THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need your advice and I need brutal honesty. I met this guy 10 months ago on POF. He is awesome, everything I could ever want in a guy, thing is. I live 10 states away which we both were ok with. I’m starting to develop feelings and get attached and its starting to really sadden me. I have to book the trip and pay all expenses to come see him, bc if I don’t we would never ever see each other. Long story short, knowing he goes out and has potential to meet someone it’s really making me upset. I almost feel like maybe I’m being crazy but I don’t know what to do! I feel like after this long he would want to see me already, it’s constant disappointment from him. Do you think if I end it I’m throwing away the best thing that could ever happen to me? I need help.
If I were you I would cut him off and see if he tries to see you. Guys are desperate and panic when they are in LOVE. On the other hand you could waste the money and just spy on him to see if he is even a real person and not a catfish. Either way people fall in love with the distance, not the person. Having a person in your life on your time is what’s making you happy.- nik