THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey there nik- First off, let me preface this by saying I didn’t want to do this. What you’re about to read isn’t done out of animosity or revenge, I’m doing this because if I can stop one guy from making a huge mistake, I’ll do it. I’m not the best person in the world. Don’t have a car, I have to work 7 days a week when my boss doesn\’t get drunk ad just not work, I live in a shitty little apartment and any money I make is instantly sucked up. That\’s my deal, but I work hard for everything I have or have ever had. The person I\’m about to talk to you about is my exact opposite and made my life hell. So this person, who I won’t name because some of you know her, is actually a good person in many aspects. Her problem is her ego, and her drinking. She used to complain that I never had money, all the time not realizing that I\’d spent my money. On her. I would buy her food, put gas in her car, buy her alcohol (the vast majority of my money went here). She would get up at 8 am and need a tall boy just to get up on the morning. When she\’d get drunk, she had a hair trigger. Anything set her off and sent her into a flying rage, and this is coming from a guy with anger issues. The nite we broke up, she informed me in detail of how superior she was to me, threw all my stuff outside, slapped me and literally tried to THROW my dog across the room for peeing on her carpet out of fear. They say insanity is repeating the same mistake after getting the exact same result. If this is true I am a madman. I got back with her a month later, after she had replaced me after 2 weeks (ain’t love grand?). She dumped the guy and got back with me the same nite. This time it lasted 12 hours. In that 12 hours she gave me an ultimatum about one of my friends, insulted another friend, insulted my house and my roommate, got drunk by 10 am, slapped me, choked me, then said I tried to choke her when I took her hand off me, awhile damn near biting off a chunk of my arm. Nik, a man as smart as yourself would know that if I was choking her, my arm would\’ve been nowhere near her mouth, but around her neck. Plus i’m twice her size, I can lift her one handed if I felt the need to. If I wanted to choke her, there would\’ve been no doubt that I would\’ve succeeded. And of course, as I walked away, she was on the phone with the guy she just broke up with. Again, I know I’m not much better than a scrub. But how superior is a woman who lives and drives in property owned by her mother? How superior is a woman who went to culinary school for years, and can\’t hold a job longer than a month? How superior is a woman who tells a man she loves him and then throws him away like garbage? I\’m a poor blue collar guy, and if she is what superior is, I\’m glad I\’m inferior. Again, I\’m not trying to insult. I\’m trying to warn. Gentlemen, if you see this woman out in the world, do yourself a favor and stay away. She\’s sweet, she\’s charming, but all of this is a facade. She broke my heart and I don\’t want anyone else having to go with what I went thru. This is basically to get what happened out in a nutshell. I guess I\’m not really writing this for anyone, I\’m writing this so I can move on. I hate to sound so bitter, and yeah maybe i am a little. But despite all my flaws and shortcomings, i didnt deserve any of that, and neither does anyone else. Thanks for listening.