I’m Confused… Help Me
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I love you and I need your advice. I am 22 years old and I am currently dating a 30 year old man. We have been together for 3 years and I moved in with him after only 3 months of being together. He was once married for 10 years and has 3 kids. I have one little boy of my own also. Since we have been together, I have tried my best to be the best girlfriend, wife, step mom, etc possible. However, it seems like I get nothing in return. He is very unappreciative and can be very disrespectful. He is still super close with his ex wife and tends to put me in very uncomfortable situations. His sex drive is low, which is very frustrating for me. I was once very happy with him but lately I feel like its fading away. Should I give up and move on? Or stick it out and hope everything gets better and back to normal? Also, he says that he never wants to marry again or have any more kids. Which hurts me because I am still young and would love to get married and have more kids one day.. What do I do? Only you can give the most honest and respectful advice.
What are you doing with this guy? You are wasting the best years of your life.- nik
honestly why, why are you with him? he sounds like a greasy perv. is yourself esteem really that low? dumb his ass lady.
He says he doesnt want to marrry and hes only 30? Plus hes got a thing for his ex? You will never amount to her unfortunately. The time, the memories, their children, you can never equate to that. Some guys just cant get over their exes. You should leave the guy. I also bet he uses your age against you in some way. If you put 100% effort into the relationship and being good for him and he only puts 10% towards the relationship doesnt that speak volumes? I hate to say it but it seems like he honestly doesnt care about u by what u wrote.
I’m afraid every one on here is right. I feel your pain. U don’t need Nik to tell u what to do honey, u can only measure it with happiness. Don’t waste ur time, look for someone that wants what u want. All the best!
His sex drive is low because he’s probably still banging the ex