THE DIRTY ARMY: NIK I AM EXTREMELY DEVASTATED. I HAVE BEEN DONE VERY WRONG. Unfortunately, Charles is not the man he confessed to me he was nor the man he played like he was in the beginning. I’m going to get to the point because it’s crucial that others know the truth that I have seen with my own eyes. Charles told me he was straight (in which I am a straight woman) come to find out he is not. He is downlow/goes both ways. On the eve of New Years I found Charles in bed with a male (this male is a family friend whom I’ve known every since childhood & is openly gay). To my dismay Charles slept with the male (I’ll just call Roger) in my condo. I walked in & found them. Usually Charles would hear when I pull into the garage but on this day my girlfriend took me to work because my car’s transmission was pulling therefore she dropped me off at home. It threw him off-guard to not hear the garage door let up & when I walked into my home & went into my bedroom there he was with Roger scrambling to put his underwear on. I was mad at Roger but my anger was fierce for Charles because he always talked so ugly about gays as if they were ****s of the earth. To see him in my bedroom with Roger was too much for me to take. He has a son & a daughter…his son is gay. Charles has always talked so down about his son saying he’s embarrassed that his son is “a ***”. Last but not least, I discovered 3 weeks after finding him indulging that I have ******, **. I am in the process of seeing an attorney regarding this. I’ve been with Charles for exactly 7 months & I told him up front that I wanted a monogamous relationship & he agreed wholeheartedly. I soon found out that he uses his involvement in the military as a cover for seeing other women. I know this simple because he was using my computer & didn’t log off during a session & I found messages to 2 other women. When I questioned him about it he lied & said they were both his cousins. I seriously doubt one would tell there cousin that their cousin to “bag it up” in a photo.
Nice gazebo…I’ve been to a marine to.- nik