So You Want to Find A Sugar Daddy
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’ve noticed a lot of posts lately about sugar baby’s. It’s obvious to me that there is some confusion. First there are different categories of women in this industry. PP’s get hired, usually, only once. These women do degrading disgusting acts and get paid A LOT of cash! Other than the loss of self respect these women tend to be open about their jobs and often find themselves online in photos from the encounter.
Then there are escorts which is really just a nice name for a hooker. These women might to go to dinner or shopping (so that the woman can try to claim she isn’t a prostitute) then the “date” ends in the bedroom, they get paid about $400-$600 per encounter. This is the most discrete kind of women, they tend to see married men so they aren’t usually seen in public with their John.
Last is a sugar baby. These women go on real dates, shopping sprees, and vacations with their sugar daddy. TRUE SB’s get a monthly allowance or receive money whenever they ask for it. Not every (or even most) encounters with the SD end in the bedroom. But in exchange for being taken care of and not opening their legs every time the SD/SB meet, these women are often seen in public with their SD. The kind of men that get a SB tend to be single, wealthy, and lonely men looking for attention. For those of you looking for your own SD here are some things I learned along the way. I’ve had 2 VERY successful SD/SB relationships and they were hard to find. I found them both on one of the most popular SD websites. The only similarity between these two men was that neither of them had a photo. Men on these sites with photos are usually 30k millionaire’s looking for an escort. It is very difficult to find a real SD! I’m an educated 8 (missing +2′s but I often get told I have boobs made for porn) and it took me 3 years of constantly screening SD’s before I landed the one. By “the one” I mean that I honestly (with time) loved him, he was IN love with me, he paid everything for me and gave me spending money. His goal was to make sure that once our relationship came to an end, as they all do, that I would be set for life. Meaning school would be paid off, any desired cosmetic surgery completed, have a network of highly connected people, cultured, and rolling in cash. It can be done, you can find a man to set you up for life but it’s a FULL TIME JOB! The question I got asked the most was about if I minded being seen in public with him and how I deal with it. He was twice my age and not unattractive. In the beginning I lied to everyone but eventually I realized that this man was the best thing that ever happened to me. As a SB people will look down on your decisions but who cares they aren’t taking care of you! So good luck on your hunt and ALWAYS make sure a friend knows where you are at when you are interviewing a SD!
It sounds like being a Porta-Potty is the best option.- nik
Porta potty seems better, one time thing = a lot of cash or an on going relationship with an old man for a lot of cash? The less you have to deal with em the better..
Yeah..I actually agree with this. Seems like far too mch energy and time to invest in finding & maintaining a sugar daddy. You’d have to listen to his drama and feelings, ugh.
Thanks for the novel, skank
Yeah i cant wait for the second one to come out its called So Now You Have Herpes- A skanks guide to STD’s .
It’s probably her grandpa!
I agree with Nik on this one. I’d rather date someone I really like and am attracted to and get paid as a pp on the side. I don’t want someone slobbering all over me all the time. If you are very attractive your SD would want to have sex all the time, so it WILL end in the bedroom.
*I’m not JUDGING you, I’m making an OBSERVATION.*
My SD arrangement is we meet once a week for dinner and sex. Spend about 3 hours together. Get a decent weekly allowance to help, but its not my only source of $. This is WAY less work than having a full time relationship with some old man.
My guy is married. He considers me his “mistress” or “girlfriend” but we both know it doesnt go beyond friendship and mutual benefits.
He is youngish (mid-40′s) and in shape. I prefer my situation, thanks.
Immoral skank.
Karma will catch up to you, what a waste of life you are. I feel sorry for whoever has to claim you as their child.
Have fun rotting in hell you soulless skanky bitch
Still a hooker.
Why don’t you get a real job, you lazy b-tch?
“…My guy is married. He considers me his “mistress” or “girlfriend” but we both know it doesnt go beyond friendship and mutual benefits…”
Well, here’s the rub:
These types of “relationships” fall by the wayside, because expectations change and most often, one person embarks upon stretching the boundaries.
Over all, if your looks (as a SB) and youth are your prime assets, you are on the losing end of the proposition, unless the SD is really unbalanced emotionally and is very needy. Over all, truly wealthy men who have earned their wealth and are able to build upon it, have appreciating assets whereas your assets are depreciating.
In other words, there’s always an abundance of more youthful foxy girls, but not so many dimwitted wealthy men who throw their money away. Plenty of 30K Millis though
Thats fine. I dont plan on doing it long term. I have 2 degrees and work a 9-5 so I don’t rely on it as my main income. Thanks for your concern tho
First of all, no one believes that you have two degrees and work a full-time job–in addition to laying on your back for cash. BS. You might be able to fool your parents, but you can’t fool us.
