THE DIRTY ARMY: nik this asshole lied to me for two and a half years of what I thought was a great relationship. Turns out he had been cheating on me for the last 8 months or so of the relationship, and that’s all that I know of. When I lost my father, he told me he would always be there for me no matter what and that he would love me through my grief, etc. But when I found out he was cheating and confronted him, he told me that I pushed him away and it was my fault he cheated because I made him the most important man in my life, and he folded under that pressure. He then told me that I never trusted him, that no matter how it would have ended I would have bad mouthed him, and that I should leave him alone. He spent a year studying abroad in Germany, and never once did I suspect him of cheating. I suspected him when his behavior became increasingly erratic and he would disappear for 24 hours at a time with little or no explanation. He also decided to abandon me to find a ride to my wisdom tooth surgery because, and I quote, it was too much to ask his boss for a morning off of work. His most recent fling was during a huge health scare for me. So post-surgery and in the middle of the biggest health scare of my life, he decided to break my heart and tell me it was my fault. To top it all off, I got together with his latest girl and his best friend to compare details. He strung a huge web of lies to all of us. He told me his best friend had given his girlfriend herpes, he told his fling all kinds of shit about how horrible his best friend’s relationship was, and he told his best friend that he was so proud of him for being happy in a long-term relationship. He told the other girl that he was a vegetarian and had been for 5 years, when in fact I am. This guy has ex-girlfriends all over town, all of which he’s cheated on at some point or another. He’s now a hairy 28yr old with a comb over who lives with his mother and has a shit job. He drives a red ford focus and preys on younger women with low self esteem and/or have just moved to the area. Tell everyone you know to watch out for this guy!
This is why chicks date older men, to avoid this immaturity.- nik