THE DIRTY ARMY: After recently moving back to Wickliffe I hooked up with Michael Rypinski. He and I grew up together, I know him better than himself, or so I thought. After initially hooking up with him we started dating and that continued for the past 3 years. Unbeknownst to me the entire time he was \”dating\” me he was dating another woman. I only recently found this out because he set up such an elaborate lie about his mother… Yesterday he wakes up panicked that he missed a phone call from his sister about his Mom being rushed to the hospital because she had a heart attack. OMG! He left, updated me throughout the day and evening…we went to lunch and had a quickie at his place in the couple hour break he had until the test that afternoon…she had a heart cath done and it didn\’t go well…she needed to be transported the main campus downtown…on the way there she flat lined…they brought her back but she was now too unstable to undergo the triple bypass she needed. IT WAS ALL A LIE!! His mother was never in the hospital. It was a lie to me because he had plans with her and some friends for his birthday! WTF??? I only found that out because I called a friend who I knew would tell me the truth. That is when I found out what has really been going on… Mike only told me that she was friend. That was fine with me as long as that was all it was. But it wasn\’t. My best girlfriend went on Facebook and found this woman\’s facebook page…it contained pictures of the two of them and his kids!!! WTF??? Talk about a slap in the face. My whole world came crashing down. He really had been dating her the entire time he was with me. All of a sudden I felt like I was in one an episode of Criminal Minds or CSI where the wife finds out her husband has been leading a double life. He was doing that, for 3 YEARS! I will give him kudos for being able to keep it up for so long. But I also found out that he may have also been seeing yet another woman in the beginning of our \”relationship\”. So in case you lost count that is now 3 women. Woman #2 got wise about woman #1 and kicked him to the curb. I also found out that when he told me he was on vacation with his kids traveling down to his Dad\’s place in Florida that he was really with her. He spent most of the weekends with her and during the week with me. Everybody knew they were a couple. His excuse for not bringing me around his family was that he wasn\’t ready for it due to his 2 failed marriages. YA RIGHT! I found out that the hotel he took me to is his usual place to take chicks. I would love to know what he told his kids when it came to me spending time with him and them. He must have threatened them, he had too. Those poor kids. He took me to church with his kids. I had been to his house with his kids. We went out, went shopping, he was even there when I had major surgery. The text messages telling me how much he loves me, misses me, can\’t wait to be with me, not to mention the sexting. Oh my! I know, you are wondering how stupid could you be? Well, honestly his cover stories worked. They sounded plausible. I look back now and I just cry. I was betrayed in the worst way possible. He became more than just a lover, he was my best friend, my confidant, my man. He has been my friend for over 30 years and this is what he does to me. I guess some people just don\’t have a conscience. I really do wonder how he slept at night. I also wonder if he shared the same fetishes with her that he did with me? I don\’t really care. It\’s over. The sad part is that woman #1 may have known about me all along, just not to the extent that it really was. She needs to run away, fast. So ladies, if you ever see this man…RUN AWAY AND WARN YOUR GIRL FRIENDS!!!