THE DIRTY ARMY: Hello Nik, I have a situation I want to share with you to get your opinion. Here’s my story. Basically I spent the last 8+ years in a relationship that was destined to fail. I lost my virginity at 16 years old to the same guy that I dated for those 8 years and I had intercourse only with him ever since. I have been single for over a year now and I still have not had intercourse with anybody and there’s a good reason for that. I’ve decided that the next person that I have intercourse with needs to first show me a recent, cleared STD test and I will do the same. Is this too much to ask for? Lots of people just hook up without knowing each others’ sexual history and backgrounds, but I don’t think I can do that. How do I go about asking a guy to get a STD test before I decide he’s worth sleeping with? Thanks.
You sound stuck up. No guy is going to get tested to bang you unless you have been dating him for a couple months. Way to take all the fun out of it.- nik