
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, first of all I love your site..you’re awesome! I’ve been thinking about submitting this for a while now since I can’t really ask anyone for advice..so here we go. Basically I’ve been dating this guy for about 6 months now. He is amazing to me. He treats me like every girl should be treated, like a queen. I did not have sex with him until we became official, which is about 3 months ago. Here is where the problem begins.. Nik, he is waaaaaaaay too small for me!! He’s no more than 3 inches on his best day! I LOVE sex just not with him. I find myself making up excuses not to do it because i just don’t feel like faking it. I actually fake it all the time so I can help him finish faster because I just dont feel like dealing with it. I often look at other men. I constantly find myself wanting to txt/call my ex (sex was amaaazing) as well. Nik what should I do? Should I leave him? and no, toys are not an option, never been a fan, I need/want the real deal!! BTW he is a little bit on the chubby side, I got him Cellan about two weeks ago and HOLLY SH*T IT WORKS!
You need to leave him. The longer you stay with him the bigger impression you are making on his heart. Make the break up quick and clean so he can heal faster. Also, you must be honest with him and tell him why. A man cannot develop unless he knows his flaws. This will only help him on his journey of finding another girl who doesn’t care about his Greg size.- nik