Second, none of those things matter anyway if you lack morals, ethics, and integrity. Your lack of character and integrity cancels out any of your achievements.
Your actions and your conduct define you as a person, not your “credentials”. Welcome to the real world, little girl.
Does he pick your scabs so you get wet? I hear that’s a Herp trick.
To Sugarbabe:
Your 2 degrees and other job are irrelevant. The reason behind everyones disgust is your lack of a moral compass and willingly sleeping with a married man for personal gain.
You are a soulless, gutter rat. The lowest form of human.
This post is fabricated and someone made it up. 98% of this post is false. Anyone who would actually believe this is a complete idiot! LOL
you know nothing. this is very accurate.
Holy shit who gives a fuck. I make decent mpney as it is working at a rewarding job. I would not trade that in to become an escort/PP/SB.
Also, I like having sex with a guy that is as old as me or just a little bit older. I want to be able to enjoy the sex instead of cringing at the sight of an older man that I have no physical attraction to. No thanks.
Holy shit who gives a fuck. I make decent money as it is working at a rewarding job. I would not trade that in to become an escort/PP/SB.
Also, I like having sex with a guy that is as old as me or just a little bit older. I want to be able to enjoy the sex instead of cringing at the sight of an older man that I have no physical attraction to. No thanks.
Best thing really is to fall in love w/ an amazing guy. Have mutural feelings for each other. My man may not be a millionaire. But he’s well educated and has a very good job and takes great care of me (stay at home wife)… Call me old fashioned … i like shopping ect… but nothing is better then being w/ your best friend every night… going on 7 years for me… Ladies a good man wont make a ho to a house wife… be a good woman, take care of and respect yourself… Men will treat you w/ much more respect and wife you up. Id rather have my loyal man and wedding ring any day then red bottoms… actually I wont buy red bottoms cuz the city I live in mostly hookers wear them…
just fyi your loving husband has f#cked someone else in the time you have been together. All guys get bored and cheat at some point in a long relationship.
sorry but thats just the way it is. A man may “wife you up” but doesnt mean he isnt getting some on the side with someone hotter/younger.
Sounds like someone had been cheating on. Not ALL men cheat if you have a man who adores you. Just cause you can’t find that happiness yourself, doesn’t mean it’s always the case for someone else.
Your man probably has to keep him self satisfied with escorts just to manage being married to you, refusing to be sexy, because a “escort” might dress in such a way… This is racism
I’m with you! Almost 20 years of mostly happy times here. A whore in the bedroom, a lady on the streets. He’s lucky. I’ll do most anything he wants. Except scat/piss, which if he were into that we wouldn’t still be married. Piss isn’t as bad as shit. Hepatitis isn’t sexy.
I cannot lie though, I wish I had the money these hookers have. Someday, if I play my cards right, I’ll have that money. And my dignity and soul (not to mention my vag and ass) intact. Like you, no red bottoms for me. I’d have a sneaker collection lol
all of those descriptions end with one thing …. a girl who has been used and abused for money and who if she finds a good man will always have to worry about a HUGE skeleton in her closet that a man would walk from in a second if he finds out. This crap runs rampant in Newport and one reason I am moving back to San Diego. (yes it happens there too but not near as much as Newport)
I see my SD once every 2 weeks. He’s married and considers me his girlfriend. The beauty of this arrangement is he lives far away. We vacation together, he pays my tuition, we go shopping together and he gives me a sizable amount on top of this.
I’ll never be in love with him. HE’s married and I’m in a real relationship. However, we have mutual respect for each other and a realtionship beneficial to the both of us.
I agree with the poster. These guys won’t post a profile pic on the popular sites. They won’t immediately promise you a specific amount. They’re interviewing you, just as you are interviewing them. Take your time finding the right one and you’ll be set
Why don’t you get a real job and work hard like the rest of us, you lazy skunk?
Who said I don’t work hard? Just because I’m a grad student and not sitting at a 9 to 5′er doesn’t make me any less of a hard worker!
Grad student, huh? You might as well drop out of school now. You’re wasting your time.
Why even bother going to school if you’re going to take the easy route by relying on a wealthy man to fund your education and support your lifestyle?
After all, you don’t need a degree to be a hooker.
Even if you decide to finish school, you’re not going to get very far with your mentality. People who tend to take shortcuts in life usually quit when the going gets tough.
As an independent woman who is financially self-sufficient and paid her college tuition by working full-time, I truly despise people who take handouts in life.
Could I be a Sugar Baby? Absolutely. But my parents didn’t raise me to be a leech.
You are a leech.
You are SCUM. I hope you know how worthless you are and that you’ll never amount to anything.
Do you care that you’re hurting people? Namely your significant other.
