THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I have a problem and was hoping you could offer some advise. I’ve been dating this guy for a while and like everything about him except for when it comes time to have sex. When we first started dating he would jump on me any chance he got and I loved it! Now it seems like I’m the one who has to initiate it every time. It’s not fun anymore. He has a bad back that he’s planning to get surgery on and says that’s what the issue is, but I can’t help but wonder if it’s because he’s getting it from someone else. Should I say something to him? I really want to be with him but I also need a man who can please me. Your thoughts?
He is cheating on you or rubbing it out to porn during the day.- nik