THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik, I met this guy a couple of months ago, everything was great and happy until a month later he told me had a girlfriend (we’ve never done anything sexual together due to my religious beliefs). I was heartbroken. But for some reason I still wanted us to communicate, and we did, and we still are. The following months he would never bring up his girlfriend or anything of that sort, I looked at his instagram and saw no signs of this girl. He would still take me out, and I ended up performing oral on him a couple of times. But the thought of him “probably” having a girlfriend is eating me alive because now he’s cheating. I don’t know if I should check out for good. Would a guy lie about having a gf even if he doesn’t?
For some reason oral sex doesn’t count as sex to me. If you are not stabbing guts its not real sex. You should ditch this guy, if he doesn’t want to be inside of you than he doesn’t really love you.- nik