about others that you have absolutely no idea about. i bet you probably wont even approve this comment, god forbid we say anything against you. ps. your daughter is ugly
Lay off the kid, good grief.
Shame on you for bringing a precious babygirl into an argument. You can go shave your back now.
nik you should have never breeded.
It’s actually ‘bred’ dear. You may want to learn a decent vocabulary before you suggest that others shouldn’t procreate.
coming from the dirty army itself!
personally i think girls who get paid to have sex are smart. i wish i would too, but it seems too hard to get into. way too many escorts and chargin p*****s. im better off not having any sex until i find a rich man to enjoy having sex with. i suspect it will be another lifetime.
I’ve been in a long term relationship with the same dude for the past 3 years who whines, never works out, and constantly cheats.
Yeah. This is why some of us get tired of this sht and just go the SB route.
Wow, Ed Hardy? I dont know if being a prostitute or using your prostitute cash on Ed Hardy is worse
Haha so true.
$50k and and a pair of CL’s says you’ll let me and my brothers take a watery poop on your thorax, scumbag.
M L and Anonymous,
You are a bunch of bitches never the less probably the same troll. How dare you talk about his daughter! You are most likely fat and definitely a useless bitch who hates their life and projects all negativity on to others and is envious, jealous, and just nasty. Your just mad at life because the only thing you ever came close to ‘breeding’ is shooting a load on to your computer while using your tears for lubrication BITTTCHHH
melissa, i hope that made you feel better about yourself. no need to put BREED in marks, its an actual word i promise. im not fat, im not useless, i am not jealous or envious, if that was the case i would be posting nasty stuff about the women and men who are constantly belittled on here. i must assume that is the reason you are on this site? it hurts you so much to have a mans daughter called ugly, after he has created hell for random men and women by his own words. you know they say what we say about others is a reflection of ourselves. i can say what i want to nik on his website, his job is to call people ugly and find flaws. well, he has created how he looks at other people. ugliness. i dont know why you are so worked up over it unless you are a BREEDER yourself and think that children are all beautiful and are obsessed to have one yourself. newsflash hun: children are not beautiful. they are a reflection of us humans. and none of us are beautiful. were evil human being living on hell. which is why this site exists. if i can state my thoughts then you can too sure, but you just sound uneducated. dont get worked up over a child being called ugly, chances are your child is ugly and you cant face it yourself, or you are envious, jealous and nasty, and UNEDUCATED and felt the need to attack my thoughts.
and yes, i will gladly masterbate my lovely vagina every day because there will never be a human skull coming out of it.
I don’t need to feel better about myself, my feelings nor self esteem is determined by comments posted on the internet, none the less TheDirty. I put breed because ‘l’ commented “you never should have breeded.” and I was referencing a term from that comment which I assumed you wrote as well, hence the M L & Anonymous. So you sound like a real douche by attempting to belittle me for using that word. SO instead of posting stuff about men and women you post something about a baby! The child isn’t even old enough to speak a complete sentence. Don’t you agree that is a pretty low blow, you couldn’t come up with a witty or clever insult about Nik himself since that is who your main goal to attack is. By the way I am not hurt about that comment, I was just like WTF, and taken back by that comment because the convo went from prostitution whoring to babies. Everything you have wrote to justify your comment is a huge contradiction. I have a daughter myself, and yes she was ugly when she was first born as all newborns are in my opinion, however she is a beautiful one year old girl and even if she was ugly or is ugly to someone else, does it matter? And yes, I used to think the same thing as well about all children being born evil. Being ‘dumb’ as you stated I know a thing or too and have studied many theories and thesis in school in my psychology classes. Maybe you should study some of John Locke’s and Comenius’ work to gain a broad perspective instead of being confined to one way (a negative way) of viewing something. You seem to be a pessimist and that in itself is a character flaw that makes someone ugly on the inside which plastic surgery or money can’t fix!
Totally accept where you are coming from, but I posted that spontaneously because I didnt think nik would even approve it. Maybe I should have emailed it to him, that way other parents like you wont get offended. Wasnt sure how ballsy nik was to accept rude comments towards him. I didnt think I needed to be sensitive on this site, after all, I am assuming your not coming on this site to see rainbows and butterflies and read motivational quotes. I dont have a child, so I cant relate with you on that but I am sorry for you because you felt hurt over a comment i posted about nik child. I am not on here posting death threats to the child, I was simply aiming to be verbally crude to a man who seems to do nothing but bring that into his life and does not seem to realize that if he gives hate out towards woman he will sadly get that in return to his own loved ones. Its not a pretty and happy world as I’m sure all of us know. I often find people with children take everything so sensitively and I am sorry for you. But how would you feel if your daughter was degraded and lied about and put down on this site? Sure, itd be nice if everyone could hug it out and agree to never say anything bad about each other but the odds of that seem to be pretty slim. I dont think nik should have bred, he is a rude character and its sad he has brought a baby girl into this world to suffer what he has put many woman through. its sad but it is reality. he might not even approve this.
