THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, how could my normal girl Karinna Revoredo become a drug addict in Miami Addicted to cocaine and Heroine. I’ve always known my girlfriend used cocaine, but as far as I knew, it was purely recreational. A few months ago, my girlfriend decided to come clean about her usage after an embarrassing night with her girlfriends. During the girls night out, she got sick from alcohol and blow, threw up and became incredible sad and emotional in front of her girlfriends (some of which she was just getting to know). Needless to say, she was embarrassed and recognized the need to talk to me about it. She told me that she does blow pretty frequently. This began to explain the fact she was always broke, ran random “errands,” and was often anxious, depressed and overly emotional. She expressed a desire to get clean. She flushed her bag of coke down the toilet. She said she was ready to change. I was also ready to help. The next day, I called all around town for free counseling/clinic options. The ones that seemed like the best, required that she make the appointment herself. I gave her all of my research and told her exactly who to call. She said she would call that week… she never did. She said she didn’t want to be in a group and that she wanted to see a psychologist, but she has no health insurance. I suggested she delete the numbers for her dealers she agreed, but never did I told her that she needed to discuss this with her closest friends to help create a better life.
You can’t fix a person who doesn’t want to be fixed. Let Karinna be broken.- nik