THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I visit your site once a day to see what not to do. I am turning to you as someone who might understand my peril. I moved to US 15 years ago and I have managed to graduate school with Masters Degree and I currently make around 250k a year. I am currently 30 years old white dude and my problem is that I only manage to date 5-6′s mainly due that I don’t do drugs, or any of the stupid sh*t that is acceptable these days. I travel quite often abroad and within US, I have a great 100k vehicle and nice house, But those 9′s and 10′s seem to ignore me completely, maybe due that I still have a small accent that pushes them away or worry for some reason. Is this something that is way of the world here in the midwest or I should try something different?
Times have changed. You need to be more forward. DM a girl you would like to sleep with and don’t hit on them like a weirdo. Simply state — “Hey I have a lot of extra funds laying around and I would like to make your car payment.” This line is subtle and not aggressive. A great opener.- nik