You are a worthless whore and sadly women like you will always exist, but arleast know your lack of worth.
Can you email me? I need tips on how to score the perfect one!
You’re in a REAL relationship? Really? I doubt that. Your SO would leave in an instant if he knew you were fucking old men for money, you disgusting gutterslut.
In a few years from now when you’re can’t find a good man and are crying because your dirty past has ruined your chances, just remember everything you posted here.
Poster youre nothing but an immature materialistic whore. If you were actually educated you would know that shiny rocks and fast cars mean nothing. Any commenters who are like the op are just as lame. You are all just little girls too afraid to go out into the real world. Youre part of the “instant gratification” generation who would rather put wrinkly testicles in your mouth than read a damn book for college. Nik seriously get this stupid prostitution shit off ur site. This isnt even the dirty anymore its “how to be a hooker”.
So it took you three years to find yourself a daddy? It seems like the better option to spend that time going to school..build a life for yourself instead of trying to latch yourself onto someone else.
Then again, I guess that’s why I’m not a money-grubbing whore like the poster (..any way you try to ‘sugar’ coat it, a ho is a ho).
My “daddy” paid for half of my BA, thank you very much! Not every SB wastes their money, I did this to become more cultured and pay for my college since I grew up with NOTHING!
Lol what people don’t get is with an arrangement you can make it monogamous and special! With being a portapotty you can catch herpes, etc. Plus you have multiple partners! Blech! Don’t argue bitches you know I’m right.
Useless hooker!
Special?!? It’s not degrading it’s special. LMAO.
Gotta love how people who trade sex for cash refer to being in an industry. Do you have trade associations and selling sex conferences? Let me guess, you have to attend at least 8 hours of continuing education a year to keep your porta potty credentials. Seminars include: new techniques in eating feces and how to not puke when someone craps in your mouth. LMAO.
Other available seminars:
How to live without a soul
Smiling when you’re dead inside
Telling your boyfriend you love him whiles your sugar daddy’s semen drips down your leg
Help I’m 25 and no one will pay me for sex
Morality, who needs it
Blaming your father for your behavior
How to smile through a grudgef*ck when he is mad at his wife
Lying to everyone who loves you
Drugs that make you able to live with yourself
Easy living with STDs
Almost forgot:
Delusion, a hookers best friend
We do actually and award shows called “the hookies”…
We are thought of as therapeutic services like any other health therapy and more specialized than one has yet to be fully recognized by the world; but which has existed thus far for that reason it is expensive as well.
Dr Ho
Wow that’s sad you think that way. You’re perception of reality is really skewed. I hope one day you realize that giving all of yourself to someone who doesn’t love you and you don’t love is not worth it at any price. This isn’t therapy it’s exploitation in both directions.
So you must run the seminar on delusion.
Are you retarded this industry is the oldest known to man! Even animals get “paid” for sex
Comparing prostitutes to animals does not make a good case for what they do.
You are a prisoner of no love and no self worth. You are simply lying to yourselves by claiming you were both in love. Each one
of you served a need for the other but love certainly wasn’t one
of them. Certainly not everyone is looking for love in every relationship but clearly you are playing mind games with
yourself or you just have no idea.
But hey, what’s better than getting a fancy purse by only sucking on a stranger’s sagging, hairy, musty, nut sac and a coin operated cum depository for a living.
What is a porta Pottie?
They are also called honey buckets
I don’t understand whats wrong with people these days! why are you trying to glamorize being a sex worker…. that’s pretty much what you are even if you claim to not sleep with your “sugar daddy’s”. You are still selling yourself for monetary gain… Some people have no dignity and no self-respect. It’s not hard, get your shit together, make an honest living and have respect for yourself and your family… i can’t imagine what your father must think of this… he must be real proud girl…
keep it up
Its sad that your proud of or fine with being a home wrecker while his poor wife and possibly kids are totally in the dark about what he’s doing with you, its so sad and sick! These are peoples lives and feelings you’re fucking with but you could probably care less because your a soulless dog, I’d call you a human being but I don’t want to give you a compliment. P.s. It would REALLY suck if he brought something home from your used up vag, shame on both of you!
Call me thirsty but this is actually something I’m interested in. SD/SB relationships are better than being a PP and I want this girl to email me ASAP!
Thank you for sharing. This is a very interesting topic.
OP claims to be well-educated yet spells “babies” as “baby’s”. Nice try though.
I noticed that too. Very poor writing for a supposed grad student.
I hope all you hookers like cats. Cause that’s the only thing that will be in your life after 35. Drugs & cats.
Clearly, all of you putting down these girls are simply jealous. Admit it or not. You wish you had the looks or guts to do that. You call them “lazy” because you are tired of working 40 hours a week. You wish you could get it easier, but you can’t because you look like S**t.
