THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, DA strong for years now and always look forward to the honest truth that you give to people! I’m facing a family moral dilemma of my own and figured I could count on you to give me the truth straight up! We’ll my parents have been married for almost 40 years, I always thought they had the perfect relationship! High school sweethearts and I thought best friends but like all good things ,there’s probably something not right! We’ll after some shady sh*t like late texts and shady phone calls I decided to snoop around on the family laptop! I logged into my dad’s windows account and sure enough he has a Facebook page which he claims Facebook is stupid and people his age shouldn’t have one! I’ve found messages from some ugly chick and I mean haggard saying miss ya and love ya and I don’t know what to do! My mom is a good looking older woman and this lady doesn’t even compare to her! Not being biased cause it’s my mom but it’s just the truth! So there’s where the dilemma comes in, I’ve had this secret for a few months now and I know he leaves work to meet up with this woman! Do I tell my mom and risk my whole family fallin apart or do I let it be? Thanks for your honest opinion!!!
You tell your Dad that he needs to tell your Mother what’s up. Confront your Father first and see if he does the right thing. If he is a man, he will be honest and put the family in front of his own sexual needs. Then it is up to you to be there for your Mom. This is just a family check-up. Sometimes you need to work as a team to remember what is right. Your Dad lost his way, not his mind. I’m sure everything will be ok. If Kobe Bryant can rape on the side and still have a family, you have nothing to worry about.- nik