THE DIRTY ARMY: Hi Nik, I’m a big fan of your site. One of the things that I find the most fascinating is when I read about the lavish life style that a lot of girls posted here have. I even have a few friends that have sugar daddies and they make it seem like its the best. I have big potential, I’m not a model or even close but I am attractive, I’m 23, and care-free. My one problem is that I’m currently in a relationship. I’ve been dating him for 8 months now. He is no millionaire but he can somewhat support me. He loves me and is very open about that. I know that if I stay with him I will live okay. But I don’t want to settle, I feel that at this age I should enjoy it and live the life style I have always wanted (travel, shop, party, not work) However, I’m confused. I don’t want to leave him, and I also don’t want to cheat on him by having a double life. What do you think I should do?
You sound like a selfish b*tch who has no concept of love.- nik