THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I know there’s been a wide speculation over Robin Thicke’s video for Blurred Lines…and it kind of just solidified to me that this man is not going to change his behaviour… I was introduced to Robin at Teddy’s at The Roosevelt Hotel back in 2011 by a friend who had a friend that knew him (blah blah) and I had no idea who he was, I’d never heard of him and he hasn’t been big in England up till now. I asked him what he did, he said “I’m a singer, you’ve never heard my songs?” I said I was sorry but I hadn’t, a big grin spread over his face…I ended up being invited to sit on his table with his friend’s and had a great time, it was really my first experience of indulgent night life in LA, it was my first time in the city. I ended up staying at the hotel with my friend and my friend had a call, he passed the phone to me and it was Robin, how he’d gotten the number I have no idea…but he was asking me why I wasn’t coming back to his house for drinks etc…I had just said next time we would all do that for sure etc..he kept asking before finally saying a drunken goodnight.
He had a gig at the Key Club a month or so later which we attended and we sat with his dad Alan Thicke. We then went backstage with his dad where we met Robin again and my friend re-introduced me, he said, “of course, how could I forget” another big grin on his face…We milled around the bar backstage for a while before all heading out to Hyde together. We got there early and he joined and was adamant that I sit next to him…It was one of the best night’s out I’ve had honestly, so much fun…I still look back on it despite everything…And then he invited his friend’s including us back to his home for some drinks etc…This time I went…regrettably….the night went on with much sillyness and fun and much clingyness from him…constantly wanting me to sit next to him etc…People left and my friend left to drop a girl home and he said he would come back afterwards. So that left me Robin alone…He said we should just chill & watch some TV before my friend got back and before I knew it, he had my panty hose off somehow and placed me in his lap straddled before whipping out his big d*ck right in front of me… “touch it, just touch it” he said. I was totally beguiled and in a bit of a champagne super nova by this point…by no means drunk but in that moment I sobered up very quickly…I was 19 and really wasn’t sure how to handle the situation. Before I could answer he picked me up like he would his child and carried me downstairs to his bedroom and put me on the bed, lit the fireplace…thats when I had to say. “No”. That this wasn’t right…I mean this was the house he shared with his wife & child…there were his kid’s toys on the floor…not to mention his dad was staying in the house overnight…….He begrudgingly asked me what time my friend was coming to pick me up, realising he was I guess wasting his time…he had asked me if I would be his date when he was in London…How brazen of him I thought.
I went away not hearing from him again and feeling very uncomfortable and hurt, not for myself but for his wife…For someone who constantly preaches love to her through his music…I do not understand the infidelity…I don’t know the nature of his relationship but it certainly doesn’t seem honest or as pure as he makes it out to be…I can’t imagine she’s completely ignorant as to his antics…and I hope they’re happy…but I also hope that Paula kind of steps things up and doesn’t take any of this lying down……Great voice, wonderful family…but a very disappointing “romantic”…Any other girls ever had a similar experience with him? I don’t know if this is the right thing to do to out him…because I love Robin but…I feel so strongly against people’s antics when it comes to this…especially with marriage…
I’m surprised you didn’t fan out and let him penetrate you. Robin has crossed over to mental God, so everything is fruit to him now.- nik