THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I met my boyfriend 3 months ago and everything has been amazing, He’s like the perfect man! Only one thing has been bothering me, everytime I’m with him his Ex always blows up his phone and always uses their child as a excuse to get him to talk. They broke it off right when I met him. She doesn’t know about me and he hides me from his Facebook. He tells me its because of his job and the crazy Ex. I’ve never dated someone with a kid. But when I see txt messages saying “your a sh*tty dad”… “I know your cheating on me” it makes me wonder. He tells me she’s crazy and obsessed with him. I don’t know if I should stay or go? Does the baby’s mother always win in the end? Has anybody had a successful relationship with a man with a crazy baby mama? He swears he doesn’t care about her anymore… and if thats the case how can he get rid of her drama so we can move on?
Go! Run! Why waste any energy dating a person who cannot be proud of you. When you hide someone, it just means you are dishonest.- nik