Lol. You’re wrong. I’m 23, 5’9 and am naturally thin. Your theory has been debunked. Have fun living in your pretend universe where your supposed theory is a reality to you. You’re a worthless, gutter rat skank. OWN IT.
LOL I couldn’t agree more clearly the people talking crap are just haters……oh and to all of you haters posting on here, I also work 40 hours a week so none of you have the right to call me lazy. My sugar daddies just help me so that i’m not struggling….I have 2 because one only has a vacation home in my city so I only see him several months out of the year and he gives me however much cash I need when I see him and takes me shopping and out to dinner and yes occasionally we have sex but not every time. Now my main sugar daddy lives in my town so I see him more often and thus he gives me a larger allowance of about 5000 per month on top of shopping trips, nice dinners, concerts etc. and yes, of course we have sex but only about 1/4 of the times we are together…….and neither of my guys are married so stop hating and go do something productive with your lives you jealous motherfuckers.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG BEEING A SB.MOST OF THESE COMPLAINERS ARE A BUNCH OF HATERS.WOULD LOVE TO BE TRAKEN CARE OF BY A LOVABLE OLDER GUY AND GET A NICE COMPENSATION FOR GIVING THE SD A GOOD TIME.MOST WOMAN GIVE THE SEX FOR FREE IN HOPE TO CATCH THE GUY.THEY FAKE THE SEX AND SOME HOLLOW AND HOPE THE GUY WILL THINK THEY ARE THE BEST THING IN THEIR LIVE. MOST WOMAN FAKE THE SEX,ESPECIALLY WHEN MONEY IS NEEDED.
Sex is a big deal. It’s the most physically intimate thing two people can share and has potentially life changing consequences. You should only have sex when you are an adult and with whom you have a monogamous committed relationship that is based on mutual love and respect. To do otherwise is demeaning to you both. Shame on you for stating otherwise.
I love how this hooker is trying to make it seem like she is any different than the escort. Bitch you are getting money to sleep with an old fart. YOU ARE A HOOKER
I’m curious as to how women with multiple clients, like Ms Roskop keep theirselves smelling fresh and clean all the time. I should buy stock in Summer’s Eve. The Ph balancing soap, and Kama Sutra honey dust is all my mind can think of. Just baby wipes can’t be the only thing. I just keep imagining how ripe the ass and vag must smell. And that her last client should get a damn discount. She claims ‘sweet like honey’ I wouldn’t mind finding out, after I win Fake Equis $$$$
I know you read here Courtney. Honey, you gotta quit checking into Yelp all the time. If someone wanted to nab or rob your ass, you’re really not hard to find. Be careful woman! You’re a professional, and ought to be way more discreet. I’d have serious issues if I were your madam Hun.
I actually went on a sd site a few years ago, i never slept with anyone instead i requested $400 just to meet over lunch & pretend to be interested , & then never talk to them again. Its not that easy obviously not all will agree to do this. That summer though i went on 2-3 lunches like that a month & it was nice having the extra cash.
So you’re not a prostitute, but you’re a lazy scammer? Good to know.
Why don’t you stop trying to prey on others, you disgusting opportunist?
whoever wrote this is actually
Once again, people are going on about morality and integrity on The Dirty! seriously?! You people are all a bunch of a-holes.
It’s not about morality which is about how people treat each other. It’s about self worth. Selling yourself is so destructive. To all who do this please take a second look and realize you are worth more than this.
So what if I use my pussy to get power and money? At least I have money unlike most of the broke bitches probably commenting on here. I also look at it like this: why do something for free when you can get paid for it? Tons of wives and girlfriends out there dread having sex with their men once they’ve gotten older or fatter or hairier etc…but they do it anyways out of obligation. Now I might have sex with an old guy or a harry guy, but at least I get something out of it……so in my eyes its you sad housewives fucking your 300 pound husbands a couple times a week just to maintain your marriage that allows you to live some mediocre lower middle class life that are the dumb bitches or the punks. Being in two relationships with older wealthy men who give me a monthly allowance not only for sex but also for conversation and to accompany them out to eat, to concerts and events…..well to me that’s just good business. I have a normal relationship just like everyone else only difference is I manage to profit from it….and yeah okay, now I have two of them but besides that, there’s really nothing “slutty” about it.
You need to take a fresh look at yourself and realize you are worth more than this. You should look for someone you can love and who will loves you back. Find value in who each of you are as people and not what is in his bank account or what’s between your legs The path you’re on ends only in pain and heartbreak.
You are all just jealous of this girl haha
why are all you bitches judging each other? like why does it even matter what we do or don’t do
why are all you bitches judging each other? like why does it even matter what we do or don’t do