THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I love you and I need your advice. I am 22 years old and I am currently dating a 30 year old man. We have been together for 3 years and I moved in with him after only 3 months of being together. He was once married for 10 years and has 3 kids. I have one little boy of my own also. Since we have been together, I have tried my best to be the best girlfriend, wife, step mom, etc possible. However, it seems like I get nothing in return. He is very unappreciative and can be very disrespectful. He is still super close with his ex wife and tends to put me in very uncomfortable situations. His sex drive is low, which is very frustrating for me. I was once very happy with him but lately I feel like its fading away. Should I give up and move on? Or stick it out and hope everything gets better and back to normal? Also, he says that he never wants to marry again or have any more kids. Which hurts me because I am still young and would love to get married and have more kids one day.. What do I do? Only you can give the most honest and respectful advice.
What are you doing with this guy? You are wasting the best years of your life.- nik