I stopped reading your reply to this guy two sentences in because you seem over the top ridiculous over some stupid internet bullshit that no one else cares about. You just wasted 30min of your life to write 3 paragraphs of nothingness, RELAX psycho. plural version of breed: bred not breeded. Don’t try to act all smart if you’re going to make elementary school mistakes.
Why do hookers always play the ‘you’re just jealous..and ugly..and fat’ card. Does it make you feel better about yourself after you choke down some strange man’s load?
Just cause someone thinks you’re trash (which you are), doesn’t mean they’re fat and ugly. And even if they were, at least they have a soul behind their eyes.
And how the hell could someone find out if you were a hooker in your past!? It’s not like it’s something that is on your resume or included in a background check unless you were arrested. IGNORANCE get a clue and stay anonymous fucktard Most likely you are the one stuck with a 30k job, probably less than that
Yeah wtf why not approve all comments?
Funny, I’m in law school and didn’t have to be a sugar baby or prostitute to get there. I worked my ass off during college and had 2 legitimate, taxable jobs. I have gucci bags, louboutins, fake breasts… all the materialistic crap you seem so enamored with- all purchased by saving and working hard. I imagine your moral professionalism exam prior to the bar involved a great amount of lying about your lack of integrity. Such a shame nik posted a story on here that perpetuates falsehoods to impressionable young girls. I’m sure your future clients would be thrilled to know about your past.
Everyone has a past. Besides, I think she was letting everyone know that those material things meant nothing in the end.
Working as a sugar baby most likely was a good prep for being a lawyer.
She is open and honest about her past. Doubt anyone will find out. Sometimes people struggle, get onto the wrong path, and reroute themselves. We all make mistakes
You may not be a whore, but you;re still a materialistic piece of shit
love when you sleazy filthy ambulance chasing vultures act as if you are a paragon of virtue, all part of the act I guess
ditto…I’m 28 have a degree, high paying job, range rover, fake tits, louboutin shoes to celine purses … and I AM SO HAPPY I DID NOT HAVE TO SUCK ANYONE’S COCK TO GET IT! No stripping…No Hooking
Still a wh0re in my book.
melissa, you do realize he talks sh** about every mans daughter right?
This is such a refreshing post. I wish more people would read this because a lot of girls today are under the impression that the sugarbabby and porta potty lifestyle is fun and glamorous when its really not.
Sure you get to travel the world, get lavish gifts, and oodles of cash but everything comes at a price and each time you get fucked or shitted/pissed on a part of you dies.
Until one day you wake up at 30+ years old and find your all alone, that is if you don’t die of a disease first.
you girls are idiots. you spend your savings on shoes and purses… not on real estate and stocks, things which will generate more income so you can be safe in case you lose your shitty lawyer job you probably get paid $50 k a year to do. Being a lawyer sucks now days and is probably one of the worst investments now days. You are better off just working in high end retail or learning a trade.
why invest in bags, and shoes? why not real estate and stocks… why go to law school. you know how many lawyers there are? and if you were sugar baby before I’m sure you went to a very medicore law school which is just as good as a Bachelors degree from a medicore school
Word…stop judging caise they are many lost women that need inspiration, and nothing like an ex ho who has gone legit can show them f all u haters
youre full of shit luvvy. you have to live with being a fuken toilet hole for some wrinkly old gruffnut who probably couldnt get an erection without chemical assistance. nexttime youre looking at your diploma think of all the hairy wrinkly balls you had to suck to get there. have some self respect people! life wasn’t meant to be easy so get off your high fucking horse and stop having as delusional attitude toward life. there is one thing you have none of and thats integrity. you are a skanky peice of shit and i hope what you have done comes back and bites you in the ass. youre a fucking educated peanut. good work to all people that refrain from selling there souls/integrity to get ahead the REAL way.
Yeah, a tier 4 law school. Come to Emory and see how you do. Back to ho’ ing!
How does a male get into this for women?
I think everyone that is casting judgement is really missing the point here ..
this is a story of redemption. She realized her path would lead to being 30 and alone, selling her soul for Ed Hardy, being used, etc.
Its a warning not meant to glamorize the life – but to say that its a road you should not go down.
Regardless if you call her a whore, pissing on her chosen professional or the school she goes to (how do you even know?) … isn’t it better she stopped at 21 vs. attempting to be a DC or hitting 30?
Methinks that if you are reading The Dirty and casting judgement – you aren’t exactly people that should be throwing the first stone … in fact you are probably a hypocrite and if Nik had posted her email address be the first people to proposition her to bring her back into the life.
Sounds to me like this girl is wise beyond her years and have a lot of good life lessons to the girls on their site that are acting like idiots for attention and selling their souls.
It truly is a redemption story.