THE DIRTY ARMY: Ladies, if you see this guy run for the hills!! He is a classic mental case. People warned me about him but I wanted to see for myself. Boy what a huge mistake. He is a fireman in Salem, NH with 2 boys. Seems to have his shit together initially. Comes on very strong. He will say and act like he’s head over heels in love, buy flowers, take you to nice restaurants, writes poems, introduces you to his family right away even the kids. Tells the kids how he adores you, kisses you in front of them, tells them he’s going to marry you soon. Invited me to go away with them on the second date. He will be totally attentive for a month or so, calling and texting around the clock. Good morning good nights. Does not miss a beat. Invites you to visit him at work and meet his friends. Soon after this courtship, his narcissism starts to kick in. Its all about him. Every single conversation he talks about himself, if you try to speak, he speaks over you and starts on a boring 20 min story. This guy appears to be great until he get what he wants. Nothing great in that dept either!! Then he just stops calling and texting cold turkey and wont answer any calls from you. He starts texting excuses…father is in the hosp, I have the flu, kids have homework blah blah blah and keeps saying he will call you in a few mins to never call you back again. If you call him out on his behavior, he will freak out on you, act like you are crazy and ends the relationship via text. Also caught him on a dating site while he was with me. He is on POF under LQQKHERE74. Beware!!! Very charming at first but a wolf in sheeps clothing. He will tell you he is going to propose in a few months and have babies with you. He also says how you are the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. All BS lies. He also has a weird paranoia issue mainly focused on Facebook. He will not allow you to tag him in any photos or post any status updates or anything bc he thinks everyone is watching him on there! If you attempt to do this, he will freak out and block you with no warning. Also, if you are planning on having sex, bring some viagara with you!!