THE DIRTY ARMY: So my X lost his brain this whole last yr and started hitting me and trying to get me to have 3 somes and let people watch us have sex? The sex wasnt even goid sex he kept re enacting rapes knowing I had been raped! Then talking about being a rapist or wanting to have another girl with a strap on hittin him from behind? Like really? Is this what the whole world is coming to? When I met him he was so normal we had great sex everyday. Then all of the sudden he wants guys watching or going after he is done? To me this is disgusting! I am a one person woman. Ih did i mention we were married? Well we are and while he lost his head and i was working 90 hrs a week paying all the bills and paying for all his things and his life. He was cheating on me, lying to my face, then hitting me and blamming me saying I wasnt hi obdient wife! Yes this is his reasoning for being an abuser. Its all my fault for asking him to simply do things around the house? Then when I finally said enough is enough he throws me out, after I got him mental help. For being so bi polar and he even admitted to being mental. So please let all these woman know to watch out for him!