THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, This is 32yr old widower Mandy Polk, a couple years back her pizza delivery man husband was DUI in their minivan, crossed the center lane struck another vechile head on, ki***d himself. Leaving her as a single mom to 3 small children. When I first started talking to her, heard this I couldn’t help but feel sorry for her, espically her kids. I still couldnt help but wonder what would drive a man with a wife& young kids waiting for him home to do something so reckless. Althrough I wasn’t immediately attracted to her physical appearences her personality, (what I thought was her having all her $hit together made up for that. She seemed so sweet, innocent, she really played the widow card to her advantage. I dated her for a few months even through she had me in age by almost 10years. I’ve had bad luck with picking the crazy chicks, I thought this one was different. She had a job, a house in ‘Shaler’ she said, a car, overall seemed like a good mother. The house she lives in turned out to be a run down duplex in some back alley in Etna, she was far from a good housekeeper, the place was always a wreck. Her car turned out to be a tiny old beater that was always breaking down, she shoved 3 car seats in the back along with her 3 screaming munkins. The low paying job she worked just to receive free daycare get away from her kids, other public aides was even worse. She was always meeting new men, bringing them home around her still grieving children, who were really starting to act out. She was always receiving flowers, going places with her 60 some year old married boss. I started to realize this was so much more than I bargained for, all I wanted was someone I could do good with, not for. Her true colors started to show, she was messing around behind my back with a few different men, her oldest son called me by the wrong name a few times, since he was always meeting new men. Things went down hill from there. She showed me what the definition of a crazy, jealous woman was. To make matters worse with all her other bad qualities now shining bright I started to notice just how unattractive she really was. I didnt notice at first but after awhile she started to smell down there, I think it was because she didnt shower regularly. She started to look more, more like a clown with the tons of makeup she was always piling on. She wanted to keep our relationship a big secret, was always posting selfies on facebook all looking exactly the same, showing only her face, never her body. I guess that’s because she’s a bigger girl espically in the mid section, the weight somehow made it’s way to everywhere except her ass/ boobs she’s espically flat in those area’s. I don’t know how I managed to look past her misshaped long donkey face, big nose, fangs, deformed ears just because I felt bad for her. I’m only posting this to warn the next sucker she gets her claws into she doesn’t know the meaning of monogamy, will string you along with more baggage than you’ve ever dreamed of wanting/ needing. She had other bad habits I wont mention here be warned men of all ages.