THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik, I’ve been DA Strong for a couple of years, I quite enjoy reading The Dirty and listening to your radio show. Lately I’ve noticed a lot of posts of “This bitch stole my man” “My boyfriend (or girlfriend) cheated on me with this person”, they’re usually weak posts from people airing out the dirty laundry from their crappy relationships. Now, I’ve never been posted on The Dirty or made a submission, I’ve never cheated but there is something I don’t understand with these posts, why do these people who ARE cheated on have so much hate for the person their boyfriend/girlfriend hooked up? Sure, they slept with your boyfriend or girlfriend but this whole spiel of “Stealing” someone doesn’t work. YOU CAN’T STEAL A PERSON. You can’t FORCE a person to cheat.
If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend getting constant texts and photos from another person it’s because your SO gave out their number for a REASON. Stop being so stupid and realize what’s going on in front of you. Where’s the anger at the person who actually cheated on you? Where’s the dirty submissions of your crappy boyfriend/girlfriend? You know, the person who is in a committed relationship with you but went and hooked up with another person!
I’ve been cheated on by one boyfriend and in no way did I try and go out and ruin that poor girls life (and that poor girl had no idea there even was a girlfriend), why take it out on her? Instead I punched my ex in the face and called him out on the piece of crap he was and still is. But now he’s someone elses problem.
So Dirty submitters, take a good hard look at the person who cheated on you and realize the piece of shit you’re with. And if they cheat and you keep going back, here’s some free advice. STOP GOING BACK TO THEM. It’s called self respect boys and girls, quit letting people walk all over you and treat you like sh*t.
These are all great points… now go write a book or something.- nik